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Shari Enger

August 24, 1963 - September 03, 2018


September 06, 2018
10:00 - 11:00 AM

Hillsboro United Parish Church

Funeral Service

September 06, 2018
- 11:00 AM

Hillsboro United Parish Church


Wildeman-Boulger Funeral Home, Hillsboro

Shari Enger

August 24, 1963 - September 03, 2018


On Monday, September 3, 2018 Shari Enger passed away surrounded by her family.  Shari will be forever remembered by her husband Terry and their 2 children Kelly Enger and Josh (Laura) Enger, by her grandchildren Justus King, Brady Enger, Gabe Enger, and Ava Enger, by her mother Bess Fischer, and by her brothers and sisters Mark Headlee, Matt (Andrea) Headlee, Jonathan (Starcee) Headlee, and DJ (Lawson) Cole. She will also be forever remembered by her extended family and dear friends.

Shari was born in Greenfield, Indiana on August 24th, 1963.  She lived there until she moved to Virginia and found the love of her life. Shari and Terry met in February of ‘82 and were married on October 2, 1982. They moved from Virginia to North Dakota in February of ‘84.  They lived in several different towns from Tioga, New Rockford, and West Fargo, but settled in Kelso, ND in ‘97.

Shari had many passions in life.  Her biggest was her kids.  She spent most of her life raising her two children.  She loved to spend her days with family and friends.  She loved listening to music, bowling, poker, and art. She also loved going to concerts and waterparks.

Shari is preceded in death by her father Jacque Headlee, paternal grandfather Herald Headlee, paternal grandmother Ada Headlee, maternal grandfather Louis Justus and maternal grandmother Kathleen Justus.


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9 responses to “Shari Enger”

  1. Tammy Jester-Vangundy says:

    My god-sister, first childhood friend, and co-defender of Mark.You will be missed and I am honored to call you my sister. So many memories and so much love. Prayers for your children, husband, my Aunt Bess, Mark and Matt. Love you all and peace be with you. ♡

  2. Tami Albert says:

    I am so sorry for you loss. Your family is in my prayers. Shari was a wonderful person, and I have many memories of her growing up!

  3. Adele Swiontek says:

    I am so sorry for your loss, loved working with Shari and just made life and work so enjoyable- she had a wonderful smile and just being around her made you feel good. She will be missed.

  4. Judith Vest Brown says:

    Shari I will miss your sweet smile I have a lot of memories of young hanging out living close to each other. There was never a time I never seen you smile. I know you are in heaven with your wings and smiling at everyone. The Lord must got some plans for you to take you away so soon. Prayers for you your family and we will see each other again. Love Judy

  5. Becky Foss says:

    My sincere sympathies to all of you. Shari had the greatest smile and the kindest heart. She talked about her kids and grandkids all the time. That includes her husband! I also enjoyed her laugh. I just watched the video. It was wonderful and full of great pictures and I was very moved by it. Kuddos to whoever put that together. Once again, I am so sorry.

  6. Doris Cole says:

    From the time I could remember, you were my sister. I won’t use the word step, because you were always more than that to me. You will forever be missed. I love you always, DJ

  7. Brad and Marci Anderson says:

    Terry and family,
    So sorry for your loss of Shari, may you find peace and comfort in the days to come.
    Brad and Marci Anderson

  8. Dawn Vadnie says:

    My thoughts, prayers, hopes of comfort and all the wonderful memories of Shari are with you now and in the days, months, years to come. The tough times come and go – the little things in daily life will bring up a memory – take the time to share it.

    I loved working with Shari, we had a chat window open everyday with each other to help with work, talk about what was going on in life and share what we did hanging out with Josh & Laura’s boys – always something to smile and laugh about!

    When we would pull into your driveway so Jazzie could hangout while we ran to hockey tournaments, boy did she get excited – she knew exactly where she was at!

    Being around Shari you couldn’t do anything but smile and be happy. Her smile is contagious and her love for Terry, Josh, Laura, Kelly, their children – unconditional. Her family, love of life and everyone in it can not be duplicated! Your family photos are a treasure as are all of you – watching the video shows just a glimpse of what fun your family has and what we all should be so blessed to experience in life.

    Shari was an amazing person that loved and cared about everyone that entered her life, she is missed here on Earth already. I know heaven is a brighter place with her up there now – he really does take the best.

    All our love Engers, Headlees & Justus’
    – Dawn, Cory, Destiny, Gavin & Shari’s Grandpuppy Jazzie Girl

  9. William Geary says:

    You will be truly missed Shari. Barb really had a great friend in you I know she will always carry you in her heart and sole.lm glad you came to Virginia with us and met the love of your life.We will think of you from time to time because we will always love you like family. RIP Shari Bill and Barb.

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