Ashley Haines
August 24, 1988 ~ December 24, 2011
Our Angel, Ashley Rae Haines was called home to the Lord on Christmas Eve, December 24, 2011. Ashley was born August 24, 1988 in Fargo, N.D. to Candis (Anderson) Haines, and William H. Haines III. Ashley was baptized, confirmed, and was an active member of St. Rose of Lima Catholic Church, Hillsboro, N.D.
She lived and was educated in Hillsboro. Ashley excelled in academics and athletics while in high school. She is well known for her athletic accomplishments breaking many school records. She was a member of the 2007 State Volleyball Championship Team. Ashley earned individual recognition as runner-up for Outstanding Senior Athlete. After graduation in May 2007, she attended Bismarck State College on an athletic scholarship, where she excelled in basketball and volleyball and earned a degree in Medical Assisting in 2009. Ashley continued to pursue her passion for academics and volleyball under an athletic scholarship at Mayville State University, where she was currently a student. While in college she continued to excel in sports and received many awards and acknowledgements in basketball and volleyball.
Most importantly Ashley loved all the people in her life, especially her mom, dad, and her sister Billie Jo with whom she created many happy memories and shared many wonderful hours. She enjoyed spending time with her family and friends. The very special love of her life is Shane Vettel. Ashley loved the outdoors. She grew up on the water of Red Willow Lake Resort where she was an avid water-skier, swimmer, and hunter. Ashley thoroughly enjoyed meeting and helping people.
Our Angel was with us for such a short time and will be with us always in our hearts. Ashley made a lasting impact on everyone she met.
Ashley is survived by her mother, Candis Haines of Hillsboro; father, William H. Haines III of Mayville; sister Billie Jo and her husband Aaron Soholt of Mayville; grandmothers Vernis Haines of Binford and Donna Anderson of Grand Forks. Godparents Larry (Dean) and Barb Anderson of Thompson. She also leaves many beloved aunts, uncles, cousins, relatives, and friends.
Ashley will be forever in our hearts.
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West Fargo ND
Candi and family ~
I am so sorry to hear of your daughter’s passing. I cannot even imagine the pain and loss you must be feeling. But know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of so many.
Thompson ND
So very sorry to hear of Ashley’s passing. She was a great athlete and coach. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Billie Jo and family.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Hillsboro North Dakota
Candi,
I was shocked and saddened to learn of your daughter’s accident. I can’t begin to imagine the sorrow that you are experiencing. Knowing that there are no words to assuage this tragic loss, my mom and I simply send you our deepest and most heartfelt sympathy.
Binford ND
Bill, Candy, Billie Jo and the entire Haines family. We are so sorry to hear about Ashley. I have met her several times in the Sutton area. Lorri is a good friend of mine and Roger and Debbie are our neighbors. It is such a horrible thing. My heart just breaks for you as I lost my brother and his wife 19 years ago in an accident. It is such a horrific thing to loose someone so sudden. We are praying for strength and comfort for your entire family.
Grand Forks Ashley,
I cant even believe your kind soul is gone. God is so lucky to have you in heaven and I just know you are going to make everyone up there happy just like you did to everyone you met. I remember sitting infront of you in class and how you just made class fun and enjoyable! You will be missed and my thoughts and prayers go out to your family. Say hi to my Grandma, you two will be like 2 peas in a pod 🙂 Love you forever
Pahrump NVBill and Family,
Mom and I send our deepest sympathy. Our prayers are with you.
Mayville ND
So sorry for your loss. From everything I have heard and read Ashley was a tremendous young women. I knew Ashley through her high school athletic career at Hillsboro High School. I had the privilege to broadcast many of her volleyball and basketball games. My daughter Jennifer was in classes with Ashley at Mayville State and our daughter-in-law Amanda (Dick) Keating was a friend of Ashley’s. Our sincere sympathy on your loss.
Dan & Mary Keating & Family
Fessenden ND
Dear Haines Family, We are so sorry to hear of the death of Ashley. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this time.
Bismarck ND
I can only hope that my daughter grows up to have the same effect on the world as Ashley did. How proud you must be to have raised such an amazing soul. My heart aches for your loss.
I do not know this angel personally, but I have been thinking of her. My thoughts and prayers to Ashleys family and friends mourning this loss, especially her mom, dad and sister. God bless.
Glenfield ND
Billy and family,
Debbie and I are so sorry for your loss Billy. If you feel the need to talk, call me anytime, day or night. Or middle of the night. 701-785-2214
Grand Forks ND
My heart is so saddened to hear of your loss. In the coming days may you feel the prayers of everyone surrounding you with comfort and strength that can only come from above.
Hillsboro North Dakota
You will be dearly missed Ashley!
Ashley and I had an accounting class together at BSC. She always had a smile on her face even when she didn’t understand something. We would work on our homework together at night, especially when she missed a day due to being gone for sports. She was an amazing person and I love the story about her giving back through the “Open Your Heart Campaign”. She will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this tough time.
Bismarck North Dakota
Our deepest regerts on your loss. Please know that we are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Bismarck ND
Your family has been in our thoughts and prayers after hearing of your tragic loss. We read a wonderful tribute to your daughter’s giving soul printed on the front page of the Bismarck Tribune this morning. What a beautiful person!
May God send you strength through all our prayers.
Glenfield ND
Billy and family,
Debbie and I are so sorry of your loss. If you need someone to talk to Billy you can call me day or middle of the night, anytime. 701-785-2214
Devils Lake North Dakota
I just wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers got out to you all in this time of deep sorrow.
Cambridge VermontDear Haines Family,
My deepest sympathy for the loss of such a beautiful young lady. I so enjoyed sharing time with her while she was in the 6th grade… what a joy! I am so sad to here that one so precious is now gone. I feel your pain and my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Peggy Brooks
West Fargo ND
Candis, Bill, Billy Jo, Aaron and Shane,
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Ashley was such a beautiful young lady and will always be remembered for her kindness and love for life. She had the most beautiful smile!
Chris Garrett
Grand Forks North Dakota
My deepest sympathy to your entire family. There is nothing I can say but God bless you.
Cooperstown ND
Dear Haines family, our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of terrible loss. Ashley’s beauty reflected your entire family. God’s peace be with you all.
Fargo, ND
You will be deeply missed Ashley.
To Bill, Candy, Billie Jo and Aaron: Our thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of heartache and healing. I love you guys.
Bismarck I don’t know your beloved Ashley, however, her picture illustrates a person of love and joy to me. While reading the story of how she volunteered the day before she passed, I couldn’t help but think, what a special person who had so much to offer this world. I’m very sorry for your loss. There are no words a total stranger can offer to help ease your pain, but please know, just reading the story about Ashley brought warmth to my heart. God’s blessings of peace and comfort surround you during this very difficult time.
I was fortunate enough to get to know Ashley while she was an athlete at BSC. I was the team trainer and she always had a smile on her face. It was fun watching her play volleyball and basketball and visiting with her. So much talent and such a sweet,beautiful person. Cherish and hold on to the memories and know she is always with you.
Billings MontanaOur sympathy to the Haines family, to Shane, to Ernie and Raylene, and to all those who loved Ashley. You are in our prayers.
West Covina CaliforniaTo our loved Haines family, Bill, Candy & Billyt Jo plus the entire family including Ashleys loved one, Shane.
Our hears are heavy for each of you at the loss of Ashley. We know God has a plan for each of our lives as Jeremiah 29:11 tells us. Its hard for us to grasp @ times like these, but some day we will see His plan clearly.
Blessings,
Uncle Bob and Aunt Mari
Holmen WisconsinMy thoughts and prayers are with your family. I am so sorry for your loss. I remember going to play at your house with Stacy Bakken when we were kids. Ashley was just a toddler back then, and such a cute little girl. Thinking of your family during this difficult time.
reynolds ndDearest Bill, Candis, Penny, Billie Jo, and family,
Our hearts are sent to you at this most grievous time. We love you and are here for you. We can make mass quantities of chocolate chip cookies or anything under the sun – which is such a small token to try and help – if that is possible – ease your great sorrow at this horrible time in your life. Just know – we are here for you – we love you very much!!
Sincerely,
Marvin Christine and Emma Sondrol
Thompson ND
Dear Candice and Billy, Billie Jo and Shane, My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I can not even imagine what losing a child would be like. I am sure it is devestating to say the least. Please let me know if there is anything that I can do to help you guys! My phone number is (701) 741-8888. You all my deepest sympathys. Sorry this happened to such loving people.
We mourn this terrible tragedy with you all. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you as you deal with the loss of such a wonderful young person. May God grant you peace.
May the Lord bless and keep you all in his loving arms throughout your time of sorrow. My heart aches for you all as we all shed tears for your loss of Ashley and her zest for life. You are in my heart and thoughts and continuous prayer.
Love in our Christ our Lord and Redeemer,
Chad
Charlson ND
Candi, Bill, Billie Jo and family,
We are so very sorry that you lost your beautiful Ashley!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
It doesn’t matter if the child is 11 monthes like our beautiful greatgrand daughter Baysha Rae or 23 or what ever age, it’s devestating and unreal
that it happens. Just like Ashley for you, our Baysha Rae will be with us and in our hearts forever. You will always have Ashley there, and I know from losing Baysha that you put her pictures out all over the place and talk about her all the time, (it helps) and laugh about the things she did and said. It helps us keep them forever.
SYmpathy and love to you all.
Bismarck ND
Penny & all of Ashley’s family. I am so sorry for your loss & think of you often. I saw today’s paper & knew she had to be yours, how beautiful & talented. Keep the Faith. Love, Kerry
Sharon, ND
Ashley, we are truly blessed to have had someone like you in our lives. You were such an amazing friend to us and the time we spent will always be cherished. We will miss you greatly! God now has a beautiful angel by his side watching over all of us.
To the Haines family: We send our thoughts and prayers to everyone and hope that you find comfort and support in each other and loved ones through this difficult time.
Alsen ND
Dear Bill & Family You are in our thoughts & prayers. Ashley was truly a beautiful person inside and out! May Gods love & strength carry you through the days ahead. Our deepest sympathy. Terry, Joy, Brandon ,Briana & Trevor
Dickinson ND
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Moorhead Minnesota
To the Haines Family we are absolutely heartbroken for you over the loss of your beautiful Ashley! Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this devistating time. If there is anything at all that we can do for any of you, don’t hesitate to call on us!
McVille ND
Bill and Candy,
We are saddened to hear of your loss, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.
Fargo N.D
.Our thoughts & prayers are with all of you at this time of your loss.
Hannaford ND
Haines Family-
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you as you remember your beautiful Ashley. We were so saddened to hear of your loss! Know that our good Lord is standing by your side and will help carry you through your darkest hours.
Fargo North Dakota
To The Haines Family, We are all so saddened by the tragic loss of your beloved Ashley. We are all praying for the Lord to wrap his loving arms around all of you as you walk through the next days and weeks. Gods peace and love to all of you…..
Mandan ND
My prayers and thoughts are with the Haines family and Shane at this difficult time. May GOD give you the strength to get through this difficult time. We have a new ANGEL looking down on us. God Bless
Thoughts and prayers go out to the Haines family during this difficult time. Ashley will be truly missed. She was a great friend with a loving heart. She always had a contagious laugh, a beautiful smile, and a positive attitude. We can definitiely say we have a beautiful angel watching over us! Gone but never forgotten, Ash.
Hillsboro ND
There are no words, but just to know I’m thinking of you, praying for you, and hoping for the peace that only He can give.
Mandan ND
Wow… My heart is heavy right now… I can not imagine what you are going through right now.I will never forget all of the summers that went spent together at Red Willow!!! I will have you know my Dad was right there to greet her!!! Her will take care of her!! Love you all!!! Janae
Houston TXAshley you were an amazing person, you touched so many people with your amazing spirit and I was blessed to know you. You are gone but will never be forgotten, it gives great comfort to know that we all have an amazing, beautiful angel watching over us all. Thoughts and prayers go out to your family during this time.
Portland ND
Our deepest sympathies as you grieve for your precious Ashley.
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Keene ND
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Haines family and the Vettel family. Our father has a plan for everyone. God Bless You
Reed Point MTDear Billy and Candis
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I can’t imagine the pain and suffering you are going through, but as always I am still a good listener. 406-326-2306.
you do not know me. and i never did know Ashley but my sister knew who she was and i just wanted to say i am very sorry for your loss. and my prayers go out to your family!
Portland ND
Our sincere sympathy goes out to the family and friends of Ashley. She will be greatly missed. Becky & Steve Gunderson
Campbellsville KYPlease know that I am praying for God to wrap his arms around you and hold you close. I did not know Ashley but I am so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in God during this time.
Hillsboro We are so sorry for your loss Candy, Bill, and Billie. Please take comfort in knowing you will see her again in a place where there is no sadness, pain, or suffering. Unfortunately, those who loved her dearly are left behind in a world that is full of pain, unfairness, and sadness. I pray for strength in the next days, weeks, and years. Ashley was an amazing person, who will never be forgotten. Heaven got an angel, and the world is missing one of the biggest sweethearts there ever was. It is so unfair that she was taken so soon.
I am so sorry to hear of Ashley’s passing. It has been an honor watching her grow through athletics over the years. I will continue to pray for you, Billie Jo, and your family.
Grand Forks ND
Billy & Haines family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our prayers.
Dennis & Lori Laturnus
Steve & Donna Laturnus
Dean & Kim Laturnus
moorhead mnBill And Candis
It has been along time since I have seen you Bill but I wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this dufficult time in your lives. So sorry to hear of your loss.
Exeter RIBilly and Candy,
I was so sorry to hear news of your tragic loss. My deepest sympathies to you and your families. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lincoln ND
Our sympathy is with your family during this very sad time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mayville ND
I will never forget your smile that I saw every time I turned around in the 15 passenger van to make sure everyone is with me 🙂 You knew how to bring happiness to anyone around you Ash… Forever and Always, you will be my number 14…
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Mayville ND
Gone but never forgotten. Many good memories, thoughts and prayers with her and her family
Fargo ND
Candy and family, I am so sorry for your lost. I will pray for you and your family so you all have the strength to make it each day. Love you Rich Tonya Carly and Chesley.
Mayville ND
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this very difficult and sad time.
Fargo Haines family,
I have no words, just sadness for your loss. Sorry.
Pearson’s
Mayville ND
Ashley was one of the neatest athletes I have ever had the privelage to coach. She was an amazing athlete and an even more amazing person. My heart goes out to the entire Haines family.
Halstad MN
I am so sad to hear about this tragedy. All I can tell you is that I will keep you in my prayers and that you all have to believe that our Heavenly Father will help you through your pain. God Bless you all.
Puerto Vallarta MexicoYou have our sincerest sympathy. You were so lucky to have her in your lives for 23 years.
John & Shirley Rosevold
Billy and Family,
We are devastated for you by Ashley’s death. She was a wonderful gal, she always said hello to me and smiled and waved. Our hearts are aching for you all. We will continue to pray for you and your family.
I am so sad to hear of the loss of Ashley. She was wonderful student-athlete here at BSC. We all thought the world of her in the athletic department. My sincerest condolences to your family and to Shane.
Ashley, you touched so many lives whether you were in them for a day or a year you are a beautiful person inside and out truly an angel sent down you are just too special for this world and belong in Heaven with Jesus, now you really are an angel watching over all those you love and have touched with your kindness, miss you!!!! Love you!
My Prayers and thoughts are with your family as they grieve the loss of a wonderful life,”the Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” Psalm 34:18, may the Lord give your loved ones the strength they need to carry on.
*God Bless*
Cortney Ellen
West Fargo ND
Ashley is the most loveliest student in my class. I told her many times “I wish I had a dughter like you”. She is the wonderful student I have ever met, always smiling and never complain. Anyone who met her should be proud of her. This is a tremendous loss, not only for her family, for all of us.
My prayers and thoughts are always with you. I am sure god will place her soul in eternal peace in heaven.
West Fargo ND
To The Haines Family,
We extend our sincere and deepest sympathy! You are in our thoughts!!
Richard and Clarice
Mayville N.D
.We offer our deepest sympathy and condolences. Blessed be the memory of Ashley.
Bismarck North Dakota
Dear Haines Family, So sorry to hear about your sweet Ashley. There are no words that will lesson your loss. My thoughts are with you.
Dana (Willows) Hermanson
Bismarck North Dakota
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time. Ashley was a wonderful person and I enjoyed working with her in Bismarck.
May God grant you peace.
Ricky & Diane Sundby
My deepest sympathy to the entire Haines family. God’s abundant blessings to you and Godspeed as you heal.
Pelican Rapids MN
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I was so saddened to hear of the accident. Know that God is with you and will carry you through.
Clifford ND
Ashhley was a dear and wonderful person. Always has a smile for you. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers.
My deepest sympathy to All of Ashely’s family. Ashley’s memory & light will still shine brightly in your hearts, bringing you through these dark days, with the support of the Lord.
Hillsboro We are so sorry for your great loss. As you mourn the death of your beloved, daughter, sister, friend, may God embrace you with His love and may you find peace in His promises. Our hearts ache for you and our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of profound grief.
Bill – We are so sorry to have heard about the loss of Ashley. Please know that you’ve been in our thoughts and prayers since we heard…and you’ll continue to be. If there is anything we can do for you, please don’t be afraid to call. She was a special young lady.
Dear Haines Family,
We cannot imagine what you are going through at this terrible time! Trying to find the answers of “why” God would take beatuiful Ashley from this earth. But remember, He knows the plan He has for you! Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Norman ooBilly, Candy and family, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your beautiful daughter Ashley. May God carry your burdens and give you peace. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. May God bless you in your hour of need.
Golden Valley ND
It is with extremely heavy hearts we send our deepest sympathy. We are so sorry for your loss and please know you will be continuously lifted up in prayer in the days ahead. May Jesus wrap you tight in His arms and carry you through these difficult times. Again, we are so sorry.
Mapleton ND
Billy, I was blessed to have been accepted into your family as one of your own and privileged to be a part of something so great. I will always cherish the memories of time spent with you, Ashely and your family. You are in my family’s thoughts and prayers.
TJ
Erskine MN
Our son, Jesse, cared for Ashley deeply. He talks about what a tremendous friend she was to him. She made a huge impact on his life. Her compassion and friendship toward Jesse were such a gift. Thank you for raising such a kind-hearted, loving individual. She will be forever missed. Blessed be her memory. With deepest sympathy, Shelly and Reid Wahlin
Our hearts and prayers are with all of you in this time of loss of our beautiful Ashley. we love you.