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Romanus "Ray" Blotsky

February 17, 1916 - December 12, 2012


3-5:00 P.M. Sunday, December 16, 2012 at St. Francis de Sales Catholic Church, Steele N.D.

12-1:00 P.M. Monday, December 17, 2012 at St. Francis de Sales Catholic Church, Steele N.D.

Prayer Service:

5:00 P.M. Sunday, December 16, 2012 at St. Francis de Sales Catholic Church, Steele N.D.

Funeral Service:

1:00 P.M. Monday, December 17, 2012 at St. Francis de Sales Catholic Church, Steele N.D.


Holy Cross Cemetery, Steele N.D.


Boulger Funeral Home, Fargo.

Romanus "Ray" Blotsky

February 17, 1916 - December 12, 2012


Romanus Blotsky Jr. 96, Steele, ND died on December 12, 2012 at Sheyenne Crossing Care Center, West Fargo, ND. Ray Blotsky was born February 17, 1916 in Raleigh, ND, the son of Romanus Blotsky, Sr. and Bertha (Both) Blotsky.  He was baptized on March 13, 1916 in St. Gertrude Catholic Church, Raleigh, ND.

In 1931 Ray joined the CCC, Civil Conservation Corps building dams, sidewalks, and roads in the mountains in Idaho. During the depression he worked for anyone who would give him a job. He signed up for the Army but was deferred as they were needed for farmers.  (Soldiers on the Home Front)  Ray married Agnes Winters on June 2, 1938 in Bismarck, ND.  They farmed south of Raleigh until 1941, and worked on the Spicer Ranch north of Watauga, SD. They also farmed east of Shields, ND before moving outside of Shields where Ray operated a small Skelly Service Station for three years. In 1951 he moved his family to Steele, ND where he operated Ray’s Skelly Station on the corner of Old Highway 10 and US Highway #3.  Ray also started the Skelly Oil Bulk Service and later purchased a Soft serve-Ice Cream truck with food and called it “Chicken  Delight”.  In 1973 his business moved to the north side of Interstate-94 and was called “The Rough-Rider Café Truck Stop” with an Indian Chief painted the on window of the restaurant  Ray has always been known as “The Chief”. In 1978 Ray retired from the business. 

Ray always had a place in his heart for the Native American Indian.  You could tell by all the Indian memorabilia he has collected over the years.

Ray signed himself into the HEARTVIEW Treatment Center in 1986 and said “I saw the light and turned my life around and have lived a different life ever since”.  Sobriety has been my strength for 27 years.

After Ray retired he started to exercise by riding his bike and four wheel biking around town. At the age of 70 Ray started running races in the 70 + years class in many towns and states. Ray won 20 Gold metals, 11   Silver and 9 Bronze metals plus 3 Gold in the Prairie Rose Games along with other metals and ribbons. He continued running until the doctors told him he couldn’t run in completion because of health issues.

In 2007 Ray moved to West Fargo to Sheyenne Crossing Assisted Living for 1 year then moved to full nursing care.

Ray is survived by three sons, Roger (Renee) Blotsky, Phoenix, AZ; Leo (Donna) Blotsky, West Fargo, ND; Ronald Blotsky, Steele, ND. Eight grandchildren, Gregory (Lori) Blotsky, Missoula, MT; Mary (Jeff) Bock, Aberdeen, SD; Gail (Ted) Landis, Phoenix, AZ; Luke Blotsky, Phoenix, AZ; Todd Blotsky, West Fargo, ND; Teresa Blotsky, Fargo, ND: Michael Blotsky, Fargo, ND and Patricia (Chad) Janko, Bismarck, ND; 15 Great-grandchildren and 3 Great-great-grandchildren. He is survived by two sisters, Mary (Marie) Winters, Rapid City, SD and Emma Harmel of El Cajon, CA.

Ray was preceded in death by his wife, Agnes (Winters) Blotsky, an infant son, infant grandson, his parents, four       brothers; Joseph, Jacob, John and Engelbert, and a step-brother Phillip Engel; three sisters, Anna Bachmeier, Veronica (Vera) Nagel, Katherine Ripplinger.

Ray was a lifetime member of St Frances DeSales Catholic Church in Steele, ND from 1949 to present.

The family would like to give a special thank you to Ronald Blotsky for all the years that he took care of Dad in Steele. Also a very special thank you to the staff at Sheyenne Crossings, they took very good care of DAD.


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  1. Pat Boyer says:

    Fargo ND
    Our family became acquainted with Ray “Chief” during the time my parents were residents of Sheyenne Crossings Long Term Care. Chief was very kind to my folks. He showed wonderful respect for my mother and father. He was a very quiet and giving man. He always had time and energy to give beaded necklaces etc. He was proud of his very colorful and beaded canes. My folks looked forward to having Chief join them at the table outside their room(s).

    Chief told us about his sadness after the loss of his wife. He was very open to tell us when and how he knew he needed help to get his life back on track. I respect Chief very much!

    Our thoughts and prayers of sympathy are with Chief’s family and friends. Chief was a very wonderful man. I am so pleased our family had the opportunity to know and love Chief.

    Blessings to you all. Thank you for the positive memories, Chief!

    Pat (Sundseth) Boyer

  2. RAY BLOTSKE says:


  3. Ron & Judy Kalainov says:

    Peoria AZ
    Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. But knowing that “The Chief” has gone to meet his maker is a peaceful thought. Ray had so many good stories and was such a joy to visit with. We wish we could be there to celebrate his life. Take care.

  4. Father Hugo L. Blotsky, O.S.B. says:

    Thermopolis WyomingMy prayerful condolences to the family and friends of Ray Blotsky. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you grieve the loss of your loved one. Ray will be “Home for Christmas” so he can celebrate with family, other relatives and friends who have preceded him in death. May he rest in peace!

    I enjoyed visiting Ray at his home when I would be in Steele to offer Mass at the local parish church and at the mission churches. Ray had a colorful personality.

    He had many stories to share with me. The story that stands out in my mind the most is when he showed me
    a certificate he received from a Russian filming crew who interviewed him for a documentary on the life and experience of an American Indian chief.

    Father Hugo L. Blotsky, OSB
    St. Francis Church
    Thermopolis, Wyoming

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