Mary Elizabeth "Betty" Moraghan

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Betty’s service will be livestreamed below starting at 11:00 AM Saturday, April 1, 2023. We are reliant on the church’s wi-fi signal for a strong connection, if something happens to that connection, the service is being recorded and the recording will be posted at a later date.

On April 17, 1932, Mary Elizabeth “Betty” (Sullivan) Moraghan was born in Evanston, Illinois, the third of the nine children of Francis and Margaret Sullivan. Betty had a happy childhood and grew up in Chicago, blessed by loving parents and siblings. She was educated in Catholic schools from kindergarten through her college graduation from Barat College (Lake Forest, IL). Her childhood hope was to teach English, and she pursued this goal at the University of Chicago, where she obtained her master’s in English. Subsequently, she taught for four years at Barat, her alma mater.

During Christmas week in 1957, she met John Moraghan, an Australian studying for his PhD in agronomy. The two met at the doorway of Betty’s childhood home, where she was hosting a party. They were engaged a year later and married in 1959. Two sons and two daughters were born in Iowa (Andrew) and Minnesota (Kathy, Tom, and Diane). After a year of teaching at Iowa State, Betty stayed home with the children for 15 years before returning to teaching in 1975. She taught English and poetry classes for 20 years at Moorhead State University, including courses on Australian poetry, a rare event in American colleges. She cared for each of her students, and it was common for her children to find her burning the midnight oil to give students’ essays the attention and feedback which each deserved. Her love of teaching was only second to her love of God and family. She was an absolutely devoted mother and wife who exemplified steadfast, unconditional love for her family throughout her life.

Other employment and responsibilities included working for two national conventions held in Chicago (1952 and 1954), being a team leader for the National Census, teaching religious classes for eight years, and serving on the Holy Spirit School Board. Her interests in education, civic duty, and faith were evident in these chosen activities and roles.

Betty loved to read and participated for 40 years in the NDSU Women’s Book Club as well as four years in her parish book club. These activities combined her focus on friendships and love of learning. She treasured time driving with her family through the fields and sunsets of North Dakota and Minnesota. She wrote wonderful poetry throughout her life. Once the blessing of grandchildren arrived, she took a special joy in each one as she treasured her time and conversations with each child. Her face lit up with every call or visit, which was often filled with laughter.

In later years, she moved to Riverview Place and participated in the Riverview Writing Group and the Chesterton Society. Betty cherished the opportunities to exchange ideas and the companionships that developed at Riverview. She was always interested in learning about others and focused on reaching out to people she met. Even in times of difficult suffering, she was swift to inquire about others’ well being and the things that mattered most to them. She maintained her memorization of poems, the French language, music, and movies throughout her life, and these interests were all part of the conversations she shared.

“My life has been full of blessings: my faith, my family, and friends. All my life I have been befriended by loyal friends and family. Thank you to all of you.”

Betty will be remembered as unselfish, generous, loving, and a woman of great faith. Our family will miss her beautiful spirit every day.

During the last several years, Betty was cared for by Sanford Hospice House. The kindness of the hospice staff led to new relationships and connections as well as receiving amazing care. The time at hospice included weekly poetry readings from wonderful family friend Mike Hagstrom; cherished calls, cards, and visits from Laura Fasick; TCM schedules and kindness delivered from Karla and David Morstad; and wonderful visits from dear friends including Jan and John Nowatski, Doreen and Jack Kennelly, and beloved Jeanne Prom.

Betty is survived by her four children; Andrew Moraghan (Bismarck), Kathleen (Rob) Moraghan Olson (Fargo), Thomas (Jill) Moraghan, (Nisswa, MN), and Diane (Emmet Jr.) Kenney (Fargo), as well as 9 grandchildren: John, Sophie, William, Emmet III, Joseph, Patrick, Catherine, Matthew, and Nicholas, and 1 great grandchild (with another arriving in April). She is also survived by her brother, Gene (Mary) Sullivan (Oak Park, IL), sisters Noreen Brady and Trudy Schneider (Chicago, IL), sister-in-law, Teresa Sullivan (Chicago, IL), Pauline Moraghan (Dubbo, NSW, Australia), and many beloved nieces and nephews in the United States and Australia. Devoted relatives include nephew Ben Moraghan (Fargo).

She was preceded in death by her adored husband, John; her parents, Margaret and Francis “F.J.” Sullivan; and siblings Frank Sullivan, Margaret “Honey” Moga, Pat Sullivan, Dan Sullivan, and Mark Sullivan, who died as a child. She is also preceded in death by sister-in-laws Joan, Dawn, and Pauline Moraghan; and brother-in-laws Peter and Brian Moraghan.

We will honor Betty Moraghan’s life on Saturday, April 1, 2023 with visitation from 10-11 am at Holy Spirit Church and funeral mass at 11 am. After the mass, the family invites you to join them for lunch and fellowship at the church, as well as an opportunity for sharing warm memories of Betty.

Betty cared deeply about many causes. Memorials are not necessary, but if desired, please donate to St. John Paul II Catholic Schools.

Services

Visitation - Saturday: April 1, 2023 10:00 am - 11:00 am

Holy Spirit Catholic Church Fargo, ND
1420 7th St N
Fargo, North Dakota 58102

(701) 232-5900
https://holyspiritfargo.com/

Funeral Mass - Saturday: April 1, 2023 11:00 am

Holy Spirit Catholic Church Fargo, ND
1420 7th St N
Fargo, North Dakota 58102

(701) 232-5900
https://holyspiritfargo.com/

Burial:

Holy Cross Cemetery North Campus, Fargo
1502 32nd Ave N
Fargo, ND 58102


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  1. Rob & family,
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you & your family during this difficult time!
    Clayton & Nancy Harsch

  2. More than any other person I’ve ever known, Betty inspired love, trust, and admiration from everyone who met her. I first met Betty through work and although the people in our workplace differed on many issues, everyone recognized and relied on Betty’s unwavering decency, integrity, and good will. Her resplendent qualities shone throughout her entire life and continue to shine now.

  3. Betty was such a dear, soft-spoken woman. I have fond childhood memories of her at Holy Spirit. She often addressed me as she was speaking with my mom and made me feel special. There was just a genuine warmth about her. God bless you, Betty.

  4. Betty is one of the most wonderful and caring people I have ever met. Always gracious, wanting to hear more about our family as we got older.
    I will miss her but take comfort in the fact that she is now home with John.
    May God bless you and your family as you now rest in peace and ❤️! Avec amour. Dennis

  5. Dr. Moraghan. So sorry for your loss. She has passed her strong faith unto you. It will live on.
    Cindy Dean. one of your many patients.

  6. We are so saddened to hear of Betty’s passing. She was a beautiful soul; her gentle nature, wit, and kindness will be miss by all who knew and loved her.

    Liz and Ben Duchek

  7. Our deepest sympathies go out to the entire Morghan family. Your parents were dear friends of my parensts, Bill and Sharon Barker. Your mother was a wonderful and kind person. She gave so much to her family church and community. I meet her a few times with my parents and they could always visit for ever they would joke. May many wonderful memories fill your hearts at this time. Sincerely Sandra and Jason Jaeger

  8. My father would always use a certain adjective whenever he mentioned his sister Betty. That adjective was “Brilliant” and yes she certainly was. A very classy and nice person. I’m glad I got to speak with her on the phone shortly after my dad died. We had a nice conversation that night. Great Lady.
    My sincerest condolences to all the Moraghan cousins and extended family on your loss. But what a party they’re all having in Heaven today. It’s like the 4th of July and Thanksgiving at the Moga’s all at once.
    God bless

  9. Dear Moraghan family, I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your dear mother and Grandmother and my Aunt Betty. She would be disappointed as I stare at this blank page and experience a complete loss for the right words to post about her. She was so gifted with words, writing, and saying just the right thing at the right time (usually quite witty) – a true gift. I am blessed and lucky to have known her although from a distance most of my life. But, when we were together either one of her trips to Chicago or even at my wedding, it was great, and she made me feel special. She had a real gift to focus 100% of her attention and questions on someone else – truly selfless in her dialogue and very interested in hearing about others more than talking about herself. I was lucky to have been able to visit with her in person a few years ago. It was wonderful to finally make it to Fargo to visit Betty and family as I met my dad, brother, and niece who drove from Chicago. It was a gift – seeing her sitting with my dad for hours with their poetry books talking (at a very high intellectual level of course) and enjoying each other’s presence – a couple of octogenarians outlasting their children late into the night! Then last month when I was visiting my parents, my dad used his flip phone and called his dear sister, Betty, and passed around the phone so we could all talk to her. Sadly, I did not know that would be the last time I heard her soft, gentle, sweet voice or I would not have handed the phone back to my dad. I am sure Betty is now standing in line to read God her favorite poem or one she wrote especially for Him. I pray for the family at this time and hope that knowing Betty’s impact on others can bring you some peace. I am truly grateful for having her in my life. May her soul rest in eternal peace. God bless.
    Much love,
    Peter Sullivan
    Betty’s nephew

  10. I was so blessed to have you as my poetry instructor in college. What an amazing teacher you were. You touched so many people’s lives. Rest in his peace Dr. Moraghan. Praying for your family.

  11. Betty was a wonderful, warm, and witty cousin and friend. My husband, Mike, and I truly loved her and we will really miss her. She helped make the world be a better place. However, we believe Betty is now with God, John, and many beloved relatives and friends.

  12. My sincere condolences to the Moraghan family! Betty was such a dear, sweet, caring person; also brilliant and a wonderful educator! I remember her mostly from our days at Holy Spirit Church; we usually attended the same Masses with our families, and she always spoke to us; so kind, so warm, so giving!! Education was of upmost importance In her life and she was a true model for this, both through her family and through the students who were lucky enough to have her as a teacher!
    May she rest in peace with her Lord.
    Kathy Sornsin Boucher

  13. Sincere sympathy to Betty’s family and friends. She was a wonderful woman, with deep love for her family and her God. It was a blessing for me everytime I brought her Communion. She left me smiling more times than I can count. It is a privilege to have known her!!
    God bless you Betty.

  14. Betty was my dear cousin. Her mother Peggy, and my mother Frances were close sisters. I have wonderful memories of being with Betty and her charming husband John during my summer visits to Chicago in the 60’s. I remember as a teenager thinking they were such a stunning couple . I was lucky to speak with Betty in February on the phone and I was so happy to hear her optimistic and kind voice.
    I am sending my love to her family at this sad time. I know Betty will live on in their hearts forever .
    Rest in peace dear Betty.

  15. Diane & family- Please know your Stanford football community is lifting y’all with prayers.
    Love- Teri, Stewart & Fisher Anderson

  16. I met Betty when she joined Riverview Writing Crew at Riverview Place. Immediately I knew I wanted to know her further. Betty’s enthusiasm for the honest memoir writing the group produced turned into deep care about each individuals there. Care and love. Her poetry sparked us and her comments and questions for other writers made revisions sound. I was impressed that Gerard Manly Hopk,ins’ poetry was Betty’s master’s thesis study. It brought me to read Hopkins and lively conversation with Betty. sharTwo retired English teachers, she at Moorhead State University and I at Concordia, shared a love for Emily Dickinson, Robert Frost, and Mary Oliver. Betty and I giggled together. (With whom will I giggle now?) David, my husband, knew I was talking on the phone with Betty when the giggling started. I remember well how Betty would grow quiet and then make a few popping sounds, like air being let from a balloon.
    Then she would say half a word, then a word, giggles swallowing her the whole time. It was contagious. We giggled about almost anything, but especially Chesterton’s version of a Walt Whitman poem! The two of us were TCM fans and would talk about the movies and movie stars we watched. Betty loved Winnie the Pooh. I shared with her a favorite bit from Pooh: Piglet asks Pooh how to spell love. Pooh replies, “You don’t spell it. You feel it.” Betty and I said “I love you” to each other. Death is addressed in poetry, and Betty didn’t shy away from talking about death. Her love for John Moraghan burned brightly. I know every detail of the black dress she wore the evening John came to her parents’ home for a party. Pearls and heels accented her outfit. I even know the story of how she acquired the dress while shopping in California with a cousin. There was never a false note in our friendship. Writing from personal memories, skipped the small talk and went straight to what is most important. For Betty it was faith and family. I loved her well and will continue to do so for the rest of my days. Betty brought me into friendship with her daughters. Our connections will also live on. Betty wanted it that way.

  17. With love for Betty’s family mourning her loss. I mourn, too. May God bless Betty’s soul forever more.


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