Wendy K. Trottier

wendy trottier

July 6, 1950 ~ March 28, 2024

Born in: Edina, Minnesota
Resided in: Fargo, North Dakota

Wendy’s Celebration of Life Service will be livestreamed below starting at 10:45 AM Friday.

Wendy Kay Trottier (Weingartner), of West Fargo, passed away March 28, 2024, at the age of 73.

She is survived by her husband Terrence, her children, Terry (Valerie) Trottier, Jennifer (Kent) Kraiter, Cory (Sally) Trottier and Heidi (Patrick) Nicklay, and seven grandchildren, Tori (Brandon) Thorn, Taylor (Cierra) Trottier, Hannah Kraiter (Alan Johnson), Owen Nicklay, Kaylee Kraiter, Andrew Trottier, and Benjamin Nicklay. She was also blessed with three great grandchildren, Caleb and Kaylee Thorn and Carson Trottier. Her sisters Barb (Gary) Erickson, Sue (Pete) Zeigler, stepmother Mavis Weingartner and nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends too numerous to count. She is preceded in death by her parents Andrew and Shirley Weingartner, her sister Patti Geffre, and her son Michael.

She was born in Edina, Minnesota and lived there until she went to college in Moorhead, Minnesota. As fate would have it, she would meet her husband, Terrence, walking home from a basketball game in early February. They were married, September 13th, 1969, and moved to Horace, North Dakota. It was there they had all five of their children who overcrowded their small home, so they decided to move to West Fargo, North Dakota, where they lived for the next 47 years.

Wendy worked at St. Luke’s, Merit Care, and Sanford, as a unit clerk in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit for nearly 40 years. This is where she built many of the friendships that she still has to this day. She was very active in the community. As a member of the Jayceettes and the Women of Today, she spent countless hours volunteering at the local theater and several group homes in the area but her greatest passion in life, besides her family, was the Red River Zoo. She was one of their first volunteers. She led a junior zookeeper’s program and gave countless outreach presentations at the local schools, birthday parties and any other event she could. She also enjoyed giving back to the church, Hope Lutheran, where she helped mentor and teach children with learning disabilities. She was also involved with several fundraisers for the Fargo Fine Arts.

Wendy will be missed by so many, but we all rest easier knowing she has been reunited with her parents and her son. May she continue to watch over us as we grieve and remember the great wife, mother, grandmother, and friend that she was. We love you!

In lieu of flowers a donation to the Red River Zoo or American Diabetes Association would be appreciated.

Services

Visitation - Friday: April 12, 2024 10:00 am - 11:00 am

Hope Lutheran Church Fargo, South Campus
3636 25th St S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58104

(701) 235-6629
https://www.fargohope.org/

Celebration of Life - Friday: April 12, 2024 11:00 am

Hope Lutheran Church Fargo, South Campus
3636 25th St S.
Fargo, North Dakota 58104

(701) 235-6629
https://www.fargohope.org/

Burial - Friday: April 12, 2024 2:00 pm

Fargo National Cemetery
8709 40th Avenue North, Co Rd 20
Harwood, North Dakota 58042

(701) 451-4650
https://www.cem.va.gov/cems/nchp/fargo.asp

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  1. We send our deepest sympathies to you and your family. May God’s love surround you and provide you with strength and comfort in the days ahead.

  2. Candle lit in memory of Wendy. Who I met while at Merticare’s therapy center after I was involved in a serious accident while helping with traffic control for the Fargo/Moorhead Flood of 2009. We bonded instantly ever since than she has been like a mom to me. Thank you so much Wendy for letting me be part of your family. I miss you so much. Love you always and forever!

  3. It’s hard to find the right words to describe someone as remarkable as Wendy. Her unwavering dedication to the Red River Zoo touched the lives of tens of thousands of visitors over the years.
    I can’t even imagine how many smiles she brought or how many cherished memories she created for our guests. Yet, Wendy was more than a dedicated volunteer; she was a beloved member of our “Zoo family.” Her kindness, warmth, and genuine compassion touched the lives of everyone at the zoo. She was always there to celebrate accomplishments during the good times and give us pep talks during challenging times.
    I am lucky to have worked with her and to have been her friend. Though Wendy may no longer walk beside us, her legacy endures, woven into the very fabric of our zoo. We miss you, Wendy. Your memory will forever inspire us.

  4. Condolences to Wendy’s family from one of her old-time friends at the zoo. May happy memories of yesteryear help ease the sorrow felt now.

  5. As I reflect on years now past, I remember so well Wendy and the group of volunteers
    Who worked so well with the start up of the Red River Zoo. I was thankful for each time
    Wendy and I met in the community. What a cheerful, caring, loving disposition.
    In our younger years a familiar song to both of us which epitomized Wendy’s love
    For children and the animals of the earth. “Bless the Beasts and the Children.” Sung
    By Karen Carpenter. Praying for the Peace of Christ for the Family.

  6. Terry and family
    I am so sorry for your loss!
    May all your memories bring special moments to each of you.

  7. Wendy touched so many lives! She leaves a legacy at the Zoo that will live on in the many guests, staff, fellow volunteers and the hundreds of kids she guided in the junior zoo keeper program. She was instrumental in the start up and success of this program. I saw first hand the love and encouragement she gave every single kid.
    My deepest sympathies to Terry and all her family.


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