Joseph H. Hettwer

November 4, 1948 ~ August 20, 2023
Born in:
Devils Lake, North Dakota
Resided in:
Fargo , North Dakota
Joseph Hettwer passed away August 20, 2023.
Joseph was born on November 4, 1948 to Ethel and Vincent Hettwer in Devils Lake, North Dakota.
Joe received his degree in accounting from UND. He spent time in various managerial roles and spent the last 34 years at U-Haul.
Joe never had any of his own children, but he has many nieces and nephews that were like children to him.
Our beloved brother Joseph is survived by nine brothers and sisters, Clarine (Ron) Moen, Lincoln, NE, Mary (Joe) Mangen, Sleepy Eye, MN, Raymond (Patty) Hettwer, Brea, CA, Richard (Elaine) Hettwer, Rochester, MN, Peter (Wanda) Hettwer, West Fargo, ND, Paul (Nancy) Hettwer, Grand Forks, ND, Theresa (Jim) Schober, Grand Forks, ND, Patricia (Kip) Viau, Thompson, ND, Jim (Judy) Hettwer, Grand Forks, ND, and sister-in-law, Darlene Hettwer.
Joe was preceded in death by his parents, Ethel and Vincent Hettwer; and brothers, Francis and Michael.
Special thanks to caregivers Gayle and Lori and all other caregivers and those who have assisted Joe in anyway over the years.
Joe’s celebration of life will be held Saturday, September 16, 2023, at Holy Cross Catholic Church, West Fargo, North Dakota. Rosary will be said at 8:45 AM followed by visitation with family from 9-10 AM. Funeral Mass will be at 10 AM.
In lieu of flowers, memorials to family for future designations.
Services
Funeral Mass - Saturday: September 16, 2023 10:00 am
Holy Cross Catholic Church, West Fargo
2711 7th St E
West Fargo, ND 58078
(701) 282-7217
https://holycrosswestfargo.com/
Visitation - Saturday: September 16, 2023 9:00 am - 10:00 am
Holy Cross Catholic Church, West Fargo
2711 7th St E
West Fargo, ND 58078
(701) 282-7217
https://holycrosswestfargo.com/
Joe,
It’s Friday, our day to watch Blue Bloods – one of the many things I miss about not having you here.
Love you.
J
My prayers and sympathy are with Joey’s family. He had a special place in the heart of Sister Maris Stella. May he rest in peace and may his family find comfort in in their memories and consolation in their faith,
My thoughts and prayers are with the Hettwer family. I had the privilege of working with Joe quite a bit over the past few years, and enjoyed every conversation I had with him. Joe will truly be missed.
My deepest condolences to Joe’s family. Joe was a good friend to me even though we didn’t meet in person. I work in Accounts Payable in the corporate office in Phoenix, AZ. We had many talks. he will be missed. May Joe rest in peace.
Rita Moreno
From a U-Haul Dealer in Santa Fe, Texas – 16683 – God Speed Brother!
Wishing him well in heaven and rest in peace.
My deepest condolences to Joe’s family, friends and “work family”. It was always a pleasure to work with Joe, he definitely knew how to “do” U-Haul in so many capacities and was very generous with sharing that knowledge and work ethic. He will be missed.
Thank you for being my best man in my wedding and checking in on my family over the years. We always made sure to visit on those occasions we were able to make it back to Grand Forks/Fargo. Our most recent visit to Fargo for Zach and Brianna’s wedding was special. We got to see you with all of your family. Lots of smiles and laughter despite the pain that you were in. I treasure all these moments. I will always have our last picture together in my mind.
May you rest in peace and share in God’s mercy. I love you and I miss you. I will keep playing Wordle and wondering how you would have done. Till we meet again.
Love Brian
Joe, you were a wonderful friend it was an honor to know you. Over the years we said we should get together for lunch but never got it together. I regret that you will be missed, my friend.
Diane
Oh Joe my friend and my client! I love you with all my heart! Our time together meant the world! Helping me to get into the swing of things so I could get back to full time work! So nice and caring always bring me to church he would say that meant he prayed for me during church services! Always thinking of others seriously on the most kind man I’ve ever had the pleasure to work for! Hugs n kisses see you on the other side my friend!