Maura A. Jones

maura jones

July 15, 1931 ~ October 26, 2024

Born in: Devils Lake, North Dakota
Resided in: Fargo, North Dakota

Maura’s Celebration of Life Service will be livestreamed below at 2:30 pm, Saturday, January 4, 2024

Maura Ann Jones (Lamb), age 93, passed away peacefully on October 26, 2024, surrounded by her loving family. She will be remembered for her boundless love, kindness, and grace. Maura treated everyone with empathy and respect, approaching life’s challenges and opportunities with courage, humor, and wisdom. She shared these qualities generously with her children, grandchildren, and friends of all ages, all of whom adored her.

Maura was born on July 15, 1931, in Devils Lake, North Dakota, and grew up in Crary and Fargo with her twin sisters (born on Maura’s first birthday) and two brothers. She graduated from Sacred Heart Academy in Fargo and Moorhead State Teacher’s College (returning later in life to earn her BA). After earning her teaching degree, she taught elementary school for two years before meeting her future husband, Paul. Paul fell in love with Maura at first sight after seeing a newspaper photo of her teaching in her classroom. He proposed on their fourth date, and they were married for 55 years, raising six children together.

Maura’s advocacy work began early, inspired by the experiences of her eldest son, Tom, who had developmental disabilities. Witnessing the mistreatment of people with disabilities firsthand, Maura became a tireless advocate for change. As a citizen advocate and later as the Executive Director of the Association of Retarded Citizens, she helped expose the inhumane conditions at North Dakota’s state mental institutions. This led to a successful class action lawsuit, won in 1982, to improve conditions and standards of care for people with developmental disabilities. She then played an instrumental role over the next several years to implement the lawsuit’s provisions in new legislation and regulatory requirements.

In 1968, Maura’s resilience and dedication were called upon when her son Matt was critically injured in a gun accident. After his months long hospital stay, Maura converted the family dining room into a makeshift hospital room, where she devoted herself to his recovery day and night. She nurtured the same dedication to care in all her relationships, and her compassion knew no bounds.

A lifelong learner, Maura was captivated by the beauty and mystery of the world around her. She nurtured her passion for discovery, studying a wide array of subjects—from spirituality and philosophy to art, anthropology, politics, quantum physics, astronomy, and homeopathic medicine. She found meaning in the endless interconnectedness of life and believed that everyone carried their own innate form of wisdom.

Maura’s commitment to justice, fairness, and respect for all was unwavering. Whether advocating in anti-ballistic missile protests, alternative education models, or feminist causes, she fought for what she believed was right. Even when disagreements arose, people always respected her for her integrity, passion, and dedication to the greater good.

Maura was deeply loved by all who knew her, and she will be remembered as a person who saw the good in everyone. Her ability to make people feel seen and valued was one of her many gifts. She laughed easily, loved a good story, and had an uncanny ability to connect with others.

Her philosophy in life was simple but profound: “I did the best I could with the information I had, at the time I did it.”

Maura is survived by her children: Daniel (Julia), Margaret (Jeff Risberg), Paula (Pete Johnson), and Patrick (Jen); grandchildren: Paloma, Cecelia (John), Dustin (Natalie), Danielle (Spencer), Erica (Aamon), Patrick (Sarah), Ian (Sawyer), Joey, Zack, and Logan; 14 great grandchildren, and her sister and dear friend, Monica Kuklenski. She was preceded in death by her husband, Paul; sons, Tom and Matt; her parents, Michael and Esther Lamb; as well as her siblings, Jude, Miriam, and Michael.

The family would like to extend their heartfelt thanks for the gentle and loving care provided by House Calls and Hospice of the Red River Valley, as well as the Our Lady of Peace home hospice team in St. Paul.

In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to Hospice of the Red River Valley, or Our Lady of Peace Hospice in St. Paul.

A celebration of Maura will be held on Saturday, January 4th at 2:00 PM at Boulger Funeral Home in Fargo. Please visit the online guestbook to share memories and condolences.

Services

Celebration of Life: January 4, 2025 2:00 pm

Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103

701-237-6441
www.boulgerfuneralhome.com

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  1. A shoutout to a woman who played an important part in the Grafton State School takedown in North Dakota. Her husband’s construction company chartered the airplane that flew us to four major cities in one day to hold the same day press conferences exposing the conditions at Grafton and San Haven. It was the opening action that resulted in the class action federal lawsuit that got San Haven closed, reformed the “school” in Grafton and resulted in the construction and staffing of numerous group homes around the state. Throughout she was a stalwart supporter of the effort and saw it through to a successful conclusion. A long life, well-lived. North Dakota is the better for having her. (I posted this to my Facebook account this morning.)

    • Thank you for this beautiful story of my parents past. Very heartwarming.
      Love, Paula Jones-Johnson

    • Thank you Don! Our memories are foggy and we appreciate you sharing this story. And thank you for all the important work you did. Your efforts truly made a difference for all of us.

  2. Amen. Dear Lord Jesus, Light of the world,1 As I light this candle, I acknowledge Your love and kindness. I acknowledge Your coming and Your sacrifice, and I celebrate Your resurrection and the gifts of Your Word and the Spirit. I pray that Your light enlightens my mind and spirit. I light a candle in loving memory of Aunt Maura & her light of peace ☮️ & loving spirit
    Love to Jones Family

  3. I met Maura when I became the Developmental Disabilities Program Manager for Tom when he was living in Fargo in his own apartment. She was such an advocate for him. Maura and I made a great team together to make sure that he got the services he needed and deserved. We became close over those years. She always had a big hug and smile for me when we met even if she was upset about something that needed changing. She was a force to be reckoned with. She always talked so fondly of Paul and the kids. I felt like I knew all of you through her stories. I was blessed to have known her. You will all have a special angel watching over you. So sorry for your loss. She will be remembered for a long time for all her efforts and good work

    • Thank you Nancy. I definitely feel like I have a “forceful angel”, bright star and mostly a guide for love. Mom was all about love.
      Margaret

    • Thank you Nancy. It was truly wonderful to hear your story about the relationship between you and my mom and the work you did. Thanks for sticking with it.
      Love, Paula

  4. I only met Maura once or twice at the lake house in Detroit Lakes. I was good friends with her daughter, Paula, and heard wonderful stories about her Mom and her advocacy for people with intellectual disabilities. Paula and I connected in Denver over this as I also worked with children having intellectual disabilities. Paula’s Mom passed on her love of advocating for others to Paula as she became a school social worker who was highly regarded. My heart goes out to Paula, Pete, Dustin, Erica and their extended family as they honor the beautiful life of their Mom/Grandma. May your memories of her goodness bless all of you in the years to come. Love you.

  5. Janet Pratt says:

    Maura and I grew up on 7th Avenue in Fargo, just a block from each other. As kids, we were not pals back then, but I was aware of the beautiful Lamb sisters who lived down the street. In 1996, my husband Dick and I retired to Lake Melissa in Detroit Lakes a few cottages from the Jones family. A cold and blizzardy winter brought Maura’ and me together with many, many interests in common. I still use some of Maura’s heirloom recipes that she shared with me. She was a great cook and loved reading as much as I did. We had wonderful hours together, especially in the quiet winter days. I think of her nearly every day.
    My love to the family.

    • Thanks so much Janet. Mom really appreciated your friendship and I love the image of the two of you hanging out on those wintry dark days!
      Margaret

  6. Maura was such a beautiful person. She had a way of always making you feel special. No matter what was going on in her world she would always take the time to ask about yours. I got to know her over the years as a patient. I thought of her more as a friend. She was always well taken care of by her children. They would always come along to her appointments showing how much they loved her and cared for her. It was great sadness for me when she left Fargo. I knew I’d never see her smile ever again. But I knew she would spend her last days with her kids and be loved till she passed away. My condolences to her children. May you all continue to spread the same love as your mom did. I’ll miss her greatly.

    • Oh my gosh Sherri, my mom appreciated all of you so much for helping her keep the little eye sight she had left in the end. You were all so kind and patient and loving. Thank you, all of you, from the bottom of our hearts. Margaret, Dan, Paula and Pat

  7. I grew up with Marg and being with the family in south fargo or at the lake.. it was like having a second family ! So much love and laughter! I miss those days and will always have the Jones family in my heart! You will ne missed Maura!🙏🏻❤️

    • Thank you so much Kathy! We did have a lot of fun and sometimes I felt our parents/families were interchangeable!

  8. I did not get to know Maura well but being around Marg through High School and at the lake, I knew there was a strong bond of love and support that permeated the family. I am fortunate and thankful for the opportunity to experience a small slice of Maura through the family she built.

  9. Dan, Marg, Paula and Pat,

    I extend my most sincere condolences on the passing of your beloved mother. Maura was a beautiful light in this world, a woman who inspired me through her strength, courage, resilience and perseverance. Maura will be missed by all who knew her. May the love and care of those around you provide comfort and peace in the days ahead.

    • Thank you so much for your kind words. She always enjoyed hearing about you and Gary and loved seeing you when you stopped by. I feel mom’s light, which helps during these dark days of winter.

  10. Dan, Margaret, Paula, and Pat,

    Your mom was and is heroic. Reading about your her brought back such good memories of times together with you in Fargo and at the lakes, the friendship between our parents, and the gift of knowing each of you. I bet right now your mom is having coffee with my mom and Etta Kitzmiller, their mutual friend and excuse to go to New York. My heart is with you,

    Scott

    • Thank you so much, Scott. I LOVE thinking of my mom, and your beautiful mom and Kit stirring up some serious shit!
      This brings me so much joy to think about. ♥️

  11. I just learned of Maura’s passing today, Dec.14. We had so many good and fun times together. I loved Maura’s passions and her commitment to the causes she cared so much about. Richard and I used to play bridge with Paul and Maura. We had such a good times together. She was such a dear friend, When I moved away from the Fargo area, I missed our friendship. She holds a special place in my heart.

    • Oh Jane, so nice to hear from you. My parents always enjoyed your card games and I still laugh when I think of my dad’s nickname for you!
      You and mom had a special bond over many worthy causes, not the least of which was your friendship.
      Take good care.

  12. Maura and I lived in the same apartment building. I would visit with her whenever I could because she was such a calm, loving, and welcoming friend. I will cherish my memories of her always.

    • She definitely enjoyed your visits, Jane!
      Thank you for taking the time to share your memory.
      All the best in 2025

  13. Dear Dan, Marg, Paula and Pat: As a child, I looked up to your mom. She always had a generous smile for me. She was very kind; and yet forceful when she was advocating for Tom or for an idea she believed in. I knew, even as a young person, that she was unique. Her life was an asset to all who came into her orbit. Thank you for sharing Maura Jones with the world. I am so sorry for your loss but I know she lives on in all who knew her.

    • Thank you Kristin for your kind words. We all had this wonderful orbit of strong women on 9th street with your mom and Kathryn Conlin and the gang. I feel grateful we had them as role models.

  14. Psalm 23
    The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want. He makes me to lie down in green pastures, He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul; He leads me in the paths of righteousness For His name sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup runs over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me All the days of my life; And I will dwell in the house of the Lord Forever.

    • Thank you Jim. We love you and miss you and know you will be with us in spirit and love, today and always. It meant a lot that you and Charlie came up to see the “aunties”.

  15. In late 1979 as I prepared to move to Fargo from Wisconsin, I sent Maura who was the Executive Director of Cass County ARC my resume. My cover letter included that I was having our second child the end of October and was hoping to find part time employment with the ARC after the first of the year. I had worked at ARCs in another state and had experience in diverting persons with disabilities from institutional placement and transitioning persons from institutions. When Maura received my letter, she called and wanted to know if I was in Fargo yet as she wanted to interview me. When she learned I had not yet arrived in Fargo she said to give her a call when I got there. When I reminded her, my due date was the end of October, about 4 weeks away, she said she had 6 babies and they come when they come so I should give her a call. I gave her a call when I arrived and met her, where she said she needed someone to manage with special projects such as increasing membership and I should call her after I had the baby. When I reminded her, I was not looking to work until after the new year she said just give me a call and we will figure it out. The day after I had our son was born, Maura called me at the hospital to congratulate me and remind me as soon as I could she wanted me to start working at the ARC. I never asked her how she knew I had the baby and what hospital I was in but I did call her a few weeks later and began working there, often bringing my son with me. I knew nothing about Grafton or San Haven or the conditions of either. It wasn’t too long before Maura said my special project was working on the ARC lawsuit. As 1980 moved on I watched and learned from Maura about never giving up, when something wasn’t successful find another way and telling me it was good I was not from ND because people weren’t going to like me because the ARC was going to file a lawsuit against the state. I had seen and briefly worked at a Sunland Training Center in Florida and thought that nowhere else would I see such pain, suffering and warehousing of people, but I still was not prepared for what I saw at Grafton and San Haven. Shortly after the lawsuit was filed, I accepted a position with Legal Aid of ND and had the privilege to work with Mary Schneider and Mike Williams on the lawsuit while continuing to collaborate with Maura and the ARC. I learned grit from Maura and a “never give up attitude” that I demonstrate everyday in my work at ND Protection & Advocacy. As time went on, I learned so much of what happened before I moved to ND and the ARC filed the lawsuit; not to take away from the many people who were in from the beginning, but I saw Maura’s daily work and drive to make sure the lawsuit happened. From my perspective it was Maura who pushed herself and others, worked her magic on folks and convinced the local and state ARC boards to move forward. I remember after my first trip to the institutions; I cried when I returned to the office sharing what I had seen. She listened to me and handed me a tissue and said, now go do something about it, this is our only chance. She lived her life without apology and could be heard saying that she and other people had made decisions based on what they knew at the time, but when there was new information, different decisions could then be made. She once told me she had lost friends over the lawsuit but when one is on the right side of wrong, they might pay for their decisions, but the price was worth it. I am forever grateful that because of Maura, I was part of improving the lives of people at San Haven and Grafton and continue to do that work.

    • Brenda!! So good to hear from you. I had no idea my mom was so tenacious! She must have recognized your strength and determination and we are glad you did. I am sure your kids are proud of you too!
      Thank you for all your work.

  16. As an attorney for the plaintiffs in the ARC class action lawsuit, it was a privilege to witness firsthand Maura’s tenacity, advocacy skills, dedication, and fearlessness in the face of massive injustice. She was a voice for the voiceless, pitting the needs of persons institutionalized in some of the nation’s worst conditions against the political powers keeping them there. Her courage, determination, passion, and positivity made Maura a major catalyst in the lawsuit which ultimately resulted in the closure of San Haven institution, the depopulation of Grafton State School (now LSTC) to less than 100 residents, and to the development of a statewide system of community programs and services for persons with intellectual disabilities. Our state and its citizens owe Maura their deepest gratitude, and I am most grateful to have known her,

    • Mary thank you for your entry here. I am crying, which will get me ready for the celebration this afternoon when I am quite sure, there will be more crying.
      Your words capture her strength and conviction.
      Sending gratitude for your work in this important cause.
      Endless gratitude to you and Don and all the people who made our word a kinder place.

  17. We grew up as neighbors across the street from the Joneses then we moved across next-door to them. My parents, DON and Thelma Smith and my brother David and Debbie and Susan. We were all kids together just a wee bit older not a lot. You had a wonderful mother.

  18. Our Sweet Beautiful Aunt Maura
    You were and always be our Wonderful loving Aunt.
    She was always there for my brothers and Myself when our father was ill.
    I will always have fond memories of growing up in Grand Forks, getting together with all our relatives We know Aunt Maura
    is in a great place and is at peace. Love to you all.
    Always enjoyed our visits together, we will cherish the memories always.
    Love you Aunt Maura

    • Dear Bill,
      Sorry you couldn’t be with us physically but we knew you were with us.
      Please pass along love and hugs to your family. Uncle Jude was always a favorite of ours and the trips to Grand Forks were so much fun!
      Margaret


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