Joseph H. Hettwer

joseph hettwer

November 4, 1948 ~ August 20, 2023

Born in: Devils Lake, North Dakota
Resided in: Fargo , North Dakota

Joseph Hettwer passed away August 20, 2023.

Joseph was born on November 4, 1948 to Ethel and Vincent Hettwer in Devils Lake, North Dakota.

Joe received his degree in accounting from UND. He spent time in various managerial roles and spent the last 34 years at U-Haul.

Joe never had any of his own children, but he has many nieces and nephews that were like children to him.

Our beloved brother Joseph is survived by nine brothers and sisters, Clarine (Ron) Moen, Lincoln, NE, Mary (Joe) Mangen, Sleepy Eye, MN, Raymond (Patty) Hettwer, Brea, CA, Richard (Elaine) Hettwer, Rochester, MN, Peter (Wanda) Hettwer, West Fargo, ND, Paul (Nancy) Hettwer, Grand Forks, ND, Theresa (Jim) Schober, Grand Forks, ND, Patricia (Kip) Viau, Thompson, ND, Jim (Judy) Hettwer, Grand Forks, ND, and sister-in-law, Darlene Hettwer.

Joe was preceded in death by his parents, Ethel and Vincent Hettwer; and brothers, Francis and Michael.

Special thanks to caregivers Gayle and Lori and all other caregivers and those who have assisted Joe in anyway over the years.

Joe’s celebration of life will be held Saturday, September 16, 2023, at Holy Cross Catholic Church, West Fargo, North Dakota. Rosary will be said at 8:45 AM followed by visitation with family from 9-10 AM. Funeral Mass will be at 10 AM.

In lieu of flowers, memorials to family for future designations.

Services

Funeral Mass - Saturday: September 16, 2023 10:00 am

Holy Cross Catholic Church, West Fargo
2711 7th St E
West Fargo, ND 58078

(701) 282-7217
https://holycrosswestfargo.com/

Visitation - Saturday: September 16, 2023 9:00 am - 10:00 am

Holy Cross Catholic Church, West Fargo
2711 7th St E
West Fargo, ND 58078

(701) 282-7217
https://holycrosswestfargo.com/

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  1. You were loved by so many and will be truly missed. I will forever cherish the memories I had with you. You were such a loving uncle, friend, and brother to many. Love you lots Uncle Joe.

  2. My sincere condolences to Rick and his family. I know how hard it is to lose a sibling. May he rest in peace.

  3. Joe,
    It’s Friday, our day to watch Blue Bloods – one of the many things I miss about not having you here.
    Love you.
    J

  4. My prayers and sympathy are with Joey’s family. He had a special place in the heart of Sister Maris Stella. May he rest in peace and may his family find comfort in in their memories and consolation in their faith,

  5. My thoughts and prayers are with the Hettwer family. I had the privilege of working with Joe quite a bit over the past few years, and enjoyed every conversation I had with him. Joe will truly be missed.

  6. My heartfelt condolences and prayers to Joe’s family. I consider myself fortunate to have worked with him. My team and I will truly miss him. May he rest in peace.

  7. My deepest condolences to Joe’s family. Joe was a good friend to me even though we didn’t meet in person. I work in Accounts Payable in the corporate office in Phoenix, AZ. We had many talks. he will be missed. May Joe rest in peace.
    Rita Moreno

  8. As an employee of U-Haul, I want to extend my deepest condolences to Joe’s Family and Friends. I’m terribly sorry for your loss and please know I’m keeping you all in my prayers.

  9. What are touching story, it make me cry about the person, even though I never meet and or talk to each other, but I do have a strong tie with this person, it looks this is an image of myself serving the people in general, never seeking a return for himself, I admired and respected to the deepest of my heart.
    Wishing him well in heaven and rest in peace.

  10. My deepest condolences to Joe’s family, friends and “work family”. It was always a pleasure to work with Joe, he definitely knew how to “do” U-Haul in so many capacities and was very generous with sharing that knowledge and work ethic. He will be missed.

  11. I miss you Uncle Joe. Thank you so much for all the memories, love, and support over the years. We had so much fun together when you lived with us while I was growing up. Going to church together, seeing drive in movies and bringing our own popcorn, playing cards, trivial pursuit, monopoly, golfing, delivering papers, learning how to drive, listening to music like Big Bopper’s Chantilly Lace and other tunes and so many other things – all precious gifts of your time that you spent with me. We can’t forget my one and only fishing trip where we had to use lug nuts for weights…. that didn’t work out so well, but we had fun nonetheless.

    Thank you for being my best man in my wedding and checking in on my family over the years. We always made sure to visit on those occasions we were able to make it back to Grand Forks/Fargo. Our most recent visit to Fargo for Zach and Brianna’s wedding was special. We got to see you with all of your family. Lots of smiles and laughter despite the pain that you were in. I treasure all these moments. I will always have our last picture together in my mind.

    May you rest in peace and share in God’s mercy. I love you and I miss you. I will keep playing Wordle and wondering how you would have done. Till we meet again.

    Love Brian

  12. My deepest sympathy to Joe’s family. He was such a fun loving man. My heart goes out to all of you. Hugs and prayers to the family.

  13. Joe, you were a wonderful friend it was an honor to know you. Over the years we said we should get together for lunch but never got it together. I regret that you will be missed, my friend.
    Diane

  14. Oh Joe my friend and my client! I love you with all my heart! Our time together meant the world! Helping me to get into the swing of things so I could get back to full time work! So nice and caring always bring me to church he would say that meant he prayed for me during church services! Always thinking of others seriously on the most kind man I’ve ever had the pleasure to work for! Hugs n kisses see you on the other side my friend!


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