Thomas Roger Knutson, 73, known to most simply as Tom and to a lucky few as T‑Bone, was born in Fargo, North Dakota, on March 17, 1953, and wrapped up his remarkable life in the same city on August 6, 2026. Tom was a rock and roller to the very end and uniquely himself every step of the way.
Tom grew up in Fargo as the eldest of four brothers, a role he embraced with pride, mischief, and the patience unique to an oldest sibling. Under his mother Shirley’s guidance, the Knutson household was lively, noisy, and chaotic, likely shaping Tom’s sense of humor and gentle demeanor. After graduating from Fargo South High School, he quickly discovered his passion for music. A talented keyboard and organ player, he toured across the country with bands like the Roughriders and Anything Goes, gaining stories, friendships, and probably a few questionable hotel receipts. His talent was evident; his musical taste impeccable, and his love for rock and roll enduring.
Eventually, Tom traded the touring life for raising kids, working many years as a painter at Case New Holland, and building a life he was proud of. One of his proudest moments was marrying Nicole, the love of his life, and buying a home together. Nicole was his favorite person, his best friend, and the center of his world. If Tom was doing something fun, interesting, or mildly chaotic, Nicole was usually nearby.
Tom’s passions were endless and delightfully nerdy: astronomy, model rockets, airplanes, trains, steam engines, gardening, bicycling, camping, and anything involving nature or science. He loved good food, good beer, good company, and, of course, good music. He was an active part of Fargo’s bar and music scene from an early age, playing with various bands across the FM area throughout his life. He was also a former Boy Scout leader and a former member of the FM Astronomy Club.
But nothing lit him up like being a grandfather. Alivia and Ansley were the pride of his life, and he adored every moment he spent with them. His kids and grandkids knew him as gentle, goofy, smart, and endlessly supportive. His humor was one‑of‑a‑kind, his passions contagious, and his presence unforgettable.
Tom is survived by his wife, Nicole Knutson (Lies); his children, Kirsten (Matt) Earley, Brad (Alicia) Knutson, Jenny (Keith) Mernitz, and Mike Knutson; his grandchildren, Siv and Lula Earley, Alivia and Ansley Knutson; his brothers, Jim and Jerry (Jane) Knutson; his mother-in-law Yvonne Lies; his nieces, nephews and many friends who loved him dearly. He is preceded in death by his parents, Myron and Shirley Knutson; his father-in-law, Art Lies; and his brother, Dick Knutson.
Tom’s life was full of music, laughter, curiosity, and love. His sense of humor, gentle nature, and passion for the things he loved will never be forgotten. He leaves behind a legacy of creativity, kindness, and stories that will be told for years to come.
Family and friends are invited to celebrate the life of Thomas Roger Knutson, who passed away on August 6, 2026. Tom lived with many passions and filled his days with music and laughter.
Those who knew Tom will remember his gentle nature (and impeccable taste in music). He had a way of making memories with everyone he met and made people feel included.
Please join us for a celebration of life on Monday, August 17, 2026, at 2:00 PM at Boulger Funeral Home. Guests are encouraged to wear something they think Tom would have liked (band tees, tie-dye, etc.). In Tom’s honor, the family invites you to send plants or donations in lieu of flowers.
Services
Visitation: Monday, August 17, 2026 1:00 pm - 2:00 pm
Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103
701-237-6441
https://boulgerfuneralhome.com
Celebration of Life: Monday, August 17, 2026 2:00 pm
Boulger Funeral Home and Celebration of Life Center
123 10th Street S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58103
701-237-6441
https://boulgerfuneralhome.com






Please know that I am thinking of you and your family and holding you close in my heart during this difficult time. I will always be grateful for the friendship I shared with Tom, and you as well.
With love, hugs and friendship,
Vicky
Thank You Vicky for all your kind words & support. FYI I got ahold of Dan Turner & Charlie Gruchala today. Dan said he worked until 3pm Monday but he would try to make it. Charlie said he knew the whole band Anything Goes & he will try to make it too. Both knew Tom & I for over 30 years.
Thank you Randy. Tom’s son Brad asked me to reach out to some of the bnd members to have them tell staries but you reached out to me first, so thaks again.
Tom was a great friend. He was so much fun to be around, his laugh, his smile, his inquisitive nature not to mention an excellent musician.
Thank You Rusty for your kind words. Hope to see you Monday.
Thinking back to our school days, I’m glad I had the opportunity to know Tom. My thoughts are with his family and all those who knew him better and shared more of life’s journey with him. May he rest in peace. Gary and Deb Korsgaden
My condolences to Tom’s family and friends. May the memories of his life bring comfort during this difficult time. Rest in peace, Tom…….Gary and Deb Korsgaden
Nicole – My thoughts are with you. Try to keep life in balance as you travel your path. You two were blessed to have found each other.
Our favorite band that rocked my world was Anything Goes back in the day! That was the best times to be in a band. The great bands like Anything Goes and others would play several nights or all week often times at one establishment! T-Bone was phenomenal, he always looked so cool and had the rockn’ roll look! He had the long straight light brown/ blondish looking hair resembling Greg Almond. Me and my now wife Kristen danced, danced danced to these guys all over the area. The bars in Fargo, the Broken Wheel in Detroit Lakes and even going up to Winning! Thank you T-Bone for you and Anything Goes for bring so very much joy into our lives! Rock on now up in Heaven bro!