Shirley Bertsch
September 26, 1940 ~ January 17, 2023
Shirley’s memorial service will be viewable on this page starting at 3:00 PM, Sunday January 22, 2023:
Shirley Mae Bertsch, West Fargo, ND died January 17, 2023 at home, unexpectedly after briefly feeling under the weather. She was still doing things according to her strict schedule, as was her habit.
Shirley Mae Renner was born to Mike and Eleanor Renner on September 26, 1940, in Ada, Minnesota and raised on the family farm near Felton, where she attended elementary and middle school. Shirley attended and graduated high school from Mount St. Benedict, a Catholic boarding school in Crookston, Minnesota, where she didn’t meet her future husband, but she dated some of his neighbors from Hillsboro and school mates from the Northwest School of Agriculture, across town.
After graduation, Shirley worked at 1st National Bank in Moorhead, and Bell Telephone in Fargo. She married Alvin Bertsch August 24, 1961. They originally lived in Hillsboro, ND before moving to the farm in nearby Herberg Township after a winter at Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri in 1962-63 with first born Daniel. Shirley often said that winter at Fort Leonard Wood was one of the best of her marriage. Son Steven was born the next fall to prove the point. A brief venture into food service with Alvin, her sister Joyce and brother-in-law Gordy Nelson saw the creation of the Red Pepper in Grand Forks, North Dakota which had previously been a pizza place. To this day Shirley still used those pizza pans to bake her famous homemade buns and rolls on. In 1965 Alvin’s guard unit deployed to New York for summer camp. Shirley took the opportunity to come with to visit a former roommate and see New York. Leann was her memento, born the during the following March 1966 blizzard.
Shirley didn’t have a driver’s license until she was 26, with three kids. It didn’t stop her from driving so it never mattered much to her when her 7-year-olds started driving. She grew up on a farm, and she married a farmer. But farming and trucking were work. Dogs and gardens were her passions. She also enjoyed music. So much so that she made sure all her kids learned multiple instruments and even made weekly trips to Fargo for their music lessons. Once her kids were older, she decided that maybe it was time she learned to play too and learned how to play the organ. She was constantly baking and was quick to put multiple varieties of bars and cookies out if anyone was invited in. She never had store bought cookies, bars, or bread on her table.
Shirley loved fiercely and had a wonderful sense of humor that those of us lucky enough to call her Wife, Mom, Sister, Grandma, or Great-Grandma are especially going to miss.
Shirley is survived by her husband Alvin, her sister Joyce Nelson, her sister Doreen (Lee) Payne, her brother Michael (Diana) Renner, her brother James (Dianne) Renner, children Dan, Steve (Sue), Leann (Rick), Gayle (Jim), and Kara; and grandchildren Erin, Katie (Brian), Sarah (Sean), Emily (Dustyn), Courtney (Damon), Levi (Tiffany), Nicklaus, Denver, Ricky (Noelle), Gabrielle, Aiden, Samantha (Correy), Brandon (Amber), Melanie, Olivia, and Jack; and great-grandchildren Rylan, Myah, Axl, Cameryn, Maren, Isla, Lydia, Josie, Colby, Carter, Tristan, Emma and Olivia Mae. She was also survived by numerous cousins, nieces, and nephews.
Shirley was predeceased by her parents Mike and Eleanor Renner, sisters Alva Renner, and Vernette Engness, brothers-in-law Gordy Nelson, DuWayne Engness, Albert Beckman Sr., and Otto Bertsch Sr.; sister-in-law Lena Beckman; mother-in-law Katherine Bertsch and father-in-law Gottfried Bertsch.
A memorial service will be held on Sunday, January 22, 2023 at 3:00 PM with a visitation starting at 2:00 PM at Boulger Funeral Home,123 10th Street South, Fargo, ND 58103; Pastor John Flowers officiating.
Services
Visitation - Sunday: January 22, 2023 2:00 pm
Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street
Fargo, North Dakota 58103
7012376441
www.boulgerfuneralhome.com
Memorial Service - Sunday: January 22, 2023 3:00 pm
Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street
Fargo, North Dakota 58103
7012376441
www.boulgerfuneralhome.com
I am so very sorry for your loss. Nick’s Grandma Shirley’s constant unconditional love was a gift from God to us. She is now a guardian angel in heaven.
Please accept my condolences. Sending Nick a big hug.
I have such fond memories of you and your mom’s visit to San Diego! I recall feeling rather lonely for my mom at that time and they are so much alike that it was the next best thing! Big hugs to you. 😘
If I didn’t leave work too late I would call to see if she and Dad needed anything before I went home. Before ending our call Mom would tell her nearly senior-citizen child “you’re a good boy.” It meant as much to the 60 year old as the 6 year old to hear it from her.
Shirley was loved and will be missed.
I’m so grateful to have been able to call Shirley my aunt.
She made the best home made bread that I ever ate. She was very gifted. She will be missed by all who knew and loved her.
Our sincere condolences to the entire family. Shirley will be missed by many.
you lost the most precious person. As you remember, I met Shirley first time in 1982. I visited with my grandfather Eugen and his cousin Ruth. Shirley and you were so wonderful to us. I felt so comfortable in your house just like home. Shirley could do everything. She was talented in anything she did. You took time to show me around and you showed me your farm with everything that goes along with it. Just last year for Christmas we were watching old films I had taken with my super 8 camera in 1982. This brought all the nice memories back.
My intention was to visit you this summer. This is why I was trying to contact you again. I tried to call but could not get through. I send my deepest condolences to all of you.