Marilyn Helgeson

marilyn helgeson

March 8, 1936 ~ May 4, 2025

Born in: Adams, North Dakota
Resided in: Park River, North Dakota

Marilyn’s Funeral will be live streamed below starting at 2:00 PM:

Marilyn Rostvet Helgeson, 89, of Park River, North Dakota, passed away peacefully on Sunday, May 4, 2025, at the Good Samaritan Society Nursing Home.

Born on March 8, 1936, Marilyn was the eldest of nine children of Olaus and Minnie (Axvig) Rostvet. She spent her early years on the family farm in Silvesta Township, attending Silvesta No. 82 School for all eight grades. A fond memory from those days was stopping at her Grandma Lena Axvig’s house after school for a big fork cookie and a glass of milk.

In the fall of 1950, the Rostvet family moved to Adams, ND, where Marilyn attended high school and graduated as valedictorian of the Class of 1954. She went on to attend Interstate Business College in Fargo and began her professional career in the bookkeeping department at Grafton National Bank, where she worked for three and a half years. She later joined Northwestern Bell Telephone Company in Fargo, working in the accounting department until her retirement.

On September 17, 1977, Marilyn married Forrest Helgeson at Holy Spirit Church in Fargo. They shared a loving marriage until Forrest’s passing in 1995.

Marilyn had a passion for gardening, especially roses, and was known for growing a wide variety of vegetables and flowers. She was a devoted family historian and took great pride in preserving family stories. A highlight of her later years was traveling to Norway in 2008 to visit the Aksvig homestead. She was thoughtful and generous, never missing a chance to celebrate birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, and other special occasions with heartfelt cards and handmade gifts. Her quilts and embroidered dishtowels are cherished by many.

Marilyn moved to Trollwood Apartments in Fargo, where she continued her quilting and took joy in helping set tables and participating in community life. In July 2024, she moved to the Good Samaritan Society Nursing Home. There, she enjoyed visiting with others, playing bingo, reading newspapers, attending devotions, singing (especially after receiving her new hearing aids), and savoring coffee time and the home’s good meals.

Marilyn took pride in her health and often shared that she had never been hospitalized—a distinction she wore with pride.

She is survived by her siblings: Shirley French of Park River; Bert (Jackie) Rostvet of Ayr, NE; James (Ardith) Rostvet of Ramona, CA; Roger (Dawn) Rostvet of Bismarck, ND; and Conrad Rostvet of Park River. She is also survived by her stepdaughter Myha (Ben) Ewoldt of Neillsville, WI; and numerous nieces, nephews, and extended family members.

She was preceded in death by her husband Forrest; her parents; her sister Amy Paulson; brothers Orlan and Marvin Rostvet; brothers-in-law Alvin French and Allen Paulson; sister-in-law Gloria Rostvet; and other beloved members of Forrest’s family.

Visitation will be held on Thursday, May 8, from 1:00 to 2:00 p.m., followed by a funeral service at 2:00 p.m. at Boulger Funeral Home in Fargo, ND. Minister Michael Paulson will officiate. Marilyn will be laid to rest at Holy Cross Cemetery in Fargo.

In lieu of flowers, memorials are preferred to the Good Samaritan Society Nursing Home, 301 County Road 12B, Park River, ND 58270.

Services

Funeral Service - Thursday: May 8, 2025 2:00 pm

Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103

701-237-6441
www.boulgerfuneralhome.com

Visitation - Thursday: May 8, 2025 1:00 pm - 2:00 pm

Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103

701-237-6441
www.boulgerfuneralhome.com

Burial - Thursday:

Holy Cross Cemetery North Campus, Fargo
1502 32nd Ave N
Fargo, ND 58102


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  1. To know Marilyn (and Forrest) was to know the very spirits of kindness and generosity. I was blessed to have them as neighbors during my childhood, garnering one of Forrest’s signature nicknames and spending time chatting in their living room or being shown around the gardens that I still dream about sometimes. Through a series of moves, Marilyn and I lost touch a couple of years after Forrest’s passing, but I have thought of her often over the years – especially when I have the chance to wander down Memory Lane and drive past our former homes to see how her beloved roses are doing.

  2. Aunt Marilyn came to our family when I was a student at Holy Spirit. My first memory of her is when my father Jim (Forrest’s brother), and I loaded Marilyn’s belongings and moved her into her house after marrying into the family. It was a move from one address on Broadway, to another address on Broadway. I will always be thankful for Marilyn’s kindness, since she lived in the house next to my grandmother, I would see them both often as I stopped to visit on my way home from school. Marilyn’s beautifully hand written letters every Christmas and birthday came like clockwork and I will miss them. A couple of years ago I was able to visit her on my way through Fargo, I am so glad to have had that last time with her.

  3. Marilyn was my roommate during our trip to Norway in 2000. She had a wonderful memory for events, so I got cards at Christmas and for my birthday, every year. She was thoughtful and caring. She lived her life helping other people, she laughed a lot and it was contagious. I am remembering her siblings in prayer.
    Alva AxvigBrown

  4. As I remember Aunt Marilyn, I am filled with gratitude for the generous, thoughtful, and deeply loving woman she was. Her kindness touched our family in countless ways—from the warmth of the handmade blankets she stitched with care, to the joy of receiving her birthday cards, each one with a handwritten note that made us feel remembered and cherished.

    Marilyn had a gift for giving. Many of us treasured the flannel pajamas she gave for Christmas, or the two-dollar bills she delighted in gifting. Her love of quilting wasn’t just a pastime; it was her way of wrapping those she loved in warmth, comfort, and devotion.

    She had an unmatched enthusiasm for salads—yes, salads!—and we still use her recipes today, often smiling as we remember her unique culinary flair. Her pride in her work at Northwestern Bell was inspiring. We always looked forward to hearing stories about her new bosses and travels.

    Marilyn poured her heart into our family. Whether she was sewing matching outfits for me and my sisters or while planning the last family reunion, she made sure everyone felt seen, heard, and included. Even a simple box of Christmas ornaments she gave over the years became a joyful afternoon for me and her great-great-niece, Halle—proof that her love lives on through generations.

    Rest peacefully, Aunt Marilyn. Your legacy lives on in every thread, every recipe, and every memory.

  5. Dear Aunt Marilyn…Where do I begin? So many things come to mind there’s just not enough room to describe them all. My earliest memory of Aunt Marilyn is when Uncle Forrest took me to meet his sweetheart. She had a room solely dedicated to sewing! I was enthralled! Over the years, from child- to adult-hood, I enjoyed countless visits to the home she shared with Uncle Forrest next door to my Grandma. We played one of the many board games she had on hand, toured her extensive garden and flower beds every spring and summer. Many times we sat on the front steps enjoying a chat while Uncle Forrest tinkered with his latest car project. Her gifts of flannel nightgowns, quilts, towels were all well loved and like a big hug every time they were used. Her hand written address book I received as a wedding gift was priceless and like a family tree all in one compact place! In later years we had lunch out together and my mom Jeanette and I got to visit her at her apartment a few years back not long after she moved from her house. I wish I could be there to meet and hug Marilyn’s side of the family-but please know that you are all in my prayers. She was an amazing, caring, thoughtful, and devoted woman. Like my brother Jeff has already stated and everyone will agree, I will miss the special birthday and Christmas cards, and the letters sharing the incredibly busy and delightful activities she was involved in.
    I will be forever grateful that Uncle Forrest brought her into our family.
    Thank you to Marilyn’s family for sharing her with us for all these many years!
    Rest in eternal peace Aunt Marilyn, I love you

  6. Marilyn and I were related and in addition, her folks lived in very close proximity to where my parent’s lived in Adam’s. In later years we both lived in North Fargo and our paths would cross from time-to-time, usually at Northport Hornbachers. We would get busy chatting and a quick trip to the store turned out to be anything but “quick.” We knew so many of the same people, and she was always on top of where and what people were up to. I do miss those chats. She was a wonderful, kind hearted soul and I was blessed to have known her. My condolences to the Rostvet Family.


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