Nicolette “Nicky” McKay

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Nicolette Alaine McKay, lovingly known as Nicky, left this world on January 29, 2024, at the age of 72. She was born on February 19, 1951, in Fargo, ND to the late Milton and Catherine “June” McKay.

Nicky spent her early years in Casselton, ND before the family moved to Westport, SD. She graduated from high school in Frederick, SD in 1969. With a compassionate heart and a desire to make a difference, Nicky pursued a career in health care. She dedicated herself to the well-being of others and worked as a Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA) and in hospice care. Her love and care for children and the elderly were unmatched, and she went on to retire as the Pediatric Unit Secretary at Avera Hospital in Aberdeen, SD.

Returning to North Dakota, Nicky settled in West Fargo, where she resided until her passing. Alongside her professional accomplishments, Nicky cherished her family and friends above all else. Her immense generosity, kindness, and ability to make everyone feel like family will be remembered by all who knew her. Her servant-like nature was evident in her selfless acts of kindness, always ready to lend a helping hand to those in need.

Music was a constant joy in Nicky’s life, and she enjoyed playing Bingo as a form of entertainment. Nicky was known for her prowess in the kitchen baking many goodies to share with family and friends. However, her greatest source of happiness came from her family, particularly her daughter Chelsie Bormann, whom she adored along with Chelsie’s husband, Troy, whom she loved like a son. Nicky was a proud grandmother to Austin, Nathan, Blake, Bailey, and a great-grandmother to Luna. These cherished relationships brought her immense joy and fulfillment.

Nicky is survived by her daughter Chelsie (Troy) Bormann of West Fargo, four grandchildren, one great-granddaughter, her brother Terry McKay and sister-in-law Kathy McKay of Golden Valley, ND, and several beloved nieces, nephews, and cousins.

She has now joined her parents, Milton and June McKay, along with her brother Michael McKay, her sister Mary Jo McKay, her nephew Michael McKay Jr., and her grandson Grant. Although they mourn her loss, they take solace in knowing that Nicky’s love and light will forever shine in their hearts.