Theodore "Ted" Novetzke
September 9, 1949 ~ November 30, 2023
Born in:
Breckenridge, MN
Resided in:
Fargo, ND
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Theodore (Ted) Lee Novetzke passed away on November 30, 2023, at home under the care of his wife, family and Hospice. He was born September 9, 1949, the eldest child of Betty and Leon Novetzke. He was raised and educated in Wahpeton, ND. He attended St. John’s Catholic School, Richardton Abbey, and graduated from Wahpeton High School in 1967. Ted studied and learned to fly, receiving his FAA private pilot’s license at the age of 16, laying the foundation of his later military career. He also attended NDSCS and NDSU.
During the era shortly after WWII, his childhood was marked by faith, fresh air, and friendships. A typical first born, his three siblings recall his fearless pursuits of fast go-carts, water skiing, and trampolines. He knew how to squeeze the fun out of every experience. Family gatherings with many cousins brought joyful memories. Playing sports and neighborhood games, being an altar boy and having a paper route also shaped his childhood. He worked in the family business as well as doing chores, babysitting his siblings, and helping his Grandpa Leo. From the start, he had initiative. It was not enough to fix the problem, it needed to be optimal. Hard work grew the values that prevailed through his life.
There was an extra special bond between him and his grandfather, Ted Maher, his namesake. After Grandpa Ted’s early death, his Grandma Ollie and he spent countless hours together sharing a similar bond.
After attending St. John’s Catholic School for eight years, Ted went to Assumption Abbey in Richardton, ND for the first two years of high school. Returning to his hometown, he finished high school graduating from Wahpeton High School in 1967. He took an early interest in flying. Most families went on Sunday drives, but Ted’s dad thought an after-church plane ride followed by a treat at Bushee’s market was better. Therein the love of flying began.
Ted married his high school sweetheart Edith Thenagels in 1969. The young couple worked and attended college while raising their first child Brigette. During this time, Ted attended NDSCS for 2 years before the draft lottery picked his birthdate. Ted entered the US Army headed for Aviation Flight candidate school March 3, 1970. After 12 weeks of basic training, he was accepted into Warrant Officer School and Training. He ultimately earned the rank of CW3 Chief Warrant Officer, impressive for his age. At the time of being stationed at Fort Bragg, NC their second daughter Bonita was born.
He served a full tour in Viet Nam returning April 1972. Our country was very divided about our role in this fight. He told of his training and duty to the country while trying to make it home safely.
He belonged to the Cat Killer Pilot Unit. He flew OH-6 Loach Helicopters and a Bird Dog. He wore the Broken Wing Insignia based on an unplanned landing for some airframe failure. After Viet Nam he was headed home. The army mandated a Rotary Wing qualification, and he was stationed at 5th Corp Headquarters, Frankfurt West Germany. The family lived in Hanau, Germany near the airfield from 1972-1975.
While in Germany, his family had many adventures exploring Europe and Ted became competent in speaking German. He served in the North Dakota National Guard once he was back home. Ted was an avid supporter of the armed forces, a member of the VFW and loved his country dearly. The time he served forged many friendships that Ted maintained his whole life.
After being honorably discharged, he brought his young family back to Wahpeton, ND to run the family business . He owned partnership in Wahpeton Glass and Paint until 1988. During these years, he met and married Julie Cooper on September 17,1983 and gained two daughters, Lori and Jenifer. Ted and Julie were married for 40 years.
They built a beautiful home on 2nd Street and enjoyed many years taking their girls to the lakes and all the joys of raising daughters. Ted and Julie moved to the Twin Cities, and he continued working in the window business. He worked for SNE being a top seller of Crestline and Vetter windows.
Ted’s passionate determination to always improve things coupled with a clever, ingenious mind, he thought to create a new energy efficient and economical window. Building numerous prototypes, he forged that dream in the basement of their home. With determination and confidence in his newly designed window, he launched Vinylite Windows in 1995. He invested everything he had financially, physically, and emotionally. What started out in his basement grew and eventually the production as well as the corporate home was brought to the Fergus Falls, MN area.
Many employees and investors complemented the growth of the company, but the mainstay of the success came from Ted’s unique combination of perseverance and ingenuity. He and Julie were able to reap the benefits of the good fortune they earned and retired in 2009. This early success made him available to build relationships and lend a hand to family and friends alike.
Ted was always a trendsetter. If you received a gift from him, it was not just nice, it was special. A curious mind led Ted to be the first to own the latest and the greatest gadget. It was not the status, rather the innovation that went into this new thing that drew him. He often drove great cars. But true to his values, he happily cancelled the Corvette on order in lieu of a Griswold-mobile to transport his newly blended family.
Zest for fun was a trademark of Ted’s, particularly in his younger days. He could tell a story with great zeal and often was the life of the party. His athletic coordination was evident in his love of both water and snow skiing. One of several noteworthy ski trips he enjoyed was in the Alps in Germany. Early impressions left by his Grandpa Leo drew him to enjoy fishing on Battle Lake.
Ted liked including a grandchild on the boat as was his habit of carrying on traditions that helped to form his own character. The grandchildren as well as the nieces and nephews could always count on a stunningly exhilarating ride on the tubes behind his boat. He also became a voracious reader after retirement. None can forget Ted’s love for Golf! He enjoyed memberships at Red River Senior Golf, Henning Golf Club, and Balmoral Golf Club. He had a home in Arizona at Leisure World set alongside the golf course, a place he and Julie enjoyed for many years and loved hosting family and friends.
Certainly, his daughters will pass on the sage advice Ted offered. “Just step up to bat! If you never take a swing, you will never know if you could’ve hit a home run.” And “Sure, you will hit a few bumps in the road, but this is a long-distance race, not a sprint.” And of course, “Win the war, not the battle.”
Tending to matter of the heart as the years went on, was something Ted valued. He drew on the special bond he had with his own Grandpa Ted Maher. That relationship left a deep impression on Ted’s heart that carried on into his especially close relationship with his grandson Nicholas Braun. As with all of his kids and grandchildren, his dreams were that they knew their significance and potential, and certainly that they were loved dearly. Each beautiful child and grandchild evoked much pride and joy.
As he aged the importance of family and faith became evident in all his decisions. As the world continued to change, he often felt the desire to pass on the old-fashioned values of his youth. Ted had great determination and drive. Once he set his sight on a goal, he would push on and finish well. This was very evident in his last season as he wanted to see that his beloved Julie and family were secure. He faced that which was ahead with care, courage, and dignity.
Ted was preceded in death by his parents, Betty Lou and J. Leon Novetzke, grandparents Ted and Ollie Maher, Rose and Leo Novetzke; beloved in-laws Lawrence (Bill) and Gertrude (Trudie) Cooper; granddaughter Abigail Lauren Braun. He will be dearly missed and survived by his wife Julie Cooper Novetzke, daughters Brigette (Tom)Davis, Bonnie Martinson, Lori (Rick Kaufmann) Taylor, Jenifer Polipnick Braun. Grandchildren Dustin Fronk, Jordan Fronk, Karly Martinson, Evan Martinson and Nicholas Braun. Great Granddaughter Kinsley Rae Felsheim and a great grandson Baylor Dean Kiefer; his siblings Thomas (Kris) Novetzke, Julie (Ron) Woeste and Andrew Novetzke. Cousins, nieces, nephews, extended family and friends are too numerous to list. Ted’s entire family is blessed to know how dearly loved he was by so many.
Visitation will be held at Sts. Anne & Joachim Catholic Church in Fargo on December 14, 2023, from 9:00am to 10:00 am with a Memorial Mass at 10:00am. Lunch and a time to reminisce will follow, then interment will be held at Fargo National Cemetery in rural Harwood, ND at 1:00pm. A full honors ceremony will be conducted by the Fargo Memorial Honor Guard and Active Duty Army Honors Detail to honor Ted’s time serving his country.
The family wishes to extend a special thank you to Gina, Krista and Natasha from Hospice of the Red River Valley for the exceptional care they provided Ted.
In lieu of flowers, we ask that donations be made to Lend a Hand Up, the Salvation Army or a charity of your choice.
Services
Visitation - Thursday: December 14, 2023 9:00 am
Sts. Anne and Joachim Catholic Church, Fargo
5202 25th St. S.
Fargo , North Dakota 58104
(701) 235-5757
https://stsaaj.org/
Memorial Service - Thursday: December 14, 2023 10:00 am
Sts. Anne and Joachim Catholic Church, Fargo
5202 25th St. S.
Fargo , North Dakota 58104
(701) 235-5757
https://stsaaj.org/
Burial - Thursday: December 14, 2023 1:00 pm
Fargo National Cemetery
8709 40th Avenue North, Co Rd 20
Harwood, North Dakota 58042
(701) 451-4650
https://www.cem.va.gov/cems/nchp/fargo.asp
Julie and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Ted was bigger than life with all his great stories . He will be remembered for his giving nature .
You are I my thoughts as you grieve his passing.
This is from Bill Novetzke:
Sad news dear loved ones. Believers relate to their Creator as a God that Loves and is merciful. In his Realm are many mansions for those Souls who seek Him, and those who seek Redemption. Ted’s Soul is in Holy residence. All memories of war and personal hurt are abolished. Some highly Religious would describe Ted as safe in the Mind of God. Quoting the Church–May his soul and the souls of the faithful departed rest in peace.
Farewell, Ted. We shall meet again in that Heavenly place reserved for Old, Bold Pilots!
To all Ted’s family, please accept my sincere condolences at this difficult time of your loss. Ted and I grew up together in Wahpeton and I can still remember and laugh at some of the things we did as kids! I’ll keep you all in prayer. Julie, I am so sorry for your loss. Take care.
Ted and I shared some adventure together in our youth. It was a great ride to share our travels l. I will miss him greatly and will have fond memories of our candid conversations . God bless you Ted.
In the Wahpeton newspaper, years ago, about Ted’s combat record in Vietnam. Ted was always a fun guy to have a conversation with….a great story teller. Thank you for your military service Ted. RIP.
So sorry for your loss. I met Ted thru golfing at Red River Golf Association. He often was a partner with John Mark Aaby of Mayville, ND. I was lucky to have had chances to golf together as a group with both of them. Ted was a great guy and good golfer. He had a great personality. He seemed very intelligence. I will miss golfing and having lunch with him afterwards.
So sorry to hear of the loss of your brother, Julie. Our prayers are with your family.
There are no words that I could choose that would even come close to explaining how lucky & blessed I have been to call you Dad.
From the very beginning, you treated me as your biological daughter, when you didn’t have to.
I’ve been afforded so many opportunities in my life that I may have never had because of you, & you pushed me further than I have ever been pushed to show me that I can do anything I set my mind to, Thank You!
I’ve been extremely blessed to know what having a consistent, selfless “father” means.
Through my rights or wrongs, good times or bad times, hard times or happy times, you were always there for me.
I always knew that I could come to you with anything.
I completely trusted you with my life, my heart, & my well-being, & I always knew that you loved me unconditionally & wanted nothing but the best for me in any situation.
You always made sure that you reinforced my self worth, my potential, & always pushed me to be the best version of myself in whatever I was doing.
I can hear your voice in my head saying, “March forward Lori,” & I will do exactly that because I love & respect you very much & I WILL fulfill the promises that I made to you.
I’m going to miss you so much, & when I pick up the phone to call you & catch myself doing so, I know that all I have to do is talk to you & you will guide me through whatever the situation may be, just like you always have.
I Love You Dad!
Julie and Family,
As a Sundance neighbor and a former associate board member with Ted, I always enjoyed our occasional conversations. I could see Ted’s dedication to Sundance by his willingness to serve on the board as an active participant.
As a fellow veteran, I salute your initiative spirit and dedication.
Julie and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My memories of Ted are in complete appreciation. He was a mentor to me early in my career. I am so grateful for the insight and direction that he gave me!
Peace to you and your entire family! You will be in my prayers and please know how fond my memories of Ted are!
Peace to you,
Daryl Doehr
Wyoming, MN
Over the years, those same daring qualities that got Ted into trouble as a kid made him a very successful businessman, but he always retained those childlike qualities that made him the caring, fun, charitable adult whose endless stories we all enjoyed.
In our later years, Ted and I became not only cousins, but close friends, sharing holidays and getting together whenever we happened to be in the same place; Arizona in the winter, the Lake in the summer. We had long conversations on the phone covering every imaginable topic as we found ourselves with more time on our hands…we both like to ramble on.
I came to regret the time we had lost before we reconnected, and now, like all of us, I’m missing Ted terribly. My life is less rich without Teddy.