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Rebecca Graff

May 22, 1962 - March 25, 2010


Monday, March 29 from 5-7 pm at Boulger Funeral Home, Fargo and also one hour prior to the service at the church on Tuesday.

Prayer Service:

Monday at 7:00 pm at the funeral home.

Funeral Service:

Tuesday, March 30 at 1:00 pm at First Assembly of God Church in Fargo.


Sunset Memorial Gardens, Fargo.


Boulger Funeral Home

Rebecca Graff

May 22, 1962 - March 25, 2010


Rebecca Anne Graff of Fargo ND, born May 22, 1962, died on March 25, 2010 at Merit Care Hospital surrounded by family and friends.

She was born in Bismarck, ND to Shirley Svihla and Maynard Veith. In her efforts to meet the man she knew was her future husband, Rebecca applied as an overnight waitress working for Michael Graff.  Rebecca later turned these efforts into a successful 27 year marriage blessed with their two children Cameron and Carmen.

Rebecca was a loving wife, mother, daughter and sister who assisted her husband in managing the North American Steak Buffet until she was no longer able. In her final years at home Rebecca was heavily involved in crafts, which she made for friends and loved ones. Rebecca touched the lives of many, extending our family to include nurses, doctors, dialysis patients, coworkers, neighbors and so many more…

She is survived by her husband Michael Graff and two children Cameron and Carmen Graff all of Fargo, mother Shirley Svihla and brothers Charles and Jamie Veith of Bismarck, and brother Bryan Svihla of Metarie, LA and many extended family (and last but not least her beloved dog Snooky).


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  1. Ann Newquist Reicheneker says:

    charles – my prayers have been with you and your family these past few days. and may God be your strength in the days ahead.

  2. Lois Lantz says:

    Fargo, ND
    58102 ND
    Rebecca was loved by all who knew her at Dialysis. She gave me many words of encouragement during my husband’s dialysis from 2005-2008. She will be lovingly remembered
    I send my sincere condolences to her family.

  3. Trisha Voeltz (Botzet) says:

    Jamestown ND
    Dear Mike & family,
    I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I don’t know the right words to say, just know that you are in my prayers today and the days to follow. I wish you strength and peace during this hard time. Mike I haven’t seen you in years, my folks have bumped into at the restaurant and so I knew your wife was sick. God bless you and your family, with sympathy, Trisha & family.

  4. Lloyd and Deb Suhr says:

    Bismarck ND

    Deb and I are so sorry to hear about your loss, I remember Becky very fondly and our hearts and prayers go out to you and the kids in this very difficult time.

    Take care

    Lloyd and Deb

  5. Char & Fred Beehler says:

    LaMoure ND
    Mike, Cameron and Carmen,

    We were so sad to hear of Rebecca’s passing.

    She was such a sweet lady and we always looked forward to seeing her when she was working at the Steak Buffet.

    Know that she will always be with you, she is a part of your heart and memories.

    Our prayers are with you all.

    Char & Fred Beehler

  6. Susan I. Smith says:

    LaVernia TXMy thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. May God be with your and comfort you.

  7. Leah says:

    Fargo North Dakota
    It doesn’t seem real that you are gone…I just took care of you a little over a week ago. I will miss joking with you, laughing with you, and watching you make things…take care and rest in peace Becky. Will miss you a lot. I am grateful I got the pleasure of meeting you and taking care of you. Thank you.


    FRAZEE, MINNESOTAMike and family….We did not know your Rebecca, but we do know the love and care you showed her. Even though death is final, memories are forever. Cling to them!…May God sustain you in your lonely hours. Prayers …..Donna and Roy

  9. Linda Stanek says:

    Wyndmere ND
    Words can’t begin to express the sorrow I feel by losing my best friend for all of these 47 years.

    You were an angel sent to me by God to help me celebrate all of the great things in my life, as well as help ease my burden for the not so wonderful things in my life.

    If I could take away the burden of sorrow that Mike, Cameron, Carmen and the rest of your family is going through, I would.

    Let God take care of you the way you have taken care of so many of us during your short time here.

    I love you and miss you.

  10. Tammy (myers) Binder says:

    You will always be in my heart. Go with God in Peace. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. You will greatly missed.

  11. Denise Sheppard Miller says:

    Moorhead MN
    Steve’s and my Prayers are with all of you. Becky was a wonderful person and much loved. She will be missed.

  12. Norma Johnson says:

    Fargo Mike and family,
    I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are remembered in thought and prayer.

  13. Jeff and Nicky Graff says:

    tea sdDear Mike and kids, We are so sorry for your loss, our deepest sympathy goes out to you. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

  14. Duane & Raydene Zimmerman says:

    Bismarck ND
    Sorry for the lost of your loved one, we only meet her once at Brad’s wedding. She was a very nice lady and easy to get along with. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family…

  15. Claudia says:

    Fargo N.D
    >Mike and Family,
    I’m so sorry. I’m thinking of you.
    Claudia Bergan

  16. Brad & Carissa Veith says:

    Phoenix AZ
    Sorry we are unable to attend the service.
    We will miss you.

  17. Alice & Darrold Engel says:

    Mike and family — our thoughts and prayers go out to you. Rebecca was a wonderful and strong lady. Although she will be missed, at least she can now be at peace. Honor her by taking care of yourself. Your friends from the transplant group – Alice and Darrold

  18. Clint & Jan Felker says:

    Audubon MnDear Mike and Family. Please know that Becky has been in our thoughts and prayers for many years and now they switch to you and your’s as you go on.
    Best to you always, Clint and Jan

  19. Nickole Smith says:

    Tucson AZ
    Only wished I could have met her.. Sounded like a wonderful women.. Some souls aren’t here too be long but the mark they leave last forever… So sorry for your loss..

    Nickole and Mason Smith

  20. Lisa Bahn says:

    Bend OR Charles has spoke to me about the wonderful woman that you were. I only wish that I could have met you. I have only met this “side” of my extended family very recently. To your family, you were truly blessed to have had her in your life and I only wish that i could have met her and known her like you did.
    Blessings, Lisa

  21. Glen Brock says:

    Houston TexasMay you rest in peace.

    Sister of my friend. Charles.

  22. bryan Svihla says:

    for my loving sister. I love you and you will be missed. I know you are in a better place. I love you

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