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Cynthia A. Unruh

February 16, 1957 ~ April 23, 2026

Cynthia’s service will be livestreamed below starting at 10:00 AM Thursday, April 30, 2026

Cynthia “Cyndi” Anne Unruh, 69, of Glyndon, Minnesota, passed away on April 23, 2026 surrounded by her family.

She was born on February 16, 1957, in Grafton, North Dakota, to John and Mary Ellen Salwei, one of ten children in a close-knit family that remained an important part of her life.

She attended Lake Region Community College and married Mark Unruh in Devils Lake, North Dakota, in 1977.

Early in her career, she worked at Montgomery Ward and later served as an administrative assistant for OK Tire, working alongside her husband. Most importantly, she dedicated much of her life to creating a home centered on family and raising her daughters.

She shared 48 years of marriage with her husband, Mark, a partnership built on love, resilience, and showing up for one another through every season of life. Together they built a life in Jamestown and Fargo, North Dakota, later spending the last two decades in Minnesota.

Cyndi had a subtle sense of humor, strong opinions, and a way about her that made people feel her presence even in silence. Her Catholic faith was extremely important to her, later returning to the Church with renewed commitment, attending Mass regularly and observing holy days with devotion.

Cyndi found joy in simple things, especially her love of birds and the familiar, comforting sounds of home, including the call of mourning doves. She also loved researching family history through Ancestry, spending hours learning about where people came from and the stories that connected generations. It reflected both her love of family and her quiet curiosity about the people and history that shaped it. She appreciated life in a way that was observant and understated.

Cyndi faced the last months of her life with incredible strength. She fought hard, pushed through difficult days, and showed the same quiet determination that had always defined her. Her resilience never went unnoticed by those who loved her most.

She is survived by her husband, Mark; her daughters, Heather Hiebert and Melissa Unruh; grandchildren, Jasmine, Jayden, Madison, Melia, and Macee.

She was preceded in death by her parents, John and Mary Ellen Salwei; siblings, Brian Salwei and Sue Thomson; and parents-in-law, Robert and Esther Unruh.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at Holy Cross Catholic Church, with burial to follow at Holy Cross North Cemetery. Service details: visitation 9:00-10:00 AM followed by the funeral Mass at 10:00 AM Thursday, April 30, 2026.

Services

Visitation: Thursday, April 30, 2026 9:00 am - 10:00 am

Holy Cross Catholic Church, West Fargo
2711 7th St E
West Fargo, ND 58078

(701) 282-7217
https://holycrosswestfargo.com/

Funeral Mass: Thursday, April 30, 2026 10:00 am

Holy Cross Catholic Church, West Fargo
2711 7th St E
West Fargo, ND 58078

(701) 282-7217
https://holycrosswestfargo.com/

Burial:

Holy Cross Cemetery North, Fargo
32nd Ave N and University Ave.
Fargo, ND 58102


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  1. You will be missed but never forgotten.

  2. For my sister in law the kids aunt.we will miss.all te times we got together
    You loved to decorate and your grdens.we will miss
    You will be in our hearts.

  3. Robyn and Joe, My sincere condolences to you and your family.

  4. After the flood in Grand Forks in 1997, Aunt Cyndi very kindly let me live at their house in Fargo and attend Fargo South school for a period of time until the school year was over. It was MUCH kinder than she really needed to be, and it gave me something to focus on when essentially everything else I had was destroyed. And much like every other time Brent and I came to visit our cousins, Cyndi was always very gracious & welcoming. I honestly can’t think of a single time she was anything but kind to us, and I’ll always remember her that way. I hope she’s up in heaven right now, catching up with my mom, Sue, and her brother, Brian. I do know I will miss her tremendously.

  5. Mark, Heather, Melissa and families, I am so so sorry to hear of Cyndi’s passing. Words elude me now but know I am praying for you and your family.

    Warmly,
    Dawn

  6. Losing a loved one is never an easy thing. My sympathies to your family.
    Sandi

  7. Melissa and Family,
    So sorry that you lost your mother, wife, friend and grandmother. Beautiful words and sentiments for a special person. I know she’s at peace, wrapped in God’s loving arms. Thinking of you at this difficult time.

  8. Mark, Melissa, Heather and family

    Cindy will be missed but never forgotten. Sending hugs to you all.

  9. So many fond memories with auntie Cyndi. I spent summers with her throughout my childhood. Many Rummy and Yahtzee games were played. Eating out for lunch almost daily was such a treat. Road trips, listening to 8 tracks, arguing over how many times I played “I love a rainy night”. She was the go-to person at grandma & grandpas house for candy money… for all us cousins. She spent many years as the family historian; I loved seeing her discoveries. She will be deeply missed. Sending hugs to Mark, Heather, Melissa & family.


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