Fran Graalum

fran graalum

May 28, 1930 ~ April 9, 2025

Born in: Drayton, North Dakota
Resided in: Fargo, North Dakota

Frances Jean Graalum took the hand of God on Wednesday, April 9, 2025, at the age of 94. Fran fought a long and hard battle against COPD. She was born to Dr. George and Mildred Waldren on May 28, 1930, in Drayton, ND.

As a young girl, Fran lived in Pembina, ND until 1936 when the family moved to Cavalier, ND. Fran graduated high school in 1948. She attended UND (go Sioux) and transferred to Northwest Institute of Medical Technology in Minneapolis, MN.

Fran and Wally married on May 9, 1953 in Cavalier. They lived in Minot, ND until 1960. Fran and Wally settled back in Cavalier to raise their three children, Debbie, Rick and Jim.

Fran was an active member of the Cavalier Presbyterian Church, 4H leader, American Legion Auxiliary, Daughters of the American Revolution, Eastern Star, Cavalier Study Club and her beloved Cavalier Bridge Club. Fran also loved volunteering for federal, state and local elections.

Fran spent most of her life as a homemaker, which she thoroughly loved. Her house was a revolving door of coffee drinkers and laughter.

Fran and Wally moved to Fargo, ND in 1991, to be closer to their family. Fran became an active member of the Nativity Catholic Church. She attended daily Mass and cherished all her Nativity friends. You would often find her in the parish kitchen helping with funerals, going to bible studies, drinking coffee and visiting with friends in the Fireside Room. Fran also became lifelong friends with Wally’s Kiwanis buddies and their wives.

Fran led a full and meaningful life, impacting many people with her kindness and fun-loving nature. She was a cherished mother, grandmother, and friend who always greeted others with a positive attitude and a smile. She will be deeply missed by all who knew her.

Fran has been reunited in Heaven with her parents, her husband Wally Graalum, newborn son Charles, her brother Charles Waldren, and great granddaughters Aubrey Larson and Kensington Graalum.

Her three children survive her: Deborah Martin (Scott), Richard Graalum (Terryl), and Jim Graalum (Julie). Additionally, she is survived by 10 grandchildren and 15 great grandchildren: Tyler (Sarah) Martin, Annie Hertz (Troy), Heather Ostheimer (Kailun), Kelly Perlich (Josh), Kyle Graalum (Tiffany), Kristopher Graalum (Christina), Kayla Graalum (Cody Wald), Michael Graalum, Stephen Graalum, Justine Bullinger (Zach). Great grandchildren: Kaden, Ellis, Jada Martin, Madison Larson, Rachel Hertz, Isaac, Zoe, Ian Ostheimer, Anika, Jacob, Jackson Perlich, Briggs, Lennon Graalum, Hayden, and Halle Graalum.

Visitation and prayer service: 7:00 P.M. Friday, May 9, 2025, with visitation starting at 6:00 pm at Boulger Funeral Home.

Funeral: Saturday May 10, 10:30 at Nativity Catholic Church.

In lieu of flowers, the family prefers memorials to Fargo Memorial Honor Guard, Hospice of the Red River Valley, or a charity of your choice.

Services

Prayer Service - Friday: May 9, 2025 7:00 pm

Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103

701-237-6441
www.boulgerfuneralhome.com

Visitation - Friday: May 9, 2025 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103

701-237-6441
www.boulgerfuneralhome.com

Funeral Mass - Saturday: May 10, 2025 10:30 am

Nativity Catholic Church, Fargo
1825 S 11th St.
Fargo , North Dakota 58103

(701) 232-2414
https://www.nativitycatholicchurch.net/

Burial - Saturday:

Holy Cross Cemetery North, Fargo
32nd Ave N and University Ave.
Fargo, ND 58102


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Charities

The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in Fran Graalum 's name.

Fargo Memorial Honor Guard

1001 1st Ave S

Fargo,

North Dakota

(701)367-5424

fargomemorialhonorguard.org

Hospice Red River Valley

3800 56th Ave S

Fargo,

North Dakota

8002374629

secure.acceptiva.com

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Guestbook

  1. Deb, Rick and Jim, Gary and I extend our deepest condolences. Wherever your mom went, laughter reigned. She was a fun lady. But life without our parents is very different. Prayers and hugs! Gary and Kerry Gauffin

  2. We offer our sincere condolences. We will miss our lunches and talks during our visits. Ken and Carol

  3. Fran was a long time member of the Daughters of the American Revolution (DAR). Following her mother’s membership to honor her ancestors. We will miss her.

  4. One Oak hasn’t been the same without her. Nor have meetings of the group formerly known as Sioux Boosters. It was great having that little island around us in the middle of Bison territory.
    RIP Granny KooKoo.

  5. Fran was so friendly. So I enjoyed seeing and visiting with her at church. Sorry for your loss.

  6. Fran was a wonderful friend at One Oak Place!! She and I shared a birthday and celebrated together in various ways. She could always make me laugh!! Sincere condolences to her family and all those touched by her life!!

  7. I Worked For Fran At Riverview & The Bond We Had Was Unbreakable! I Loved Working With Her Everyday , Doing Her Hair & Makeup Everyday Even If It Wasn’t A Special Occasion, Of Course She Had To Look Like The Diva She Was ! So Sad The Time We Had Was Just Not Enough , But Very Much Appreciated!! Rest In Paradise Beautiful AKA “Grandma” 🩷 I Know Your Dancing In The Sky ! My Condolences & Prayers To The Family

  8. Franny’s Family, You could see her smile a mile away and hear her laughter even farther. Your Mom-Grandma was full of life, full of love for her family, friends and community. There will be many memories shared and stories told about her that will bring you all comfort, strength and peace in the days ahead. My deepest sympathy to all of you, Michelle (Hardy) Murray

  9. Cousins Deb Rick and Jim my deepest condolences for the loss of your mother. She was a wonderful woman. I will miss her smile. I will always treasure it blanket. She made me !

  10. Fran is a wonderful aunt! Such a awesome blessing to everyone she encountered. Her sense of humor was second to none!!!! She will always be in our thoughts and prayers.


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