Shannon Nichole Neil

shannon neil

December 19, 1977 ~ August 2, 2026

Born in: Fargo, North Dakota
Resided in: West Fargo, North Dakota

Shannon’s service will be livestreamed and viewable below on Wednesday, August 12, 2026 at 2:00 PM.

Shannon Nichole Neil, age 48, of Fargo, ND, passed away peacefully with her mother by her side.

Shannon was born to Cheryl Neil on December 19, 1977, in Fargo. She was baptized at Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Fargo. She attended Carl Ben Eilson, Ben Franklin and graduated from North High in 1999. Shannon was student of the quarter, and she went to her first prom that year.

Shannon volunteered at Fraiser Day Care for eight years, where her job was keeping the babies happy. She worked at various jobs throughout her life: Pretzel Maker, Chuck E. Cheese, DWAC and VTC most recently.

Shannon had many interests. She participated in Special Olympics where she won many ribbons and medals. She participated in Camp A Day and Teen Night. Shannon loved music, movies, bocce and bowling. She was an avid Vikings fan.

The love of her life was Gary Graf. They went to many dances, sporting events and on many dates. Shannon will surely be missed.

Shannon met a best friend, Marly Pender. They had many great times together.

Shannon was preceded in death by her great grandmother, Catherine O’Neill, grandmother, Noreen O’Neill, grandfather, Francis Neil, Uncles, Rick O’Neill and Daniel Mattson.

Shannon is survived by her mother, Cheryl Neil, uncle, Kenneth Neil, aunts, Cathy Mattson (Dave), and Linda Haas, cousins, Matthew Gill, Christopher Mattson (Angie), Jennifer Guck (John), Jake O’Neill, honorary grandparents Linda and Bob Gill and many second cousins.

Funeral service will be held at 2:00 p.m. Wednesday, August 12, 2026, at Boulger Funeral Home in Fargo, ND, with visitation one hour prior.

Services

Visitation: Wednesday, August 12, 2026 1:00 pm - 2:00 pm

Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103

701-237-6441
https://boulgerfuneralhome.com

Funeral: Wednesday, August 12, 2026 2:00 pm

Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103

701-237-6441
https://boulgerfuneralhome.com

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  1. My special Tiger in bocce ball for Special Olympics. Growling made her throw the ball alittle harder. I will miss you Shannon rest easy and Growl when needed. Coach Mari Beth

  2. Shannon was a sweet lady she was always happy and loved to be with her friends and family she will be missed she will always hold a special place in all are hearts

  3. Hannah Harvey, 424 VTC peer says:

    Rest in peace Shannon

  4. Shannon you truly will be missed! I’ll never forget how happy you were every time we saw each other. Your face would light up, clap your hands and you would say “Nicolette Nicolette I saved you a seat right here” as you would pay your hand in the chair next to you.

  5. Margaret Rundlett-Doom says:

    Shannon often had a smile on her face. She found so much joy in life and was capable of getting you to smile as well. What a legacy she left for us all who knew her as to find the best in everyone. what an example she left for all of us!

    • Is she going to be buried or cremated? I miss her happy face

      • Is Gary graf still at Vtc? I hope he’s doing ok with her loss. Give him hugs from me Cheryl helm

  6. She loved having fun with the staff at Vtc. She loved to say ratatouille and have the staff do it too.


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