Nelson (Nels) Richardson
November 7, 1945 ~ July 9, 2023
Born in:
Wahpeton, North Dakota
Resided in:
Fargo, North Dakota
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Nelson Burdick Richardson died July 9th, 2023.
He was Born in Wahpeton, ND on November 7th, 1945, to Adelyn and William Richardson. He attended school at St. Johns in Wahpeton and Dunn School in Santa Ynez Valley, California. He spent extended periods of time at the New Camaldoli Hermitage at Big Sur, California and with the Trappists at the Abbey of Our Lady of Gethsemani in Kentucky. He attended college at Amherst University, Rhode Island School of Design and New York School of Visual Arts. His interest in music led him to own and play several medieval instruments and into translating ancient musical notation into modern score. He was a staff writer for Poets & Writer’s magazine and later taught computer coding at New York University, Baruch College, and New York Life Insurance Company. In 2008, he and his husband, Denis, moved to Fargo where they were active in First Congregational United Church of Christ, the LGBTQ and arts communities. As Nelson’s vision diminished, he engaged several individuals who read and discussed books with him. He was keenly interested in religious, economic, and political history and theory. His book selections would be considered complex and esoteric.
He met his life partner Denis in 1986. They were married in 2012. For the past few years, Denis and Nelson toured the area with daily drives, listening to audio books and enjoying coffee. He also enjoyed spirited debates of the finer points of just about anything but especially the Bible of which he was an accomplished student.
Nelson leaves behind his husband of many decades, Denis Timm Richardson, and siblings Katherine “Kiki” [Moussa] Sidibe of Albuquerque, NM, Thomas [Gay] Dering of Las Cruces, NM, Rane Richardson of Albuquerque, NM, Joseph [Muriel] Richardson of Fargo, and Nancy [Les] Brennan of Frazee, MN along with several nieces and nephews. He is also survived by his sister-in-law Ellen [Fred] Petrelli of New York and his stepmother Betty Richardson.
Nelson was predeceased by his parents Adelyn and William Richardson and brother-in-law Carse [Rane] McDaniel.
Services will be held on Monday, August 7th at 2PM at Boulgers Funeral Home in Fargo, ND.
I miss our reading times and conversations already Nelson. Thank you for the memories. May the Lord keep you until we meet again.
THANK YOU SO MUCH ETHEL!!!.. Nelson loved your reading. We always had a few laughs.
Denis–you and Nelson are a shining example of love and devotion. What an amazing man who will be missed.
I will always remember our big hug and tears shared, when our dear husbands were in next door rooms at the Hospice house. Peace and strength to you in the coming days.
THANK YOU SO MUCH Carolyn!!.. we both had a tough time of it.
He had a large impact on my life, and I’ll remember him always – I will greatly miss our reading sessions. Until we meet again, Nels
Oh, Denis, I am so sorry to hear of Nelson’s death. What a fine couple the two of you made. I so enjoyed our coffees. Please let me know how I can be of support during this time.
Thank you so much Erin!!’
Denis, I am so, so sorry to hear of Nels death. I am holding you in my prayers.
Denis
Your BPC friends are so sad to hear of Nelson’s passing. You and Nelson were both so special to us and losing Nelson is heartbreaking. We remember Nelson for both his incredible mind and his love of plants. He was the Regatta Farmer in BPC. To honor Nelson we have arranged to have a small grove of trees planted. His legacy will continue in those trees and in our hearts.
Love, Theresa, Mary Ann, Ethel, Elizabeth, Probir and Julie
OH MY!! What a wonderful, kind thing to do!!. Please send me a picture when you can after it is started!..
We are sorry to hear about the passing of Nelson. We enjoyed getting to know him at First Church. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Due to prior travel plans, we will not be able to attend the funeral- but will be thinking of you.
Denis, I am sorry to hear of the passing of Nelson. Even though I wasn’t able to meet either of you in person, Barbara always spoke so highly of both of you. What a wonderful couple and life! Warmly, Jan Nelson, HeartSprings
Cousin, I’m so sorry to hear about Nelson’s passing. I didn’t get to know him but if he was married to you, he had to be very special…Please know that you and Nelson have been in my thoughts and I hope that your beautiful memories together will help to ease your grief. May he rest in peace. Love you, Paulette and Louisa
Thank you Cousin !!!
I remember how much (you and) Nelson enriched my own experience on that boat, his thoughtful questions and presence. Thank you both for being there. I will not forget.
Just learned today (Aug 28) of Nelson’s death. We were close friends during his New York years, and I think of him very often. Recently a number of friends from the 70’s and 80’s have gotten in touch again, and Nelson’s intellectual brilliance, artistic vision and handsome person have come up again and again. This is a sad time for all of us. I hope those of his friends and family who read this will know what a lasting influence he had on so many people.
Thank you so much! That means a lot to me.
I am saddened to hear this news. I had the good fortune to have met Nelson when I was in my formative years. His originality and his often surprising takes on both issues of the day and the deepest questions about life were revelatory. He was the embodiment of the perennial philosophy, a monk in the world, a source of wisdom and laughter, and a darn good cook. His enthusiastic curiosity was contagious. Thank you, Nelson.