Andrew Desharnais

andrew desharnais

December 13, 1994 ~ February 20, 2024

Born in: Rochester, Minnesota
Resided in: Fargo, North Dakota

Join us as we celebrate the life of Andrew Clark Desharnais, a beloved son, brother, nephew, and friend, who passed away on February 20, 2024, after a courageous 8-year battle with brain cancer. Born on December 13, 1994, in Rochester, MN to parents David and Patricia Desharnais, Andrew had a passion for life and outdoor adventures.

Andrew graduated from Shanley High School in 2013 and embarked on various professional endeavors, from working at Corwin Automotive to OK Tire.

Throughout his life, Andrew found solace in the great outdoors, spending his days 4-wheeling, mudding, duck hunting, fishing, and anything outdoors. His culinary prowess was a marvel to behold, with his Pit Boss smoker being a centerpiece for creating delectable meals. Andrew’s love for friendship and laughter shone brightly during his “mudding” escapades at Vinny’s mud bog with his friend group that he cherished. To Boogs that was the true meaning of friends. His love for dogs showed through with Drake and Sadie.

Andrew’s compassionate spirit extended beyond his personal endeavors as he initiated “Funky Sock Friday” at the Roger Maris Pediatric Oncology Cancer Center, spreading cheer and positivity to those around him. Andrew’s entire medical team was something that made him feel so special, they took phenomenal care of him through every step of his “ride”.

Andrew is survived by his parents, Dave and Patty; brother, Tony, Jenna, Nevaeh, Gavin; many aunts and uncles, Don Kenna, Judy Thorstenson, Chris Leingang, Cindy Leingang, Howard and Mary Kenna, Connie and Mark Ostern, Jim and Nancy Melting; and all of his amazing cousins, Amy, Don, Willy, Jennie, Maggie, Jake, Mallory, Isaiah, Nick, Ollie, Maddie, Seth, Mason, Chris, Alex and Kellee.

He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Chris and Albina Leingang, Lorrie Janca, and Joseph Desharnais; as well as Aunt Rita and Uncle Terry.

Visitation will be held 9:30 to 10:30, Memorial Mass: 10:30 A.M on Saturday, March 2, 2024, at Sts. Anne and Joachim Catholic Church, Fargo, with a luncheon and sharing memories to follow. A private interment will be held.

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Memorial Service - Saturday: March 2, 2024 10:30 am

Sts. Anne and Joachim Catholic Church, Fargo
5202 25th St. S.
Fargo , North Dakota 58104

(701) 235-5757
https://stsaaj.org/

Visitation - Saturday: March 2, 2024 9:30 am - 10:30 am

Sts. Anne and Joachim Catholic Church, Fargo
5202 25th St. S.
Fargo , North Dakota 58104

(701) 235-5757
https://stsaaj.org/

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  1. I’m so sorry Patty and Dave. I did not know Andy but what I do know how it feels to lose a child and my heart aches. I will keep you in my prayers and the precious soul of Andy.

  2. Patty Dave and family…. My hearts breaks for you and your family! Andy was the same age as when my son passed away and my heartfelt prayers and hugs goes out to all of you! I love being his 2nd grade teacher! He was a very special student and left a lasting impression on me! God bless you all and know he is at peace! ❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏 love, Joe and Maureen Kary

  3. Oh so sad to hear this news. Andy was such a bright light in a gloomy world. He was a delightful young man. I’m happy his battle is over and yet very sorry for your loss Dave and Patty. We will be praying for the repose of Andy’s soul and comfort for the whole family in your grieving. God Bless You all

  4. Dave,Patty and family. Our hearts are saddened by the news. We always laugh at our little Andy stories when we were neighbors. God Bless. RiP Andy. Marlin and Rhonda Pfingsten

  5. We offer our deepest sympathy to all of Andy’s family, and we are praying for your healing. We will remember to pray for the repose of his soul. We are so terribly sorry. Hugs to you all.

  6. I remember Andy best from elementary school when Thomas was in the same cub scout group you both led. He was a bubbly happy kid! Your loss is unimaginable. Our prayers and sympathy to you all.

  7. Patty and family,
    I am so sorry to hear of Andy’s passing. Yet, the memories of your son in my classroom and our conversations then – still bring a smile to my face all these years later.

  8. My heart breaks for your loss. I remember little Andy, cute as a bug, running around the neighborhood and Nativity….He was always kind hearted and sweet at every age.
    No more pain and suffering. He is w our Savior. Praying for you all❤️❤️

  9. Patty, Dave and family,
    So sorry to hear of Andy’s passing. From what I understand, he fought a long and trying battle with this disease. I know these words don’t help much, but no more pain and suffering. He’s at peace.
    I’m thinking of you and your family. I know it can’t be easy. Someday you’ll be able to think about him and it will still hurt, but not as bad. Again, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

  10. Dave Patty & Tony,
    Our sincere condolences are with you. Andy was such a special guy to me & my family. I will cherish my many memories of him. So glad our paths crossed & will always cherish moments with all of you. Always in my prayers. Love Sandra & Jason Jaeger

  11. Patty and Dave,

    We are deeply saddened over the loss of your dear son! Thinking about you all as you gather to celebrate his life and recount memories!

    With love,
    Mike and Melinda Melting

  12. Andy was Jacobs very first friend in Fargo. Riding by on his Harley bicycle, calling Jacob out for playing basketball. When Jacob retaliated with, “I’m a hockey player!” That cemented the friendship. Two redneck kindred spirits at the age of 12. We will never forget Andy’s passion for all things fun and adventurous! His beautiful laugh and smile. Wise beyond his years and pure joy to be around. God bless you Patty and Dave.

  13. Andy you were an amazing friend! Always had a smile on your face and could make anyone who was having a bad day smile and laugh! Sending love and prayers to the family

  14. Patty & Dave, Both Paul who played hockey w/Andy, and Aaron who had a love for mudding like Andy! Both have good memories of him and his truck!

  15. Dave, Patty, and family
    My heart is breaking for all of you. I will cherish the Angel hockey memories and will never forget State in Watford City!! Andy’s zest for life and contagious smile will truly be missed by all who know and love him.

  16. Patty, Dave & Family

    We are deeply saddened over the loss of your beloved Andy. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

  17. Patty, Dave & Tony ,
    I am so very sorry to hear about Andy’s passing. He was such a nice young man…always smiling and so polite, a true joy to be around. He will certainly be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad time. May God give you strength now more than ever.
    Joy Magstadt

  18. I am so saddened to read of Andrew’s passing. I and my church group prayed for him often. Peace and Blessings be with you Dave and Patty.

  19. I’m so sad to hear of your loss of your son Andy. May God show you comfort, love and peace during this very hard time. The love you showed my family during our loss of Nathan Wrage meant so much to me. I am praying and thinking of you and your family during this hard time.
    Sincerely, Deb Peterson

  20. Patty, Dave, & Tony,
    My heart aches for all of you upon learning of Andy’s passing. When he was in my middle school classes, he always seemed like a big teddy bear with a smile on his face. I hope you find comfort in knowing Jesus has wrapped his loving arms around Andy in eternal glory! Patty, I look forward to giving you a big hug when I return from Mesa this spring. Blessings to all of you!

    • Dave and Patty,
      We are very saddened to learn of Andy’s passing. Through these years of difficulty and challenges battling cancer, it sounds like he fought the good fight with with courage, compassion for others and a good dose of humor. We remember how Andy, at a young age, would step in after his own games and take charge of the Angel’s concession stands to help us in our shifts with whatever we needed. He was always happy, helpful and so much fun to be around! Our heart breaks for your loss and may God bless you and your family during this very sad time.
      Rick and Vicki Simonson

  21. Patty and Dave we are so very sorry to hear about Andy’s passing. May God hold you all close in His loving arms and give you comfort, peace and strength.

  22. Patty and Dave we are so very sorry to hear about Andy’s passing. May God hold you all close in His loving arms and give you comfort, peace and strength.

  23. Praying for comfort in this difficult time. May Gos bless you with the warmth of his love.

    Anne Bofferding
    Shanley Class of ‘79

  24. Dear Patty and Dave,
    May the Lord comfort you as you grieve for your dear son Andy. So deeply sorry for your loss. Dani Johnson and family

  25. An Angel hockey player is up in heaven – we have many fond memories of Andy from the youth hockey days! His sense of humor was outstanding- and much appreciated on a bad day. Sending prayers and peace to all. RIP Andy.

    Lisa and Mike Montgomery

  26. Andy was lite at work when I worked with him, his exuberance showed his personality. I will miss that, his lite will show for ever in my memories. Dave/Patty he was a true treasure to this world and I am truly sorry for your loss. Gods speed to him and your family. Victor Bryans

  27. Dave and Patty,
    I am so sorry for your loss. Our hearts go out to you and your family. I know all to well the heart ache of losing a young brother. He will forever be with you in your heart and memories.

  28. Patty and Dave, We are so sorry to hear of Andy’s passing. The memories you treasure of him will bring you comfort and joy in the difficult days ahead. Cherish them and know they will be with you forever. We remember Andy with a bright smile and full of curiosity, may he RIP

  29. Dear Patty and Family,
    My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.
    Lori Olson Brown
    Shanley ‘79

  30. Patty, Dave and Tony, I’m so sorry to hear about Andy. You’re all in my thoughts and prayers.
    Suzie Levandowski

  31. I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Andy. I have never met a more caring family, and Andy had a spesial ability which enabeled him to make everyone around him feel taken care of. Andy will be sorely missed, and we can never replace the love he gave to the world. I am thankfull for having him in my life.


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