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Gary H. Glessing

May 11, 1949 ~ September 15, 2026

Born in: Moorhead, Minnesota
Resided in: Fargo, North Dakota

Gary H. Glessing, 77, of Fargo, passed away on Tuesday, September 15, 2026, in the comfort of his home.

Gary was born on May 11, 1949, in Moorhead, Minnesota, the son of Lyle and Lucille (Mohs) Glessing. He was raised in Fargo and made Fargo his home throughout his entire life.

Gary served his country in the United States Army during Vietnam. Following his military service, he returned home to Fargo and drove truck for Fargo Tank. He then went on to build a long and successful career as a sales representative for Pennzoil. Through his many years with Pennzoil, Gary became a familiar face to countless people throughout the area. He enjoyed the relationships he built through his work, and for many, Gary and Pennzoil simply went hand in hand.

Gary loved being outside. He spent as much time as possible outside gardening, snowmobiling, fishing, hunting, cutting firewood, maintaining the yard, or playing catch with his boys after work. He was happiest when he had an opportunity to go hunting or fishing. To say he excelled with a fishing pole or firearm, would be an understatement. In addition, Gary had excellent mechanical skills that included doing all of his own vehicle repairs and helping neighbors when called on.

Gary was witty and his quiet but sharp sense of humor was thoroughly enjoyed by those close to him. He taught the value of hard work, and always would encourage to “do your best”. Gary was always more than willing to help family, friends and neighbors.

Above all else, Gary was a loving and devoted husband, father, and grandfather. His family meant a great deal to him, and he was especially proud of his grandchildren and the time he was able to spend with them.

Gary is survived by his wife, Pam, Fargo; his sons, Robert (Stephanie), Bemidji, MN, and Michael (Roza), Fargo; and his grandchildren, Saul, Mila,
and Nora Glessing.

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Private Family Burial:

Fargo National Cemetery
8709 40th Avenue North, Co Rd 20
Harwood, North Dakota 58042

(701) 451-4650
https://www.cem.va.gov/cems/nchp/fargo.asp

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  1. I am sad for you. Gary will be missed by so many.

  2. So sorry for your loss. Sending hugs and prayers.

  3. So sorry to learn of Gary’s passing. He was many Pennzoil rep when I had the Jiffy Lube in Grand Forks. He did me a lot of favors and always had good advise. Really a good guy. My sincere condolences to his family and friends.

  4. What a beautiful life and legacy. We are so deeply sorry for your loss and for the pain your family is experiencing. Please know that you are all in our prayers.

    Any child would have been so lucky to have Gary as a grandfather. I was always amazed by his deep love and devotion to his grandchildren. Even when he was sick, he made it to all of the preschool activities because being there for them mattered so much to him.

    He knew what was truly important in life, and he prioritized his family. His love, faithfulness, and example spoke volumes. What a beautiful witness and legacy he leaves behind.

  5. Dan and Kathy Gilbraith says:

    Words just don’t seem to be enough to express our condolences to Gary’s family. We always enjoyed his company no matter where we were. He was a great brother-in-law, uncle to our family, and friend to many. He was a hard worker and instilled that in his sons. His biggest wish was to live long enough to see Saul graduate from high school but will be watching over his grandchildren from Heaven above. Rest In Peace Gary. You will be missed till we meet again.

  6. May my brother rest in peace with the Lord.

  7. Connie, Dwain, Austin Mallo says:

    Pam, Rob, Steph, Mike, Roza and family.
    So sorry to hear about Gary. He was such a great husband, father, grandfather and brother-in-law. Lots of great memories were made with him and all of you. Sympathy to you all at this very sad time. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. He will be missed terribly. Love, Connie, Dwain and Austin

  8. Mike and family: My sincere sympathy goes out to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Marcy Novacek

  9. Gary will be sorely missed. Always enjoyed visiting with him. He was a great mechanical fixer and an avid hunter. He kept his vehicles all so nice .

    Love a warm wishes to my sister Pam and the family Gary and she created . It was nice to have been close to you all. 💔😘🙏

  10. Toni Abrahamson Ness says:

    To Gary’s family;
    Our condolences to you all at the death of Gary. I’m sure the Lord is holding Gary in the palm of His hands.

  11. BRUCE CARIVEAU {CAROL} says:

    Our sympathy to the Glessing family.
    Gary was a great friend.
    Enjoyed having coffee with Gary and Pam. Lots of great stories.
    BRUCE CARIVEAU {CAROL}

  12. Dear Pam, I’m so sorry to read of your husband’s passing. Wishing you peace and comfort as you grieve and celebrate his life.

  13. Gary gave it his best. He was a gifted , responsible & kind person.
    I was flattered to work with Gary & his family.

  14. Dianne (Brandvig) Knox says:

    My memories of Gary are mostly from grade school. What a wonderful friend!


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