Stephen "Steve" Bulat

stephen

November 19, 1951 ~ November 21, 2024

Born in: Detroit, Michigan
Resided in: Fargo, North Dakota

Funeral Mass:

Prayer Service:

Stephen “Steve” Julius Bulat, 73, Fargo, North Dakota, passed away on November 21, 2024, after a long and courageous fight with Leukemia. He showed immense strength after his diagnosis and always had the most positive, hopeful outlook. He will be forever loved and missed.

Steve was born on November 19, 1951 to Stefan and Jennie (Fura) Bulat in Detroit, Michigan. His loving grandmother, Stella Fura, raised him and she was very dear to him. He graduated from St. Ladislaus High School in 1969 followed by two and a half years at the Detroit Institute of Technology. Steve then enlisted in the U.S. Air Force in January of 1972 and was stationed at the Minot, ND Air Force base. He loved his time in the Air Force working as a Heating and Control Specialist, especially the assignments to nuclear missile sites.

During Steve’s time in the Air Force, he met the love of his life, Ella. They married on May 22, 1976 in Hannah, ND and made their home in Wahpeton, ND where Steve attended the North Dakota State School of Science for Air Conditioning and Refrigeration Technology. He graduated in May of 1978 with an Associate’s Degree of Applied Science. Steve was hired by Johnson Controls as a Control and HVAC Technician in Fargo and worked there for nearly 40 years. Steve held several positions at Johnson Controls, including pipefitter, service department supervisor, service project manager, and service technician. Steve valued his coworkers and customers, with many becoming lifelong friends. He was extremely proud of his career and the company he worked for.

Steve was a dedicated husband, dad, and papa, always showing up for his wife, daughters, sons-in-law, and grandchildren with a smile, a helping hand, guidance, jokes, playfulness, and great stories. He could make any situation more fun and joyful, and he valued everyday moments and quality time with his family. Steve treasured his marriage to Ella, and they truly enjoyed spending their days together, whether it be working on a house project, having coffee on the patio, gardening and yard work, watching a movie, traveling, or a drive to Maplewood State Park. No matter what they were doing, he loved having his best friend by his side. Steve also found so much happiness in time with his grandchildren. He adored taking his granddaughter, Gracie, on adventures exploring around the neighborhood, or tracking deer at nearby parks. He loved watching his granddaughter, Emma, play softball and cheering her on at games and practices. He loved having a new grandson, Cole, to snuggle, play, and chatter back and forth with. Steve’s family was everything to him.

Steve also highly valued his friendships, old and new. The friends he had for years were more like family to him, and he spoke of his friends often. An everyday situation could remind him of a funny story or an experience with a friend and he enjoyed sharing those stories with others. He truly loved people, learning about their lives and where they came from. He could often find connections with anyone he met and was a true people-person. One of his favorite memories was of his granddaughter, Emma, asking him “Papa, do you know everybody?!”

Steve loved being outdoors, taking long walks, traveling, exercising, shooting, and hunting. His Catholic faith was very strong, and he enjoyed attending church, getting to know others in the congregation, and being a part of his 6:05 am men’s bible study group.

Steve was diagnosed with Acute Myeloid Leukemia in January of 2015 and underwent a bone marrow transplant at the University of Minnesota in June of 2015. Steve’s brother, August, donated the bone marrow that saved his life and gave him 9 more years of life. He became a cancer mentor at Sanford to help other people going through blood and bone marrow cancers. He found meaning and inspiration by supporting patients and families through their experiences with cancer treatment. The Leukemia returned in June of 2023 and Steve endured another bone marrow transplant on November 10, 2023. Despite the second bone marrow transplant and months of chemo, Leukemia was discovered yet again in October of 2024.

A heartfelt thank you to Roger Maris Cancer Center staff, for the kindness and compassion of the 7th floor Oncology staff at Sanford Hospital, and especially Dr. Gross and Dr. Maliske for giving Steve the best care and treatment throughout his diagnosis of Leukemia. Additional sincere gratitude to Dr. Brunstein and Dr. Juckett at the University of Minnesota.

Left to remember Steve are his wife, Ella; his daughters Amanda (Brandon) Bahr and Brianna (Benji) Schwartz; grandchildren Emma (12), Gracie (10), and Cole (1); brothers August (Jackie) Bulat and Peter (Annette) Poma; aunt Donna Fura; as well as other close extended family members, including brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law, and many nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

Steve was preceded in death by his grandmother (Stella Fura), his parents (Stefan and Jennie Bulat), his stepmom (Vera Bulat), his nephew (August) and many extended family members.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Steve’s name are preferred to go to Roger Maris Cancer Center or Hope Lodge in Minneapolis, MN.

Services

Visitation - Tuesday: November 26, 2024 3:00 pm - 5:00 pm

Sts. Anne and Joachim Catholic Church, Fargo
5202 25th St. S.
Fargo , North Dakota 58104

(701) 235-5757
https://stsaaj.org/

Prayer Service - Tuesday: November 26, 2024 5:00 pm

Sts. Anne and Joachim Catholic Church, Fargo
5202 25th St. S.
Fargo , North Dakota 58104

(701) 235-5757
https://stsaaj.org/

Visitation - Wednesday: November 27, 2024 1:00 pm - 2:00 pm

Sts. Anne and Joachim Catholic Church, Fargo
5202 25th St. S.
Fargo , North Dakota 58104

(701) 235-5757
https://stsaaj.org/

Funeral Mass - Wednesday: November 27, 2024 2:00 pm

Sts. Anne and Joachim Catholic Church, Fargo
5202 25th St. S.
Fargo , North Dakota 58104

(701) 235-5757
https://stsaaj.org/

Burial - Friday: November 29, 2024 10:00 am

Fargo National Cemetery
8709 40th Avenue North, Co Rd 20
Harwood, North Dakota 58042

(701) 451-4650
https://www.cem.va.gov/cems/nchp/fargo.asp

View current weather.

Memories Timeline

Guestbook

  1. Steve I will miss you always. The day we became great friends is when I stuck up behind you in Sharon N.Dak. and pulled your pants down at Main Street in front of some elderly women many years ago. You took it well and the story is still being told. Alway struck up a very good conversation and kidding each other about our different military branch services. Polite, caring and would give the shirt off his back no matter who it is. You fought a big time battle and was positive always. Always I think of the time I made a visit when you were getting treatment at Roger Mari’s hospital when I was leaving you said hay JR l turned than you had your shorts pulled down to your knees mooning the heck out of me. I’ll always think of all the good times and I have a special ANGEL watching all of us. You will always be a special friend with many good happy memories.🥰🥰

  2. Our sympathy to the family of Steve, I have know Steve for most of 40 years and I will miss his character and his huge heart. God bless to all, Steve is now in a better place.
    TBTG!!

  3. Ella, Amanda, Bri & family. My heart hurts for you all. Steve was the most kindest & good hearted of people. Always had a kind word & hug. I shall miss his laughter & his chatter. Hugs, love & prayers to all.
    Robbie D. & Rick Busko

  4. In Loving Memory of Steve Bulat

    Dear Ella,

    I was deeply saddened to hear of Steve’s passing. Please accept my heartfelt condolences during this difficult time.

    Steve was more than a colleague to me; he was a mentor, a guide, and a true inspiration during my time at Johnson Controls. His wisdom, kindness, and willingness to share his knowledge left a profound impact on me, both professionally and personally. Steve had an incredible ability to see potential in others and nurture it with patience and encouragement.

    Beyond his professional achievements, it was clear to all who knew him how much he cherished his family. His love for you and the life you built together always shone through in his stories and conversations.

    Steve’s battle with leukemia was a testament to his strength and resilience. Though his loss is immeasurable, his legacy will live on in the countless lives he touched, including mine.

    Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything I can do to support you during this time, do not hesitate to reach out.

    With deepest sympathy,
    Daniel Haug and Gale Haug

  5. Hugs and kisses from Michigan. Will never forget the Tigers game when everyone was home at the same time. Will watch the Lions today with a heavy heart. Rest easy 🕊️

  6. My condolences to your family’s.
    Steve was a wonderful person I had the opportunity to work with at JCI he will be severely missed.
    God bless you Steve and Rest In Peace my friend.

  7. Ella, I am so very sorry. All of us at the RMCC infusion dept had the pleasure of meeting you and Steve and you both became our favorites. One of the sweetest and greatest couples. We are heartbroken for the passing of Steve. I cannot imagine your heartbreak. I pray that your hearts all find some comfort and that you will forever feel Steve’s spirit throughout your life on Earth. My deepest and most sincere condolences. We will miss you both.

  8. Dearest Ella, Brianna & Benji, Amanda & Brandon, grandchildren, and the rest of Steve’s family,
    There are no words that fully express how painful it is to lose such a wonderfully kind, loving, thoughtful, and fun person. Steve touched the lives of everyone who had the good fortune of meeting him, and he will be missed beyond measure.
    Steve’s legacy is not just ‘knowing everyone’ but making each of us better people. Steve will live on in our hearts and memories.
    Steve’s courage and determination throughout his AML battle has been inspirational, and the love for and from his amazing family helped us get to keep him for as long as we did. Bulat Family – You are the BEST! 💖
    With Sympathy, Love and Hugs – Lori & Kevin Bartram

  9. Ella, my condolences for you and your family’s loss, Steve was a great man, always had a smile on his face and made everyone’s day better, he will be missed by all that new him, I’m fortunate enough to get know him during our time together with JCI, may Steve rest in peace God bless Steve and family.

  10. I met Steve a few times in passing a number of years ago, long before I was asked to interview him in the spring of 2018. I was a member of the Roger Maris Golf Tournament Committee and was asked to interview him regarding his experience with the Roger Maris Cancer Center.

    His story was amazing and his attitude, in the face of his cancer, was so uplifting… as he states, “A lot good things come out of bad things.” And in the years following that powerful interview with Steve, he always greeted me in the most positive attitude about Life and others… always giving me a word of motivation for my life.

    He will be missed.

  11. To Ella and family Please accept our condolences on the loss of Steve. We knew Steve from activities with Brianne and our daughter in Volleyball. Steve always had a positive attitude even after his diagnosis. He will be greatly missed

  12. Ella and family. We were saddened to hear of your loss. Ella and Steve were such a great couple together. Always an inspiration for other couples.

    Steve was always eager to answer your call or volunteer his time.

    Steve was a great co-worker and always had a positive attitude. One day I asked Steve, how do you manage to be so positive all the time. Steves reply; I choose Happiness every day!
    What a great Rule of Life to live by.

    I can just imagine that Steve is extremely Happy that the Detroit Lions are finally having a winning season

    Thank You Steve and Ella for being a part of our life!

  13. Dear Ella and family,

    We offer you our deepest condolences on Steve’s passing. I first got to know Steve when he worked on our equipment at IBM in the 1980s. He was not only highly competent, he was an extremely good guy. Wherever we met him, he always had a smile on his face and some welcome conversation. You’d be hard pressed to find a nicer guy. He can rest in peace knowing he lived a good life and was a positive force in the world.

    With sincere sympathy,

    Bill and Sharon Espe

  14. Amanda, Brandon, Cole and family,

    We are sorry for your loss. If you met Steve once or knew him a lifetime, it was clear right away that his love and positivity energy were vibrate and always shared in his presence. We feel blessed and grateful to have met him! We send you love and prayers during this time, and may he rest in peace.
    Jenn & Aaron

  15. Dear Brianna, So sorry to read of your fathers passing. Over the years with you I have learned of your fathers battle with leukemia and come to know your family. I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for strength and peace at this difficult time.

  16. Dear Ella and family, Steve was a wonderful man with a loving personality. Always with a big smile and a funny story. We enjoyed both of you while I worked at JCI. Our sincere condolences,

    Mark & Tracie Lusby

  17. Ella,
    I cannot express how sad I am to hear of Steve’s passing. May the good lord guide you through this grief. Steve was a strong fighter through his entire cancer journey. He was assigned as my mentor through Roger Maris in 2020. We had many things in common – I am an Air Force vet and I was also diagnosed with AML, we both had Dr. Gross an Dr. Maliske and both of us had our transplants at the Univ of MN Fairview under the care of Dr. Brunstein. His calls to me helped me more than he knew and I appreciated his knowledge, encouragement and tremendous support. Cancer takes so much away from families but I know he did not waste a single day of the extra 9 years after his diagnoses. His love for his family and friends was felt through our conversations. Mike and I will keep you in our prayers to bring you extra strength.

  18. Ella and family;
    It saddens my heart to hear of Steve’s passing. I worked several years at Meritcare, some of those with Ella. I fondly remember our holiday gatherings and Steve and Ella! What a sweet, sweet couple. I can’t imagine you apart. I know that Steve is gone from you now Ella, but those memories are forever a cherished part of our souls. And you and the girls and the extended family now, congratulations on such a beautiful life together with Steve! I know in my soul he is still watching over you..just listen…just watch..just feel..it’s his love ❤️
    May our Lord, hold and comfort you and the family from this time forward…🙏

  19. Dear Ella, I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband. I was so happy to see both of you come into Scheels H and H about 2 mo. ago. Steve always loved a good sale! I will miss his smiling face!! Cherish all the wonderful memories you have made! Please stop in and say hi sometime! Take care of yourself! I am the cashier that you and Steve would stop by and visit!!!! Love, Vernice Helgeson

  20. Steve was a great friend and hunting partner he was fun to be around he did a lot with my brother Brad he also died of cancer he spent a lot of time hunting at our farm in Hannah sorry to here that


Sign the Guestbook, Light a Candle

Accessibility Tools
hide