Michael Schelske
January 21, 1978 ~ November 12, 2023
Born in:
Aberdeen, SD
Resided in:
Horace, ND
Michael’s service will be viewable on this page shortly before it starts.
Michael Joseph Schelske, a selfless servant to those he loved, died Nov. 12 at his home surrounded by family after a courageous battle with cancer. He was 45.
A two-time cancer survivor, he had overcome brain cancer as a boy, as well as colon cancer as an adult, to live a rich and full life, with a job, home, and his pride and joy: his family.
He was born Jan. 21, 1978, in Aberdeen, S.D., to Gary and Susan Schelske. He grew up in Redfield, S.D., where he played clarinet in the school band, earned his Ham Radio license by age 9, and loved participating in Boy Scouts, earning the rank of Eagle Scout. He graduated from Redfield High School in 1996 and studied at North Dakota State College of Science in Wahpeton, N.D.
In 2007, he met the love of his life Amber Hutton. They were married on August 15, 2009. Three years later, they welcomed their very biggest blessing: their son Isaac. Mike loved nothing more than being a father and often enjoyed father son video game nights.
He was employed by the West Fargo School District, working as a custodian at Heritage Middle School, a job that he loved.
He was known for always being willing to go the extra mile for the people in his life. One time he came to his in-laws’ rescue, when the yard of their new house had been graded and the sprinkler heads were buried in unknown locations; here came Michael, metal detector in hand. A recent announcement from Heritage Middle School noted “Mike took pride in everything he did, whether it be putting salt on the school sidewalks at 4 a.m., removing graffiti, or noticing the small things that needed to be addressed each day. Mike not only had an exceptional work ethic but a kindness that could make anyone’s day better.”
He enjoyed hunting, camping, and Cowboy Fast Draw. He was a member of the Pyrotechnics Guild International and his fascination with fireworks took him to pyrotechnic conventions around the country.
Survivors include wife, Amber, and 11-year-old son, Isaac; parents, Gary and Susan Schelske; Grandparents George and Irene Imbery; siblings Brent (Kate) Schelske, Sara (Gunnar) Olson; In-laws Dawn (Matt) Langlie, Terry (Daphne) Hutton, Adam (Katie) Hutton; and numerous uncles, aunts, nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by Grandparents Rudy and Margaret Schelske; Nephew Jackson Hutton; and Cousin Ryan Imbery.
A memorial will be held Monday, Nov. 20, at Boulger Funeral Home, 123 10th St S., Fargo. Visitation starts at 1 p.m.; the service will be held at 2 p.m. The family requests attendees to dress casually, as Michael would have wanted.
In lieu of flowers or gifts, the family asks you to consider donating to an education fund for Michael’s son. Donations can be directed to Alerus Financial 3137 32nd Ave S, Fargo ND 58103 for Isaac Schelske.
Services
Visitation - Monday: November 20, 2023 1:00 pm - 2:00 pm
Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103
701-237-6441
www.boulgerfuneralhome.com
Memorial Service - Monday: November 20, 2023 2:00 pm
Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103
701-237-6441
www.boulgerfuneralhome.com
Thinking of you all during this devastating loss. All my love. Jessie Ford (Jandel)
The world has lost someone who embodied kindness, perseverance, and appreciation for the good around them. What I will remember most about Michael was the positive attitude he brought into every room and his sincere and kind heart. You are all in my thoughts.
N0AYK
Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. Sending prayers.
Farrah (Farmen) Flemming.
So sorry to hear about this wonderful man gone way too soon. Prayers to the family.
This is really hard for me. Mike was a coworker, but we had a great friendship. I will miss him every day, because he always had a good outlook on life. I only had the privilege of knowing him for few years but we became close friends. Mike I will always consider you my friend. I hope your family knows that they have me to help them out if they need it. Love you man.
Michael. Love , Rob and Julie Hannusch
So very sorry for the loss of such a fine young man. He fought so hard to live but God called him home. He is now completely healed with a resurrected body. Prayers for Amber and Isaac as you grieve and miss your husband and father. We love you. Hugs. ❤️
SO SORRY FOE LOSS HE WAS A VERY NICE MAN . MAY GOD COMFORT YOUR FAMILY.GARY AND LYNETTE MOORE
So sorry for the loss of this fine young man, and condolences to the family.
Ron and Cathy Imbery
Mike was a remarkable young man,.
Cathy and I wish we had been around him and his
family more in the last forty years.
Sad for us.
Dear Sue, Gary, and all of Michael’s family,
We pray, in time, your cherished memories will give you peace and comfort.
Dear Amber, Isaac, Sue, Gary, and all of Michael’s family,
We pray, in time, your cherished memories will give you peace and comfort.
Our heartfelt sympathy, Carmen & Ruben