Petronella Shirk

petronella shirk

February 6, 1927 ~ August 21, 2025

Born in: Grand Forks, North Dakota
Resided in: Fargo, North Dakota

Petronella’s memorial mass will be livestreamed below at 1:00 pm, Monday, September 15, 2025

Petronella (Pet) Evangeline Shirk was born on February 6, 1927, in Grand Forks, ND, to Wilmath (Bill) Sr. and Lillian Hastings. Pet was the first born of 7 children.

She married Orland Hugh (Buck) Shirk, her college sweetheart, in St. Mary’s Catholic Church, Grand Forks, on April 17, 1947.

Pet was a long-time member of St Mary’s parishes in Grand Forks and Fargo. She enjoyed playing the organ during Sunday services.

She graduated from high school in Grand Forks, and went to UND for 2 years. In 1977, she completed her dream by obtaining a diploma from North Dakota State University. She worked at St. Luke’s Hospital where she took her medical technology training but her employer was the Neuropsychiatric Institute. Pet thoroughly enjoyed her work as a medical technologist where she drew patients’ blood and did lab work.

Pet was a member of the Sons of Norway and a lifetime member of the VFW Auxiliary.

Pet traveled on several cruises. She considered the 1999 trip to Antarctic as one of her life’s highlights. It was a solo cruise at the age of 72.

Pet was a landlord who owned several apartments. She was a very capable and handy individual who did many of the maintenance and upkeep tasks of her rentals. All her tenants considered Pet a friend and not just a landlord.

When Pet was not busy with her rentals, she enjoyed gardening, doing puzzles and playing cards. The most important activities were socializing and dancing. Wherever there was a dance, she would be there. Now she is dancing in Heaven.

Over the decades of her life, she has seen many changes. She grew up during the Great Depression, World War II, the 1950 Grafton flood and the 1957 Fargo tornado.

Pet passed away at the age of 98 under the care of the Sanford Fargo Hospice House.

Pet is preceded in death by her husband Buck, her parents, three sisters Mary Lou, Lillian (Bitsy), Mildred and two brothers Paul and George.

She is survived by her youngest brother Wilmath (Bill) Jr. (Linda); sons Patrick (Kitty) Littleton, CO, William (Judy Wong), Fargo, ND, Timothy, Rolette, ND, Michael, Fargo, ND; grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Sanford Fargo Hospice House.

A visitation and memorial mass followed by a reception will be held September 15 at St. Mary’s Cathedral, Fargo. Visitation begins at 12:15 p.m. with mass at 1:00 p.m.

Interment to be set for a later date at Memorial Park Cemetery in Grand Forks, ND.

Services

Visitation: September 15, 2025 12:15 pm - 1:00 pm

St. Mary's Cathedral Catholic Church
604 Broadway
Fargo, North Dakota 58102

(701) 235-4289
https://cathedralofstmary.com/

Memorial Mass: September 15, 2025 1:00 pm

St. Mary's Cathedral Catholic Church
604 Broadway
Fargo, North Dakota 58102

(701) 235-4289
https://cathedralofstmary.com/

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  1. Praying for you and your family. I always enjoyed visiting with you when you were a Catholic Daughter and I would deliver your Ct. St. Ann program book.

  2. During the years we lived in Fargo, Pet was a dear friend to my mother, who truly valued her kindness and thoughtfulness.
    May she rest in peace.

  3. Tim, your mother was quite the lady! She outlived your dad, but I’m sure she carried him in her heart! I have posted her obituary on our Fargo North High Facebook page. Hopefully I honored her with love. Please take care of yourself and your wife. She is home now and will forever watch over you both. Hugs! Sandra JoAnn Lindstrom

  4. Pat was our neighbor when I was growing up in Fargo. She was a very caring mother and person.
    It’s hard to lose someone who meant so much to all of us, and even harder the we can’t all be together to say
    goodbye. We want you to know we’re with you to say goodbye. We want you to know we’re with you in spirit-now and in the days and weeks ahead.

  5. Outstanding tribute video! What memories. Aunt Pet was such a go getter and full of life.
    She will be missed.
    Cousin Gail

  6. To My great grandma, you where so full of life and love! It has been a long time since we have even seen each other,. I will definitely miss you ! And after almost 100 years down here, its now your turn too rest. We will send our love to you in our prayers!
    Love, Nicholas


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