Nelson (Nels) Richardson

nelson (nels)  richardson

November 7, 1945 ~ July 9, 2023

Born in: Wahpeton, North Dakota
Resided in: Fargo, North Dakota

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Nelson Burdick Richardson died July 9th, 2023.

He was Born in Wahpeton, ND on November 7th, 1945, to Adelyn and William Richardson. He attended school at St. Johns in Wahpeton and Dunn School in Santa Ynez Valley, California. He spent extended periods of time at the New Camaldoli Hermitage at Big Sur, California and with the Trappists at the Abbey of Our Lady of Gethsemani in Kentucky. He attended college at Amherst University, Rhode Island School of Design and New York School of Visual Arts. His interest in music led him to own and play several medieval instruments and into translating ancient musical notation into modern score. He was a staff writer for Poets & Writer’s magazine and later taught computer coding at New York University, Baruch College, and New York Life Insurance Company. In 2008, he and his husband, Denis, moved to Fargo where they were active in First Congregational United Church of Christ, the LGBTQ and arts communities. As Nelson’s vision diminished, he engaged several individuals who read and discussed books with him. He was keenly interested in religious, economic, and political history and theory. His book selections would be considered complex and esoteric.

He met his life partner Denis in 1986. They were married in 2012. For the past few years, Denis and Nelson toured the area with daily drives, listening to audio books and enjoying coffee. He also enjoyed spirited debates of the finer points of just about anything but especially the Bible of which he was an accomplished student.

Nelson leaves behind his husband of many decades, Denis Timm Richardson, and siblings Katherine “Kiki” [Moussa] Sidibe of Albuquerque, NM, Thomas [Gay] Dering of Las Cruces, NM, Rane Richardson of Albuquerque, NM, Joseph [Muriel] Richardson of Fargo, and Nancy [Les] Brennan of Frazee, MN along with several nieces and nephews. He is also survived by his sister-in-law Ellen [Fred] Petrelli of New York and his stepmother Betty Richardson.

Nelson was predeceased by his parents Adelyn and William Richardson and brother-in-law Carse [Rane] McDaniel.

Services will be held on Monday, August 7th at 2PM at Boulgers Funeral Home in Fargo, ND.

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Memorial Service - Monday: August 7, 2023 2:00 pm

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  1. I miss our reading times and conversations already Nelson. Thank you for the memories. May the Lord keep you until we meet again.

  2. Nancy, so sorry to read about your brother passing on. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  3. Denis, so sorry to hear the news today of Nelson passing. I will never forget him. He will be missed. Please let us know if we can do anything for you. You have my deepest sympathy, Darrell

    • Denis–you and Nelson are a shining example of love and devotion. What an amazing man who will be missed.
      I will always remember our big hug and tears shared, when our dear husbands were in next door rooms at the Hospice house. Peace and strength to you in the coming days.

  4. Nelson was a wonderful friend, and someone I admired (and continue to admire) very much. I started reading to Nelson twice a week starting back in 2009, and always appreciated his thoughtfulness and insight into topics we read – finance, early Christian theology, biographical works, history, politics, fiction, philosophical commentaries.

    He had a large impact on my life, and I’ll remember him always – I will greatly miss our reading sessions. Until we meet again, Nels

  5. Oh, Denis, I am so sorry to hear of Nelson’s death. What a fine couple the two of you made. I so enjoyed our coffees. Please let me know how I can be of support during this time.

  6. Nelson was a very special person in my life. He made my dreams come true in multiple ways. I’ve been so very blessed to have him be such a central part of my weeks for so many years. He introduced me to so many authors I would have never dove into on my own, I was able to explore ideas that fascinated both him and i on a level I never imagined exploring. Nels was a bright spot in my weeks. We bonded over so many topics; the philosophical and theological ones we read and others such as gardening and espresso which we both had a great love for. His kind heart, intelligence and curiosity will be a beacon for me the rest of my life. Words can’t express how much I will miss your physical presence here Nels, but my heart knows there is a bit of you in every person I meet, every flower I admire and every book I read.

  7. Nelson also had two step-sisters, Diane and Linda. I remember how much Linda appreciated getting a call from Nelson.

  8. Denis
    Your BPC friends are so sad to hear of Nelson’s passing. You and Nelson were both so special to us and losing Nelson is heartbreaking. We remember Nelson for both his incredible mind and his love of plants. He was the Regatta Farmer in BPC. To honor Nelson we have arranged to have a small grove of trees planted. His legacy will continue in those trees and in our hearts.
    Love, Theresa, Mary Ann, Ethel, Elizabeth, Probir and Julie

    • OH MY!! What a wonderful, kind thing to do!!. Please send me a picture when you can after it is started!..

  9. We are sorry to hear about the passing of Nelson. We enjoyed getting to know him at First Church. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Due to prior travel plans, we will not be able to attend the funeral- but will be thinking of you.

  10. Denis, I am sorry to hear of the passing of Nelson. Even though I wasn’t able to meet either of you in person, Barbara always spoke so highly of both of you. What a wonderful couple and life! Warmly, Jan Nelson, HeartSprings

  11. Cousin, I’m so sorry to hear about Nelson’s passing. I didn’t get to know him but if he was married to you, he had to be very special…Please know that you and Nelson have been in my thoughts and I hope that your beautiful memories together will help to ease your grief. May he rest in peace. Love you, Paulette and Louisa

  12. I remember how much (you and) Nelson enriched my own experience on that boat, his thoughtful questions and presence. Thank you both for being there. I will not forget.

  13. Thinking of you and yours today and for the past few weeks Denis. Nels was such a cool character and I am so blessed to have been part of his care (although he may have referred to our exercise sessions as torture LOL). How lucky for you to have found each other in this life and now Nels is without pain. Sending peace and love and happy thoughts <3

  14. Denis, I’m deeply saddened to hear about Nelson’s passing. I will never forget the last time I met you both when you came to Albuquerque. It was a wonderful experience. You have my deepest condolences for the loss of such a wonderful person.

  15. Just learned today (Aug 28) of Nelson’s death. We were close friends during his New York years, and I think of him very often. Recently a number of friends from the 70’s and 80’s have gotten in touch again, and Nelson’s intellectual brilliance, artistic vision and handsome person have come up again and again. This is a sad time for all of us. I hope those of his friends and family who read this will know what a lasting influence he had on so many people.

  16. I am saddened to hear this news. I had the good fortune to have met Nelson when I was in my formative years. His originality and his often surprising takes on both issues of the day and the deepest questions about life were revelatory. He was the embodiment of the perennial philosophy, a monk in the world, a source of wisdom and laughter, and a darn good cook. His enthusiastic curiosity was contagious. Thank you, Nelson.


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