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Dr. Abdallah Abou Zahr

January 1, 1984 ~ January 23, 2026

Born in: Saida, Lebanon
Resided in: Fargo, North Dakota

Abdallah’s service will be livestreamed and viewable below starting at 3:30 p.m. Wednesday, February 18, 2026:

Dr. Abdallah Abou Zahr lived fully in his roles as a devoted husband, loving father, cherished family member, loyal friend, and extraordinary physician.

He was born in Saida, Lebanon, on January 1, 1984, to Ramzi and May Abou Zahr. From an early age, he knew he wanted to become a physician. His youth fostered a deep love of the Mediterranean Sea, sports (basketball, ping-pong, and futbol), food—especially sweets—and a lifelong curiosity about world dynamics.

He completed medical school at the American University of Beirut in 2008 and then moved to the United States to pursue advanced medical training. He completed his internal medicine residency at UT Southwestern in Dallas, followed by a hematology/oncology fellowship at Mount Sinai Beth Israel in New York City, and a leukemia fellowship at MD Anderson Cancer Center in Houston.

His career ultimately brought him to Fargo, North Dakota, where he found what would become his dream job as a hematologist/oncologist at Roger Maris Cancer Center in 2017. When speaking of the future, he once told his wife that he did not want to retire “until they kicked him out,” because of how deeply he loved his work. His patients consistently spoke of his brilliance, compassion, and dedication to saving lives. Abdallah, ever humble, would simply respond, “It wasn’t me, it was the medicine.”

In 2019, he met his future wife, Shauna Erickson (Abou Zahr), whom he described as “bringing color to his life” and as his “rock.” In a tragic turn, just three months before their planned wedding, Abdallah discovered breast cancer in Shauna. She credits him with saving her life. The couple eloped in 2021 shortly after her diagnosis, knowing that all they truly wanted was to be married to one another.

Just one week after their honeymoon, Abdallah—previously the picture of health—was diagnosed with myxoid liposarcoma. Together, they faced cancer with resilience and hope, preparing to celebrate survivorship and build a family. Cancer, however, had other plans. While Shauna was in her second trimester of pregnancy, Abdallah was diagnosed with a terminal recurrence and given a six-month prognosis. Though the journey was not easy, he far surpassed that prognosis and completed his heroic battle on January 23, 2026, when he passed away with Shauna at his side.

He fought tirelessly to witness the sacred milestones of his children’s lives and cherished “every moment” he had. Though initially unsure about having children, the birth of his daughter, Nadia, revealed a role he loved even more than being a physician. He immersed himself fully in fatherhood, caring for her, doting on her, singing made up songs to her, and becoming her favorite place to rest until his body no longer allowed it. As his health declined, it became clear that he was holding on to meet his son, Tarek—meaning “bright star”—who was born in October, 2025.

Abdallah was known for his love of food, travel, cycling, current events, and practicing medicine at all hours of the day. He filled every room with his warm, humble smile and eyes that seemed to embrace everyone he met. He lived gently and nonjudgmentally, offering a worldly and pragmatic perspective that inspired and challenged those around him.

Abdallah is survived by his beloved wife and best friend, Shauna Erickson-Abou Zahr; his children, Nadia (2) and Tarek (3 months); his parents, Ramzi and May Abou Zahr; his sister, Nahed; his brother-in-law, Majdi Bizri; his niece, Natalya; his sister- and brother-in-law, Ashley and Michael Campion, and their children, Finley and Bridger; his parents-in-law, Kevin and Kim Erickson; and many extended family members, friends, colleagues, and patients whose lives he profoundly touched. His legacy is one that will live on indefinitely through the lives he changed for the better.

Abdallah viewed plants, flowers, and jewelry to all be wastes of money. He also passed away with worries about the economic impact his death would have on his family, so in lieu of flowers the family has a fund set up to support Shauna and the children at Gate City Bank under “Abou Zahr Family Benefit.”

Shauna is collecting stories about Abdallah to save for the children to have. If you have one you’re willing to share, but don’t plan to speak at the upcoming celebration of life, please consider mailing them to Boulger Funeral Home and they will route these special keepsakes to Shauna to preserve for the future.

A Celebration of Life to be held at 3:30 p.m. Wednesday, February 18, 2026 at RiverHaven Event Center in Moorhead, MN, with visitation at 2:30 p.m.

Services

Celebration of Life: Wednesday, February 18, 2026 3:30 pm

RiverHaven Events Center
700 1st Ave N
Moorhead, MN

(218) 477-1717
https://riverhavenevents.com/

Visitation: Wednesday, February 18, 2026 2:30 pm - 3:30 pm

RiverHaven Events Center
700 1st Ave N
Moorhead, MN

(218) 477-1717
https://riverhavenevents.com/

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Charities

The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in Abdallah Abou Zahr 's name.

Gate City Bank under “Abou Zahr Family Benefit.”

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Guestbook

  1. My thoughts and prayers are with you Shauna and your children during this time of sorrow.

  2. Keith & Sherrie Gietzen says:

    Thinking of you at this difficult time and sending our love and deepest sympathies.

  3. You are in our thoughts and prayers! May you be comforted with all the love and grace possible.

    Sincerely
    Mr. and Mrs. Kyle Erickson

  4. Abdallah and I met during our fellowship at MDACC. He was the purest and kindest soul. The light in his eyes used to shine bright when I make Lebanese food or when we discuss leukemia cases. He loved cycling so much. He loved our childhood wafer called Unica, and I brought him boxes from Lebanon.. We laughed at how he used to buy his suits from stores like walmart for an interview, and then throw them later so he doesn’t have to iron. Abdallah was generous and genuine, honest beyond honesty and always available to help. When I heard he was sick, my heart broke for him and I couldn’t reach out appropriately. I regret this a lot. I regret my cowardice in front of his suffering, he who didn’t deserve anything but peace and happiness. May you be in a better place my friend. May God grant your family peace and solace in your memories and how much of goodness you added to this world. Until we meet again

  5. Sending thoughts and prayers in your time of loss and grief. I will try to attend the service if I able as well.

  6. Shauna and family, sending you peace, care, and sympathy during this sad time. May you be surrounded by much love and support of family, friends and the community. Kim Meyer


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