Surjeet Kaur Sarpal

surjeet sarpal

Surjeet’s service will be livestreamed below on Tuesday, January 28, 2025

Surjeet Kaur Sarpal of Fargo, North Dakota, passed away peacefully at home at the age of 87 on Tuesday, January 21, 2025, surrounded by her loving family.

Born in Calcutta, India, on September 23, 1937, Surjeet was the daughter of Kanwar Jaswant Singh Jassal, a successful businessman, and Harbhans Kaur, a devoted homemaker. She grew up in a large family,where she learned early on the values of love, resilience, and adaptability that would define her life.

At the age of 21, Surjeet embarked on the journey of a lifetime, traveling to Jalandhar, India, to meet her husband of 64 years, Lakhbir Singh Sarpal. Together, they built a life filled with adventure, moving to London, England; Belfast, Ireland; Saskatoon, Saskatchewan; and ultimately settling in Fargo, North Dakota, in 1991.

Surjeet’s remarkable ability to adapt and thrive in diverse cultures was a testament to her strength and resourcefulness. She was a self-taught baker, cook, gardener, seamstress, and Sudoku enthusiast—a woman of immense ingenuity and creativity. Her adaptability and unwavering resilience carried her family through life’s many challenges, and her strength was an anchor for all who knew her.

A devout and deeply religious woman, Surjeet was a pillar of the Sikh and Indian community in Fargo. Her home was not just a place to live but a vibrant hub of hospitality, where countless celebrations, afternoon teas, and family gatherings took place. Surjeet had a special gift for making everyone feel welcome, offering newcomers a sense of belonging and warmth, and fostering a community that reflected her own generous spirit. Her friends spanned the globe, and her kindness left an indelible mark on all who had the privilege of knowing her.

Surjeet is survived by her children Rajbir (Kristin) Sarpal, Harsharan Sarpal, and Sona (Tony) Diocee; her grandchildren Anjani (Adam) Traeger, Harneal Diocee, Milan Sarpal, and Mia Diocee; her great-granddaughter, Xenia Sarpal; and her siblings Amrit Kaur Rikhraj, Harbhajan Kaur Jassal, and Avtar Singh Jassal. She is preceded in death by her beloved husband, Lakhbir Singh Sarpal, and her parents.

Surjeet’s life was a masterclass in strength, love, and connection. She taught us to open our hearts and homes, embrace life’s challenges with resilience, and cherish the moments that truly matter. Her warm smile, loving demeanor, and unwavering spirit will be deeply missed but forever remembered.

Surjeet Kaur Sarpal’s memorial service will take place on Tuesday, January 28th, at 1 PM at Boulger Funeral Home, 123 10th Street South, Fargo, ND 58103, followed by a procession to the Boulger Crematorium located at 321 27th Circle S, Fargo. Special thanks to the medical teams from Sanford Hospital and Sanford Hospice for their compassionate care of our beloved mother.

Services

Funeral Service - Tuesday: January 28, 2025 1:00 pm

Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103

701-237-6441
www.boulgerfuneralhome.com

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  1. Dear Sarpal family, my thoughts/prayers go out to u n your families at this difficult time! First of all, for the loss of your dad last year. He was such a kind, humble,caring, and gifted doctor , whom I’m so honored I had the privilege to work with all those years in the Beach Hospital. Your mother was such a beautiful, kind, caring woman, whom I enjoyed visiting with whenever I saw her with your dad. She had quite a sense of humor as I remember, as Michelle Hardy/ Irene Walters hosted Sonas bachelorette party up at the old 10th Hole , and your mom ,and even your grandma joined right in the fun!! Your mom was just a ” hoot!”
    I know your mom n dad would be so proud of the 3 of you children , and their grandchildren as well!! GODS BLESSINGS n LOVE to each of u!! ✝️ 🪻💗💗💗💖💖🪻✝️

  2. Dear auntiji, we will miss you so much. You have been a part of our family since we moved to Fargo. We will always remember your smile, your hospitality, your elegance and grace. We are lucky and blessed to have known you. it is difficult to imagine life in Fargo without you…..God bless…

  3. Dear Sarpal Family:

    As we remember and celebrate the life of Surjeet Aunty, let us remember the laughter and joy she brought into our lives. May her memory continue to inspire and uplift us as we navigate this world without her presence. Together, we can honor her legacy and cherish the moments we shared. Her life was a tapestry woven with kindness, generosity, and a deep affection for her family and her community.

    As we bid farewell to Surjeet Aunty, our hearts are undoubtedly heavy with sorrow, yet at the same time, brimming with gratitude. Therefore, we say thank you, Aunty for your unwavering friendship and your vibrant spirit. Although you’re no longer with us physically, nevertheless, the impact of your presence will forever resonate in our lives. Our thoughts and prayers go out to aunty’s family.

    Riaz & DeLana Aziz

  4. Dear Mamiji
    We were lucky to share life with you & learn about your amazing experiences at very early life . Thanks for guiding & showing love care respect to us .Bhanu & I are so glad that we met you last year @ Anjani, s wedding. You will be missed by everyone 🙌♥️
    Sending warm hug to all our Sarpal family in USA & prayers of strength as you plan for Mamiji, s last journey.
    Bubbles Deep Bhanu Shamon &Aari 💐

  5. My deepest condolences to Sarpal family. Surjeet aunty will be dearly missed. I will always remember her kindness and warm smile. She touched so many lives, including mine.
    With heartfelt sympathy,
    Divya Saxena

  6. We are deeply saddened by the loss of such a wonderful soul. Surjeet aunty was a parental figure to us and guided us with so much wisdom, kindness, and love. Her memory of joyful spirit will remain forever in our hearts. Sending love and prayers to Sarpal family during this difficult time.
    Vineet Saxena

  7. Meeting Dr Sarpal and Surjit Auntyji in Fargo was the best thing that happened to us. I was blessed to know them and the love they shared with me and my family was akin to that of a parent with their kids.
    Their loving nature and always welcoming attitude brought me back to Fargo multiple times to visit them. They were always there for me when I needed any help or guidance like a parent. They will be dearly missed by us and the Fargo community. No words can express how we are feeling. May Waheguru bless these souls . Love Kanwar and Naman.

  8. What an amazing person and what a remarkable life. I feel so lucky that Aunty ji was part of our life.Our Fargo family will not be the same without her. There are no words for the legacy aunty ji has left on our family . Her shining personality will live on in our hearts. We learnt so much from her but so much left to learn. We will miss your immense love,hospitality ,support , care and kindness. Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs. We are so so sorry for your loss.
    We will miss you aunty ji and kids new Nani
    Regards,
    Tushar, Shilpi, Aarnik and Anvay

  9. So sorry to lose a great, cheerful and very inspiring sister. Waheguru bless her soul. I will miss my evergreen friend /sister. 🙏❤️🌹🇨🇦🥲

  10. Dear Surjeetji,
    Our family is lucky and blessed to know you since last 30years in Fargo. You were very important part of every stage of our life-kid’s graduation, wedding, grandkid’s birthdays and so many more events. You were loving, kind poise, elegant, welcoming, full of wisdom, accepting, eager to learn new things, resilient and list can go on and on but not enough words to describe you. We are going to miss you immensely, you will remain in our memories always. May your soul rest in peace🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  11. Always in our hearts my darling Mamiji, you will be forever missed and your love will never be forgotten. Rest in peace with our beloved Mamaji. 🙏🏼🪯❤️

  12. Dear Surjeet ji,
    We can’t believe that you are not longer among and with us but our fond memories together will always be with our family. Our daughters did not believe when we told them about you leaving this mortal world to join loving Doctor Sahib.
    Our many years together in Fargo and the most recent visit to Minneapolis for Indu’s retirement will remain with us forever. We know you are now resting in peace.
    Our heartfelt condolences to the family and FM community. We wish we could join the last moments together but God wished it otherwise because of some injury in Indu’s right hand. Om Shanti Om.

  13. My dearest mamiji, the world was a more beautiful & colourful place with you around. Such a vibrant, lively soul with a smile always on your face & a cheeky glint in your lovely eyes. You have left a void in all our hearts but you can now join our cherished mamaji and be one again, together. We will miss you xx 💕🙏

  14. My dear Didi I will miss you dearly. My prayers are with all your families and friends to be strong. I am so sorry for not able to come see you as promised. I will see you on the other side of the world. Didi my pronam to you and dada

  15. mamiji,

    love you. Always have. will really miss you.
    “deho sajan assissariyan, je hovey sahib sayon male ”

    sujaan

  16. What an amazing, beautiful, loving, peaceful and fearless Soul!
    Feel so blessed to be showered with your endless love, hugs, care.
    Hard to believe that you left us ! You will always be loved and remembered!

  17. Our dearest Bade Mamiji. You’ll missed so so much. Rest in Peace in heaven. We love you and will always remember you ever so fondly.

  18. Our dearest Bade Mamiji. You’ll be missed so so much. Rest in Peace in heaven. We love you and will always remember you ever so fondly.

  19. Surjeet Ji you will always be remembered for your love, generosity, and kindness. You will be fondly missed. Rest in peace in heaven. 🙏🙏

  20. My dear Surjeet Aunty! I can’t express my feelings how much i am missing your absence. I will never forget your smiling face and warm hugs. My only regret i couldn’t get to spend more time with you but i feel honored that I had the opportunity to get to know and love you. Even though you’re not here with us physically, your spirit will always be in our hearts”

  21. Dearest loving Massi ji ,
    What a pleasant personality you were Massiji Once anyone meets you , you left your imprints . My loving Massi ji you will be missed always .Love u and missed u
    Rest in peace


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