Brenda Joyce Byer
October 22, 1956 ~ January 28, 2024
Born in:
Watertown, South Dakota
Resided in:
Fargo, North Dakota
With profound sadness, we share the news of the passing of Brenda Joyce Byer, née Erlandson, on January 28, 2024, in Fargo, North Dakota. Born to Eugene and Joyce Erlandson on October 22, 1956, in Watertown, South Dakota, Brenda’s journey was one of profound dedication, love, and service.
Brenda’s early years in Watertown laid the foundation for a life full of care and compassion. She pursued her passion for nursing at Presentation College in Aberdeen, SD, a testament to her lifelong commitment to helping others. Her career as a Registered Nurse was more than a profession; it was a calling that she embraced with her whole heart, touching countless lives with her kindness and expertise.
Brenda is lovingly remembered by her husband, Dave; sons Nate (Amy) and Craig (Jennifer); her adored grandchildren, Emma (Chris), Rachel (Torehn), Katy, Braiden, Noah, and Bodhi; and countless beloved family and friends. Her constant companions, Bogart and Einstein will miss her dearly. Brenda is preceded in death by her parents, Joyce and Eugene Erlandson; and her cherished grandson, William Byer.
As a devout Catholic, Brenda’s faith was a cornerstone in her life, bringing solace and strength to her and those around her. Her legacy of love, kindness, and generosity will be forever cherished and remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing her.
Visitation from 5-7pm and prayer service at 7pm will be Tuesday, January 30, 2024, at Boulger Funeral Home in Fargo. Funeral Mass will be at 10:00am on Wednesday, January 31 at Sts. Anne and Joachim Church in Fargo, followed by a luncheon. Burial will be at St. Mary’s Cemetery in Watertown, SD on Thursday, February 1 at 2:00pm. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests contributions be made to the Roger Maris Cancer Center.
Brenda’s family would like to express their deepest gratitude to the staff of the Roger Maris Cancer Center for their unwavering, dedicated care over the years and to the staff of Sanford Medical Center for the compassion and care they provided both to Brenda and her family during the last days of her life.
Video Tribute:
Services
Visitation - Tuesday: January 30, 2024 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103
701-237-6441
www.boulgerfuneralhome.com
Prayer Service - Tuesday: January 30, 2024 7:00 pm
Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103
701-237-6441
www.boulgerfuneralhome.com
Visitation - Wednesday: January 31, 2024 9:00 am - 10:00 am
Sts. Anne and Joachim Catholic Church, Fargo
5202 25th St. S.
Fargo , North Dakota 58104
(701) 235-5757
https://stsaaj.org/
Funeral Mass - Wednesday: January 31, 2024 10:00 am
Sts. Anne and Joachim Catholic Church, Fargo
5202 25th St. S.
Fargo , North Dakota 58104
(701) 235-5757
https://stsaaj.org/
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Brenda and I had many conversations through FB private messenger. I was so happy she sent me lots of family photos.
Continued prayers for her and your family.
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Bob and I are thinking about you. Sending you wishes for comfort, peace, and strength.
Sincerely,
Bob and Steph Hochstein
Hugs to you and your family during this difficult time.
My sincerest thoughts and prayers to Dave, Craig and Nate during this time and to the rest of the family. Randy was blessed to have them as friends during their school years and I as well after we married. My love to you all.
Dave, so sorry to hear about Brenda’s passing. Praying for you and the rest of the family in this time of sadness. May God hold your family in his arms to help comfort you as you transition into a life of remembering Brenda and everything she meant to you.
To Nate, Craig and their families I’m sorry for your loss. The loss of a parent is profound. I wish you peace in the days to come
In Sympathy,
Chriss Brown
Dave and family
What a beautiful tribute to your wife, mom and family. I am so sorry to hear of Brenda’s passing. What a strong person she was and the long battle she fought. She was a warrior. Now she rests. A beautiful life. A beautiful family. Now she rests. Amen
So sorry for your loss. I worked with Brenda nearly four years and she sure was a kind and loving lady! ❤️ God bless the family with peace and confidence in You Lord Jesus.
Dave and Family – Our thoughts and prayers have been with you during this difficult time. Watching the video, we know you have many great memories! We pray that those good memories will give you peace and comfort in the coming days. We remember the good times of being neighbors with you and Brenda!!
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