Abel Gracia

A live stream of Abel’s service will begin at 7:00pm

Abel Gracia, a beloved father, son, brother, uncle, and friend, left this world on May 22, 2025, age 47, from his courageous fight with cancer, surrounded by the warmth of family and friends.

Abel was born on May 22, 1978, in Raymondville, Texas, to Armando and Consuelo Gracia and grew up as the second youngest of eight siblings. From a young age, Abel exhibited an extraordinary passion for life, excelling in sports and bringing laughter to all those around him. He grew up in Uvalde Texas until he moved to Fargo/ Moorhead in 1992 and made it his home.

Abel obtained his GED and later received his CDL, creating his career as a truck driver. Abel was passionate about working at Friendship Inc. and helping those with disabilities. He dedicated 18 years at Friendship and spoke of the great times spent there.

Abel was known not only for his athletic prowess but also for his loving nature and infectious laughter. He was the type of person to give you the shirt off his back, to have the biggest smile, and to be there when you needed him the most. Family meant everything to Abel. His queen (Mom) was priority, and his unconditional love never went unnoticed. He would instigate BBQ’s and family gatherings where many of the fun times and memories were created. Abel also had a love for animals. Especially for his beloved dog Duke. Abel always said, “I just want to be better than I was yesterday.” He will be remembered for his bravery and selflessness.

In 2001 Abel was blessed with his first daughter Destiny and blessed again in 2004 with his second daughter Aaliyah. Abel always said his daughters brought joy to his life. He was a proud father and enjoyed every moment alongside Destiny and Aaliyah. His daughters meant the world to him and defined his entire life.

A talented pool player, Abel formed a close-knit community with friends through his love for the game, always sharing laughter and camaraderie across the table. Playing pool was a significant part of his life. His legacy of kindness and friendship will continue to resonate with those who were fortunate enough to know him. Abel’s pool family played a huge role in his life and meant a lot to him.

Though Abel has departed, his light will continue to shine brightly in the hearts of all who knew him. He will be deeply missed.

Abel is survived by his daughters, Destiny and Aaliyah; mother, Consuelo; his seven siblings; Iris (Miguel) Sias, Julissa (Robert) Ybarra, Lorenzo (Gina) Gracia, Connie Gracia, Amanda (Jason) Vargas, Aida Gracia, and Nano (Kathy) Gracia, and many nieces and nephews, Cousins.
Abel was preceded in death by his father, Armando Gracia, and older brother Armando Gracia Junior.
And in the immortal words of Abel Gracia, “That’s what’s up.”