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James J. Gress

February 5, 1936 ~ October 29, 2025

Born in: Richardton, North Dakota
Resided in: Fargo, North Dakota

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Prayer Service:

James John Gress, age 89, of Fargo, ND, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 29, 2025 at HIA Heather’s House in Fargo. James was born on February 5, 1936 in Richardton, ND, to Joseph and Regina (Hoff) Gress.

Growing up on the family farm north of Richardton, Jim attended school at Assumption Abbey, graduating in 1954. Shortly thereafter, he enlisted in the U.S. Army alongside three of his closest friends. Upon returning home, he married his high school sweetheart, Vernetta Jantzer, on February 17, 1958, at St. Anne’s Catholic Church in Hebron, ND.

Pursuing his passion for engineering, Jim attended the University of North Dakota, where he earned a degree in civil engineering. After graduation in 1962, he and Vernetta moved their growing family to Dickinson, ND, where he worked for the North Dakota Highway Department. As a family of five, they moved to Fargo in 1965.

As a licensed professional engineer (PE), Jim started a 35 year career with Industrial Builders, Inc., in Fargo. He retired in 2000 as the executive vice chairman. One of the highlights of his career was the construction and completion of the Fargodome. Even in retirement, his passion for engineering did not fade; he established his own consulting firm, Partnering Solutions, where he worked as a mediator in the engineering field, offering his expertise to others.

Jim’s greatest joy was spending time with his treasured wife, Vernetta. They spent time at the lake, traveled, played cards, bowled, and attended many social events together. Jim’s other interests included spending time with friends and family by golfing, going for a drive, hunting, or enjoying a cocktail with them. He also enjoyed many activities with his grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

Jim leaves behind his cherished wife, Vernetta; children Kimberly (James) Durben, Pamela (Richard) Kunz, and David (Laurie) Gress; grandchildren Elizabeth (Kevin) Kochmann, Aaron (Andrea) Kunz, James (Catheryn) Kunz, Lindsey (Matthew) Ruff, and Hannah (Alex) Privratsky; eight great-grandchildren; siblings Clarence (Maxine) Gress, Lawrence Gress, Mary Felton; and many nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his parents; siblings Robert, Wilbur, Carol, and JoAnn; friends; colleagues; and pets.

Services

Prayer Service: Sunday, November 9, 2025 5:00 pm

Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103

701-237-6441
www.boulgerfuneralhome.com

Visitation: Sunday, November 9, 2025 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm

Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103

701-237-6441
www.boulgerfuneralhome.com

Memorial Mass: Monday, November 10, 2025 2:00 pm

Nativity Catholic Church, Fargo
1825 S 11th St.
Fargo , North Dakota 58103

(701) 232-2414
https://www.nativitycatholicchurch.net/

Visitation: Monday, November 10, 2025 1:00 pm - 2:00 pm

Nativity Catholic Church, Fargo
1825 S 11th St.
Fargo , North Dakota 58103

(701) 232-2414
https://www.nativitycatholicchurch.net/

Interment:

Holy Cross Cemetery South, Fargo
7000 38th St SW
Fargo, North Dakota 58104


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  1. Vernetta and family:
    Jim was a huge influence in my early life. His knowledge about so many different things always impressed me. I enjoyed his willingness to share his understanding of people, engineering, business, and relationships when I started working with him at Industrial Builders, Inc. Condolences from all our family to yours on the passing of a truly great guy, who helped build some very impressive landmarks in our world. May he rest in Peace.

  2. In April of 1973 James took a chance on me and I spent the next 46 years working under him and others at IBI, Industrial Builders, Inc. Memories too numerous to mention.
    May He Rest In Peace and may GOD give comfort to Vernetta and all of his family

    • So sorry for your loss. So many fond memories growing up with your family. Peace to you all ❤️‍🩹

  3. So sorry for your loss Dave and Laurie.

  4. Prayers for all the families. One day we will all meet again as our LORD and SAVIOR has promised. God’s peace and blessings. Deepest Sympathys. Jackie Perius and family.

  5. Brother Jim,
    It was great growing up and working with you on the family farm. You taught me so much. Rest in peace big brother.
    Blessings,
    Clancy

  6. Kim and Jim,So sorry to hear of the loss of your father.Prayers for you and your family during these hard times. 🙏Randy and Sandra

  7. We were very saddened to hear of Uncle Jim’s passing.
    He was a class act, always very kind, warm smile and a pleasure to be with. He was definitely one of the good ones. Greg respected his engineering expertise and enjoyed talking construction with him.
    Please know our prayers are with you all in your time of loss.🙏🙏
    Sherry & Greg Wilz

  8. Dave, Laurie and Gress Family, so sorry for the loss of your Dad. Our prayers & thoughts are with your entire family.
    Tom & Mary Schott

  9. Uncle Jim always made me feel warm, cozy and safe as a child with the way the corners of his eyes crinkled when he smiled. That same feeling and smile always stayed with me. I remember when he read/sang that ballad at the family reunion in Colorado at Lynn & Eric’s cabin in Grand Lake. It was awesome! Rest in peace Uncle Jim. ❤️


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