Murat Ayamba Ndikum
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Bessem, sincere condolences to you and your family. I can only imagine how tough this time is for you. Ayamz was always fun to be around. Our thoughts and prayers are with you firing this time. Farewell Ayamz..
Bro Ayamba i feel really sad as death took you away from us with all the talents God have Blessed you so i will Always call you a Legends and always pray God comfort your family most especially your Wife and your beautiful Kids may your Gentle Soul Rest in Peace 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔🙏🙏🙏🙏
Pretty ,
I can’t believe you are no more living with us.
I am very very great full for the laughter,the fun ,the food ( good signature pepper soup , Brisket,rips, jelof rice you always made available for us. I want to thank you for always checking on me and making me laugh.I am great full for you choosen to come to me for advice .l am blessed you were always running to me to talk when you are having some down time (s).
Pretty ,I am happy you shared your family and private life with me .I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the trust you had for me.
I want to thank your wife Bessem for loving you accepting to spent the richest eight years of love(marriage),if I am not mistaken and bringing forth this adorable children who are blessings from God.Love is a beautiful thing especially when you find your match.You both were.
I still haven’t forgotten when you and your husband visited us with a Big tray of Roasted fish and Plantains on Christmas.
Bessem your love partner is no more,Lady B; find comfort in knowing he is with the Lord.
He was a Selfless, loving gentle man filled of life .
You are not alone.You will be in our prayers,you have my/ our phone number , call anytime.
In Jesus name you will smile one day and your story will be inspirational to others.
We love you ,look forward for the future and backwards only for the beautiful family moment spent with your husband and children.
Ayamba always tells me “ma Flo God knows how to close window open doors. He is and will always be looking for you.God blessed you to be at home when it happened.So you should know you and the kids were /are the last person he remembered before Leaving.Princess Carissa should be happy daddy celebrated her birthday before living.
A special gift you will always remember.
We’re are strangers in this world and unto dust we shall return.
Rest well Pretty your wife / children/family and community loves you.What a guy!.
U will forever remain in our memories. Fare well brother…
Dearest bro, it’s so difficult to accept your gone so soon. What about all the promises we made for the summer? Ayam’s, what about the general birthday celebration for all our babies that came during the pandemics which we were unable to meet and celebrate but we agreed to do a joined celebrate for them this summer? Bro, this pill is so hard to swallow. You could have at least talk to us before going. Your death is so shocking to us bro. But as you know, if death was something man could turn back the hands of time, we could do everything to bring you back. Unfortunately, it was above our control and we just had to let the will of God be done. This is a journey for us all and I pray that you go well and in peace. We love you but God thus more. Peace bro and for ever in our hearts.
Uncle Ayamba, as we all call you. Words cannot put how I feel right now, well I know I’m in a slumber where someone needs to wake me up .Where do I begin what do I tell your kids and your nieces and nephews. You are a star, I will forever miss you. You are the organizer and a party planner. a family person , a dad, a brother, and the best nephew anyone can ask for. The best cook who cleans up after cooking, never leaves your kitchen messy. Thank you for showing love, thank you for being my confident and a best friend. My life is on a stand still, but I promise you, your legacy will live on for ever. You will be missed. Your one and only aunty jang. Joyce Ndikum
Ayamz my son, words can never describe how I feel about your passing!!! In March 26th you pierce me again right into my heart because you know what??? I lost my mom that same day almost the same time and similar ways exactly one year ago and she was supposed to be one of your many grandmother as well. We celebrated her life together in Minnesota and now you did the same thing same day??? When you heard about mom passing you hoop into your car and drove straight to Minnesota from Fargo and when asked why did you have to come that same day and you replied aunty Elio I couldn’t sleep without seeing you guys and making sure grandma was gone for real and after two hours you told us that you were on your way back to Fargo and that you were working the following morning.!! I only have one question for you!!!! Who did you leave Bessem and the kids with and grandpa His Royal Highness the Fon George Ndikum the 11???? Go well son , till we meet again, a dieu mon fils et paix a ton arme!!!😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Petit frere.my dear Ayamb.Zamziiiii.we love you and God loves you more.
What will bamoun looks like without you bro.Oh this life😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
So great evey body,Bouba, ba youyou, Elissa, youba and all our parents that took this path before you.
One day we shall met again.
RIP
Too say your gone too soon is an understatement , It still feels like a dream,to think that we will never be able to hear your voice or see your face again makes me feel deeply hurt, I can only fine comfort knowing that your are in a better place now , Rest in Perfect Peace bro till we meet again.
Still feel like a bad dream
Ayamba , today is Easter I was expecting as Jesus rose up on the third day from the grave, you too will rise up and we we will see you again, but I just realize you’re are truly gone forever and tears keep rolling down my eyes but I have decided to smile every tear I cry because I know you are in a better place and we will see you again
Rest in peace Ayamz
Ayamz, I can’t believe you are no more,you were a loving and fun person right from our childhood days. You never changed even in America. You spotted me from a distance the first day you met me in Minnesota and shouted my name”Nike” as you funly call me. Mile two Nkwen is calling my phone endlessly to ask what happened to you. I don’t know what to tell them. May God give your twin brother, your wife and kids ,family and friends , the strength to accept your sudden departure. I know you are resting in the blossom of the lord. God’s time and will is unquestionable. We all are heart broken but we pray “AYAMZ REST IN PEACE “.
Oh Pa Tambe, my fellow West ender, Bonasian, Ekounuan. Make I leave which one na. Always a joy to hang with but we’ll go no more a-roving. Gone too soon Ayamz.
Rest well comrade. Rest in peace my bro.
Ayamyz my co-worker, my dancing partner. We dance the last dance on Clarissa’s birthday. (JERUSALEM). Little did I know that was the last moves. Bro Ayamyz may your soul continue to rest in Peace. You will be greatly missed. Adiue Ayamyz.
Ayamsco, as I always called you brother, your demise has left a gap and hole in our hearts and lives that no one can really replace! You lived your life to the fullest and there was never a dull moment with you! It is sad but words can’t bring you back, nevertheless I will uphold your legacy and ensure to look after your kids who are my nephews. May God grand your soul eternal rest and peace. Our time spent together was Golde. Farewell and see you later.
April 2021
Dear Dr, Alexander our beloved African community leader, Late Ayamba’s family, the entire African Community and beloved Cameronians at home and Diaspora,
Ref: condolence message of Hope for the death.
The way and manner we come to this planet Earth, the way and manner we live our time on earth, truly speaking not matter, rather the quality of life we live.
Ayamba Murat, as we call each other always “De-Twins” is a living example of a life well spend despite the shortness of years. He lived a guality life.
A loving father,husband, and a good citizen of his home acountry and second host Country of his citizenship. My friend and twin brother you will be missed. Please live in peace with the Angels and the saints in heaven. I will continue Holy Masses for your intentions as you pray for us some day with faith and hope we shall meet never to part again.
I wish you can open your eyes for a second and see how we loved you the way you did to us when you were physically alive.
Rest in Peace. Your twin brother from Nigeria.
Rev Fr. Vincent Hassan Bulus.(Ph.D).
New York. USA.
To my pretty Ayamz brother in-law.
Where can I start to explain the void you have left behind for my sister😭😭😭. She loved you so much that whatever we said about you, she will brush it off and tell us he is my husband and I will take care of it. She was building this wonderful life with you not knowing you will not continue the journey with her. Your absence will be felt greatly by the kids and her. You were her chef and everything a woman can ask for. You had such a free spirit and was very involved with family issues. I will be mad at you for something but when you started talking, you will melt my heart with your sweet words. You were always smiling and ready to start a funny conversation that will charm the people around. Why do the good ones have to go so young? We can’t question God but I believe HE loves you more than us. Rest well little brother until we meet again. You will always be in our heart!😭😭😭😭😭
My heart bleeds 😭😭😭😭why so soon!!!we will missed your bubbly nature and free spirited heart. My sister’s betterhalf is gone😭😭😭💔💔why!!! You were her rock that would never be replaced. God loves you more and heaven has gained another Angel. Rest In Peace little bro.Sleep well inlaw.
TRIBUTE to AYAMBA, A real family and community icon!!!!!!Ayamz ,you were a man of celebration ,whom God sent to us to spice up every occasion. Our ‘spice boy’ where are you???Your abrupt and premature demise has left us all in total desolation. There is an obvious missing link in our family circle that only God himself can fill ,because you were such a unifying personality. While waiting, our hearts bleed for you, our brother, whom we know is spicing up the heavenly family. Father Almighty, the creator and giver of life, we heartily thank you for the wonderful and memorable times we spent with Ayamba.As man cannot appeal your decision, we pray that your mercies which are renewed each morning be with his soul. Grant him peace profound in heaven ,his new home.Ayamba, May the love, joy and serenity in eternity be yours forever, because death is just a passageway to another amazing journey beyond. Adieu Ayamz!!!!!!Dr.Mrs Mengot Margaret.
Ayamz, your WhatsApp video call that came six hours before you collapsed never occurred to me like a farewell call. Your early and premature exit from this world is and remains a shock to me, pains so deep inside and terribly saddened.
Ayamz, you will be greatly missed but most importantly remembered for your kindness and dynamism to family and friends.
To the immediate family you have left behind, Catherine Atem and children, may God heal the pain of the loss of your husband and father in your hearts, give you the courage and strength to continue the good deeds he has left uncompleted….to continue his legacy.
We are saddened that death took you away, but God said in all things we should give Him thanks for he is the only one who has answers to the numerous questions on our lips. Now you are gone but you remain forever in our hearts. Adieu Ayamz.
Eno-Nku Manasseh, Senior brother.
My beloved husband I am so happy God gave us eight good years to be together, yet I am so sad that death came and separated us. You are such a caring and loving husband. You are such a wonderful father to your four kids they will miss you. Ooooh my honey I will miss you .Every day I feel I am in a dream world, I don’t still believe your gone rest in peace my beloved husband. love you so much.
UNCLE AYAMBA,
THE THOUGHT OF ME GETTING CALLS AND ANSWERING CALLS OF CONDOLENCES WAS A THING I NEVER DREAMT ABOUT. YOU WHERE THE PARTY PLANNER. THE MOVER AND SHAKER OF THIS FAMILY. I REMEMBERED THE PERSON I COULD NOT RECOGNIZED AT THE AIRPORT. I SAW YOU GROW INTO A LOVING FATHER A LOVING UNCLE, AND A NEPHEW THAT MONEY CANNOT BUY. YOU WHERE A PARTY PLANNER A GO TO IN THE FAMILY. YOU LINKED UP EVERY FAMILY MEMBER THAT WE’VE LOST TOCH WITH MAKING US ALL TO BE UNITED TO BUILD A STRONG FAMILY TREE. I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT YOUR LEGACY WILL CONTINUE FOREVER, AND YOUR CHILDREN WILL NEVER BE LEFT BEHIND, I WILL TELL THEM EVERYTHING THEY WANT TO KNOW ABOUT YOU. THANK YOU FOR BEING THERE FOR US. THANKS FOR THE LOVE AND STORIES YOU TOLD NEHM, THANKS FOR SETTING THE STAGE IN MA NDIKUM’ EMPIRE. THANKS FOR TAKINH CARE OF EVERYONE IN THE FAMILY. IF THIS IS THE DESTINY GOD HAD FOR YOU, I WILL NOT QUESTION HIM. I PROMISE YOU BESSEM AND THE KIDS WILL BE OK, DENZEL, DONNEL WILL BE OK JUST THE WAY I KNOW YOU LOVE AND CARE FOR THEM. I WILL FOREVER MISS YOU. LAY DOWN AND TAKE YOUR REST UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN. LOVE YOU AUNTY JANG. (JOYCE NDIKUM)
YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY UNCLE AYAMZZ.REST IN PEACE SON
Ayamba Ayamba Ayamba,
How many times did I call your name? My God how death can be so cruel and painful! The pain is real! When I call you; you answer grand soeur. Is that how your departure would be sudden? I am sure it shocked even you as your spirit walked out of your body. I saw you build your life in America from nothing, worked so hard, and God blessed you with a beautiful family. You left Bessem, Denzel and his siblings, your siblings and Aunty Joyce for who my brother?? Thank God for the life and opportunities He gave you on earth. We will miss your fun loving personality. We trust God in All Things, we know He has a plan. We take comfort in that! In Jesus name, Amen
My dear brother Ayamba, Pretty Ayamz as we used to call you, i am so devasted at this moment because death took you away from us. It took me time to pen this down because i really didn’t know where to start. When i recovered from a brain surgery in 2017, you were the first friend to pay me a visit in Atlanta Despite the fact that you were just returning from Cameroon to bury your mother. What a wonderful friend God gave me in your person and snatched it back from me so soon. We first met in the late eighties as kids around Mile 2 Nkwen and became friends from the first day we stepped our legs in secondary school ( GBHS Bamenda), and was put in the same class. I remember when you came down to yaounde and was working while i was still studying at the university of yaounde and you will always invite me and other friends for drinking, clubbing and all those things young boys will do. You were such a generous person. I remember how you will call me to inquire how to cook one dish or the other. I jokingly once told you to pay me for teaching you and you said ” You like you go open cooking school, i go come learn for free” How do i face Eta in your absence my brother. You were my police in our various class forums making sure i don’t go astray. My Brother, if i want to write everything i know between you and myself for the past 30 years we have been friends, this space will not support that so i wish to tell you ia that you travel safely to heaven and prepare a better place for us.
Officer Blaise Kengjise
Beloved Father, Husband, Brother and Friend to so many, you made a positive impact on every life you touched with your immense personality, your desire to connect and share your happiness embodied by your love of dancing and having a good time. Words can surely not capture how much you will be missed, but we can take solace in knowing that while you were here you lived your life to the fullest. You leave behind an army of dedicated family and friends, who will be there to make sure your children and wife are taken care of. Rest easy Brother.
Murat, we will truly miss you! The atmosphere was always full of humor when you were always around. You fired the grill, made pepper soup, brought 3 bottles of drinks when someone ask of one, gave your time to help others, etc. I remember 12 years ago when we danced for hours at the basement of the episcopal church. We developed a dancing style that only you and I always do. Even during the pandemic, you celebrated Christmas and my birthday together. A week before your demise, we celebrated Carissa’s birthday together. You called me several times that day to bring the backup speaker in case yours failed. Rest in peace, my dear friend!
Ayamz is very hard for me to say RIP, so hard to believe you are gone to the land of no return. I remember it like yesterday when Aunty Esther Takor told me about you guys coming to Atlanta, Ga for a visit. I came and met you and your wife Bessem. You were so full of life , you animated that baby shower we attended.
Well, lord knows best, i cannot question him, rest well my brother and continue to watch over your young family, until we meet again. Bessem accept our heartfelt condolences for this great loss and I pray the almighty gives you the strength to go on. It is well.
Good night Ayamz. Adieu 😭😭😭…..
My dear Ayamz, I fight to hold back my tears as I write this tribute in your honor. I know you had so many plans that you wanted to accomplish, but the Lord Almighty decided otherwise. It seems like you have just taken a trip, and will be back. However, that is not the case. I do still not believe that you are gone. I think about it and get a sinking feeling in my stomach. Your departure has left us feeling helpless, confused, and hopeless. It is hard to believe you have left us this early in life. It is harder because your absence is leaving a void that only you can fill. I thank you for any instance and impact you had made in my life. I love your caring nature and love. When you heard I was sick and did not tell you, you called me in January you promised to come and visit me in Boston in summer. I wish you could still come and visit. Now I cannot see you neither can I hear you! I am lost and confused. You had a Pure Heart of Goal. I pray God will grant you everlasting life. I have no doubt that you are in heaven with our Lord. I was blessed to have you as a nephew. Your love leaves an indelible imprint in my memories. I find comfort in knowing that my life has been enriched by having shared your love. Your love, generosity, and kindness had no boundaries. I know you are in heaven with the rest of the family members who departed before you smiling at us in this tough time. I miss and love you. May the Lord have mercy on your soul so that that you may rest in perfect peace. Go well; Sleep well my son until we meet again.
Love Always,
Aunty Esther
So, that story of death did not change as i expected? Kid brother Match on !!!!
Rest well with your maker. Adieu Ayamz.
(Dr. Enow Parris Cecilia Bechem ) Elder sister.
We prayed and sought the face of God for his healing, and the lord answered our prayers indeed, by blessing it with His will for Ayamba’s life. It’s my prayer that none of us should think that God failed us. His thoughts and ways are higher and far better than ours, and He answers prayers according to his will. He has the last say over everything in heaven and earth.
It’s a very difficult situation but the Holy Spirit is here to comfort us. We will sure miss you Ayamba (pretty).
Dear Ayamba, we fasted and prayed with you at the time you were in a valley due to family related crises. We labored to help you get closer to God and walk with Him. We saw great potential in you and knew that if God would lay hands on you, you could do great exploits. As you have left us rather unexpectedly, our prayer and wish is that you kept the faith to the end. As we hope you did, we trust that we shall meet again to depart no more.
Ayamba, or Pa Boy as we call you. I still can’t believe you are gone. I will never be able to thank you and Bessem enough for taking me and my sisters in when we came to Grand Forks and treating us like family from day one. Your kind, bubbly, lively, and charismatic personality will always be remembered. I don’t have the right words to say but all I can say is thank you. May your soul Rest In Peace
Gone too soon son, who are we to question if we truly believe in God who gave life to you. Not much time spent with you over the long years, but the vibes of your vibrant self from other testimonies on this platform reflects the qualities l saw in you as a kid growing up. You have left your mark in your wife, kids and family, hence you live on. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this most difficult time. May you find eternal rest in the Lord’s kingdom. Rest in peace son.
Murat Ndikum Ayamba a.k.a Pa Tambe,it’s sad we are all writing to bid you farewell my good friend💔💔💔.Go well and i pray you find eternal rest with the Lord Almighty.Go well brother man and keep watching with Manyi over your twin brother Eta.
Rest well Pretty
Go well beloved nephew. My sincere condolences to your beloved wife and kids. Even though I never got to chance to meet you, it still hurts so bad that you left prematurely. What else can we say? God’s ways are different. May you RIP.
Pa Tambe rest in peace
Thanks Ayamba for your kindness to me and the girls. May God keep you safe till we meet to part no more. And may He fill the gap your absence has created in the lives of Bessem, your kids, family and friends. You will sorely be missed!!
Goodnight!!!
Aunty Kate.
This deeply sad. At such a young age, leaving behind such a beautiful and loving family in grief is very heart-wrenching. Travel well and rest in God’s care.
Fairwell my twin brother🙏🙏❤❤😭😭
Rip Ayamba: you will be greatly missed
Rest in Peace Ayamba, may God console and care for those you left behind. May you brother Eta, your wife and kids take heart
Dear Ayamz, I remember you when we are in Form 1 & 2 in GBHS B’da. It was like yesterday. A few time we discussed while you were in the US. Your dead was a shock to me. I can’t tell when someone leaves this world but for me this too soon. My prayers to your the family you have left behind.
You always addressed me as Nigerian. You make me laugh anytime we meet. Its hard to believe you are no longer here with us. May the good lord you have served grand eternal rest in his kingdom.
Your absence will be felt by many but I know you will be forever alive in our mind and heart.
Rest on Ayamba
Take heart Bessem. God is with you and the kids
Fare thee well, Ayamz. May the good Lord grant you eternal rest and peace in His heavenly kingdom.
May He comfort and protect Bessem and the kids; grant them strength and courage.
Ohh Ayamba,whyyyyyyyyy 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
My heart has been broken Ayamz from the day you went into coma. We can’t question God for He is all knowing. Bessem, the peace of God will carry you through these very difficult times. It shall be well. RIP Ayamz.
Ayams, I know I shouldn’t ask why you left so soon because only the almighty knows but I will ask anyway. It’s too much to bare. Go well, greet mom and grandma. It shall be well.😭😭😭
Rest well brother.
Grand Ayamz,
You were the big brother I never had. Your generosity and love made you an amazing father, brother, husband, uncle, leader, best friend and the life of every party and family gathering. You taught us how to be kind hearted, caring and generous with the sole purpose of bringing the family together as one. Your legacy shall live through us forever. The last time we spoke, you told me all the plans you had when we see again in a few months but even as you’ve gone to rest, I continue to look forward to fulfill all those desires you had for the family.
We thank you for being a golden blessing in our family.
We Love you always and forever in our hearts.
Ayamba, as you go, go In Peace to be with mom and grama. I will miss you dearly. I will miss the jokes and the laughter. May you meet your maker and Rest In Peace.
Ayamba my beloved small bro,our star ,our presi u left us in a schock up till now I still refuse to accept your departure even after seeing u lying in your kasket .😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭if cry and questions could bring someone back u would have been with us now making your jokes,telling us sweet stories. U left Bamoun quarter with pain in our heart ❤. U didn’t think of your love once like your wife and your four kids and the rest of your family.U were a being with a golden heart.people with your personality are rare to find.u showed us love,u make us to understand that your brother must not be from thesame blood,u showed us what unity means,u were our Hero und will remain our Hero forever.There is one thing am very sure heaven have recieve one Angel .Thank u small bro for spending these years with us.We will miss u somuch but u left your legacy behind and I appreciate u for sharing your happiness and pains with us. It hard for me to type RIP 🙏bc I know your spirit is still live with us forever till we meet to part nomore. Go well our Hero .😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭