Maura A. Jones

July 15, 1931 ~ October 26, 2024
Born in:
Devils Lake, North Dakota
Resided in:
Fargo, North Dakota
Maura’s Celebration of Life Service will be livestreamed below at 2:30 pm, Saturday, January 4, 2024
Maura Ann Jones (Lamb), age 93, passed away peacefully on October 26, 2024, surrounded by her loving family. She will be remembered for her boundless love, kindness, and grace. Maura treated everyone with empathy and respect, approaching life’s challenges and opportunities with courage, humor, and wisdom. She shared these qualities generously with her children, grandchildren, and friends of all ages, all of whom adored her.
Maura was born on July 15, 1931, in Devils Lake, North Dakota, and grew up in Crary and Fargo with her twin sisters (born on Maura’s first birthday) and two brothers. She graduated from Sacred Heart Academy in Fargo and Moorhead State Teacher’s College (returning later in life to earn her BA). After earning her teaching degree, she taught elementary school for two years before meeting her future husband, Paul. Paul fell in love with Maura at first sight after seeing a newspaper photo of her teaching in her classroom. He proposed on their fourth date, and they were married for 55 years, raising six children together.
Maura’s advocacy work began early, inspired by the experiences of her eldest son, Tom, who had developmental disabilities. Witnessing the mistreatment of people with disabilities firsthand, Maura became a tireless advocate for change. As a citizen advocate and later as the Executive Director of the Association of Retarded Citizens, she helped expose the inhumane conditions at North Dakota’s state mental institutions. This led to a successful class action lawsuit, won in 1982, to improve conditions and standards of care for people with developmental disabilities. She then played an instrumental role over the next several years to implement the lawsuit’s provisions in new legislation and regulatory requirements.
In 1968, Maura’s resilience and dedication were called upon when her son Matt was critically injured in a gun accident. After his months long hospital stay, Maura converted the family dining room into a makeshift hospital room, where she devoted herself to his recovery day and night. She nurtured the same dedication to care in all her relationships, and her compassion knew no bounds.
A lifelong learner, Maura was captivated by the beauty and mystery of the world around her. She nurtured her passion for discovery, studying a wide array of subjects—from spirituality and philosophy to art, anthropology, politics, quantum physics, astronomy, and homeopathic medicine. She found meaning in the endless interconnectedness of life and believed that everyone carried their own innate form of wisdom.
Maura’s commitment to justice, fairness, and respect for all was unwavering. Whether advocating in anti-ballistic missile protests, alternative education models, or feminist causes, she fought for what she believed was right. Even when disagreements arose, people always respected her for her integrity, passion, and dedication to the greater good.
Maura was deeply loved by all who knew her, and she will be remembered as a person who saw the good in everyone. Her ability to make people feel seen and valued was one of her many gifts. She laughed easily, loved a good story, and had an uncanny ability to connect with others.
Her philosophy in life was simple but profound: “I did the best I could with the information I had, at the time I did it.”
Maura is survived by her children: Daniel (Julia), Margaret (Jeff Risberg), Paula (Pete Johnson), and Patrick (Jen); grandchildren: Paloma, Cecelia (John), Dustin (Natalie), Danielle (Spencer), Erica (Aamon), Patrick (Sarah), Ian (Sawyer), Joey, Zack, and Logan; 14 great grandchildren, and her sister and dear friend, Monica Kuklenski. She was preceded in death by her husband, Paul; sons, Tom and Matt; her parents, Michael and Esther Lamb; as well as her siblings, Jude, Miriam, and Michael.
The family would like to extend their heartfelt thanks for the gentle and loving care provided by House Calls and Hospice of the Red River Valley, as well as the Our Lady of Peace home hospice team in St. Paul.
In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to Hospice of the Red River Valley, or Our Lady of Peace Hospice in St. Paul.
A celebration of Maura will be held on Saturday, January 4th at 2:00 PM at Boulger Funeral Home in Fargo. Please visit the online guestbook to share memories and condolences.
Services
Celebration of Life: January 4, 2025 2:00 pm
Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103
701-237-6441
www.boulgerfuneralhome.com
A shoutout to a woman who played an important part in the Grafton State School takedown in North Dakota. Her husband’s construction company chartered the airplane that flew us to four major cities in one day to hold the same day press conferences exposing the conditions at Grafton and San Haven. It was the opening action that resulted in the class action federal lawsuit that got San Haven closed, reformed the “school” in Grafton and resulted in the construction and staffing of numerous group homes around the state. Throughout she was a stalwart supporter of the effort and saw it through to a successful conclusion. A long life, well-lived. North Dakota is the better for having her. (I posted this to my Facebook account this morning.)
Love, Paula Jones-Johnson
Thank you Don! Our memories are foggy and we appreciate you sharing this story. And thank you for all the important work you did. Your efforts truly made a difference for all of us.
Love to Jones Family
Thanks Anne. Your loving memory is appreciated.
Thank you Nancy. I definitely feel like I have a “forceful angel”, bright star and mostly a guide for love. Mom was all about love.
Margaret
Love, Paula
I only met Maura once or twice at the lake house in Detroit Lakes. I was good friends with her daughter, Paula, and heard wonderful stories about her Mom and her advocacy for people with intellectual disabilities. Paula and I connected in Denver over this as I also worked with children having intellectual disabilities. Paula’s Mom passed on her love of advocating for others to Paula as she became a school social worker who was highly regarded. My heart goes out to Paula, Pete, Dustin, Erica and their extended family as they honor the beautiful life of their Mom/Grandma. May your memories of her goodness bless all of you in the years to come. Love you.
Maura and I grew up on 7th Avenue in Fargo, just a block from each other. As kids, we were not pals back then, but I was aware of the beautiful Lamb sisters who lived down the street. In 1996, my husband Dick and I retired to Lake Melissa in Detroit Lakes a few cottages from the Jones family. A cold and blizzardy winter brought Maura’ and me together with many, many interests in common. I still use some of Maura’s heirloom recipes that she shared with me. She was a great cook and loved reading as much as I did. We had wonderful hours together, especially in the quiet winter days. I think of her nearly every day.
My love to the family.
Thanks so much Janet. Mom really appreciated your friendship and I love the image of the two of you hanging out on those wintry dark days!
Margaret
Oh my gosh Sherri, my mom appreciated all of you so much for helping her keep the little eye sight she had left in the end. You were all so kind and patient and loving. Thank you, all of you, from the bottom of our hearts. Margaret, Dan, Paula and Pat
I grew up with Marg and being with the family in south fargo or at the lake.. it was like having a second family ! So much love and laughter! I miss those days and will always have the Jones family in my heart! You will ne missed Maura!🙏🏻❤️
Thank you so much Kathy! We did have a lot of fun and sometimes I felt our parents/families were interchangeable!
I did not get to know Maura well but being around Marg through High School and at the lake, I knew there was a strong bond of love and support that permeated the family. I am fortunate and thankful for the opportunity to experience a small slice of Maura through the family she built.
Hi Tom,
Thanks for your sweet memory. We did have some fun!
So nice to hear from you.
Dan, Marg, Paula and Pat,
I extend my most sincere condolences on the passing of your beloved mother. Maura was a beautiful light in this world, a woman who inspired me through her strength, courage, resilience and perseverance. Maura will be missed by all who knew her. May the love and care of those around you provide comfort and peace in the days ahead.
Thank you so much for your kind words. She always enjoyed hearing about you and Gary and loved seeing you when you stopped by. I feel mom’s light, which helps during these dark days of winter.
Dan, Margaret, Paula, and Pat,
Your mom was and is heroic. Reading about your her brought back such good memories of times together with you in Fargo and at the lakes, the friendship between our parents, and the gift of knowing each of you. I bet right now your mom is having coffee with my mom and Etta Kitzmiller, their mutual friend and excuse to go to New York. My heart is with you,
Scott
Thank you so much, Scott. I LOVE thinking of my mom, and your beautiful mom and Kit stirring up some serious shit!
This brings me so much joy to think about. ♥️
I just learned of Maura’s passing today, Dec.14. We had so many good and fun times together. I loved Maura’s passions and her commitment to the causes she cared so much about. Richard and I used to play bridge with Paul and Maura. We had such a good times together. She was such a dear friend, When I moved away from the Fargo area, I missed our friendship. She holds a special place in my heart.
Oh Jane, so nice to hear from you. My parents always enjoyed your card games and I still laugh when I think of my dad’s nickname for you!
You and mom had a special bond over many worthy causes, not the least of which was your friendship.
Take good care.
Maura and I lived in the same apartment building. I would visit with her whenever I could because she was such a calm, loving, and welcoming friend. I will cherish my memories of her always.
She definitely enjoyed your visits, Jane!
Thank you for taking the time to share your memory.
All the best in 2025
Dear Dan, Marg, Paula and Pat: As a child, I looked up to your mom. She always had a generous smile for me. She was very kind; and yet forceful when she was advocating for Tom or for an idea she believed in. I knew, even as a young person, that she was unique. Her life was an asset to all who came into her orbit. Thank you for sharing Maura Jones with the world. I am so sorry for your loss but I know she lives on in all who knew her.
Thank you Kristin for your kind words. We all had this wonderful orbit of strong women on 9th street with your mom and Kathryn Conlin and the gang. I feel grateful we had them as role models.
The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want. He makes me to lie down in green pastures, He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul; He leads me in the paths of righteousness For His name sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup runs over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me All the days of my life; And I will dwell in the house of the Lord Forever.
Thank you Jim. We love you and miss you and know you will be with us in spirit and love, today and always. It meant a lot that you and Charlie came up to see the “aunties”.
Brenda!! So good to hear from you. I had no idea my mom was so tenacious! She must have recognized your strength and determination and we are glad you did. I am sure your kids are proud of you too!
Thank you for all your work.
Mary thank you for your entry here. I am crying, which will get me ready for the celebration this afternoon when I am quite sure, there will be more crying.
Your words capture her strength and conviction.
Sending gratitude for your work in this important cause.
Endless gratitude to you and Don and all the people who made our word a kinder place.
Don thank you and thank you for being st mom’s celebration.
Take care.
You were and always be our Wonderful loving Aunt.
She was always there for my brothers and Myself when our father was ill.
I will always have fond memories of growing up in Grand Forks, getting together with all our relatives We know Aunt Maura
is in a great place and is at peace. Love to you all.
Always enjoyed our visits together, we will cherish the memories always.
Love you Aunt Maura
Dear Bill,
Sorry you couldn’t be with us physically but we knew you were with us.
Please pass along love and hugs to your family. Uncle Jude was always a favorite of ours and the trips to Grand Forks were so much fun!
Margaret